Visible cosmetic changes to butt hole

I have seen/heard that extensive plugging changes the appearance of the butt hole.

I am wondering if this has to do with time length or girth or a combo of both. I know some people like it, but I personally don't want the alteration to the "outer sphincter." I know it is fine and healthy but I dislike it personally, no shame to those that have it.

Second guessing the egg large I have shipping or the TR75 in my cart. Would GK55 be fine? IDK please help inform me!

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u/Traditional-Crew-715 — 4 days ago

Tail Raiser vs Gape Keeper

Looking to get a Tail Raiser or Gape Keeper as an upgrade for my SPT Egg Large. Have not received it yet but with the Canada Day sale coming I figured I'd buy early. I will size up responsibly!

Anyway, I know both are recommended for extended wear but I was wondering what the pros and cons are of each.

The TR looks a little more discreet? Is this true? It also looks like it has a stronger taper from the top which is why I originally was interested in it.

Please advise!

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u/Traditional-Crew-715 — 11 days ago

Vixskin Mustang / Maverik question

Anyone know why there are two buldges as if there were 2 heads stacked on each other. Notice this in a lot of vixskin creations and it looks so weird to me. just curious why they were designed like this if anyone knows

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u/Traditional-Crew-715 — 11 days ago

Question on SPT Eggs

I've read about this before but I can't seem to find it for the life of me now...

I heard that certain sizes of SPT eggs have bad ratios and are very prone to falling out. I think this was the M and L/XL but I wanted to be sure. I want to buy a large and want to make sure it stays put.

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u/Traditional-Crew-715 — 29 days ago
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Popped slightly open and I kept it in a zip lock incase this ever happened. We'll zip lock isnt vacuum sealed obviously and I must have not noticed for long enough for it to have ruined my fukena gamer 😭

Messed with a few bags and a condom tin but luckily none of my other expensive dildos or strokers. But yeah zip lock ain't gonna cut it 😭😭😭

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u/Traditional-Crew-715 — 2 months ago

Trying to get a quick connect but it costs over 20 dollars to ship and I don't want to buy 90 dollars of other product. is there a 3d print for this? I can't find any sadly. Or any DIY methods to quick connect

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u/Traditional-Crew-715 — 2 months ago

I was just searching around and saw that the handy is 50% off?

https://www.thehandy.com/?srsltid=AfmBOoofQ7Mkd6EZTSJDr6Y092yM0SP2IjC_nGpZZm15BU5K2hRfxmnf

is this the real site? This seems way too good to be true wtf. The handy for the price of a fleshlight basically? Is this worth getting? I might actually get this now lmao holy that is cheap I think!

Any one who has it, thoughts? Never thought I'd buy an auto stroker due to the price but damn

u/Traditional-Crew-715 — 2 months ago

First of all wow I cant believe it was actually good. For anyone who hasn't seen it, look it up. It is so simple looking and looks like a waste of money-- it isn't!

First here is a preview of me and my experience:

20M Bisexual in straight relationship sexually active, 5" length 4.75" girth (all around average). Strokers I have owned:

- lovehoney transparent stroker (trash)

- arcwave voy (liked a lot at first, awfully loud so I stopped. Didn't feel that crazy good. Hurt more than anything lol)

- Fleshlight Boss Level (hated at first, took a while now I love it. Annoying to clean, works well.)

- Autumn Falls Quickshot (hated at first, took a while now I love it. Easy to clean, open ended is sometimes the vibe sometimes not)

Now for the review. Same as the voy the silicone is extremely soft! The reason I hate the voy now is that it feels more like you are rubbing a bunch of cock rings along your dick. It will finish you off but will hurt. Tightness is adjustable but at too loose the stimulation is just eh. I imagine it is like those no pinch cock rings just stacked when you make it tight enough to feel it.

Anyway that is all to say their silicone is consistently good, but this product is much better. For 18USD this product is very small and thin but it feels neat! The silicone is super stretchy so if you are bigger than it, it will just stretch around you. The texture doesn't feel lost at my girth and length. If you are like 6" girth i can imagine it would lose some. But for the average penis the textures stay. Textures look so bland but the softness is what gets you! Honestly looks lame but feels good.

This can actually be used lubeless, save a few bucks haha! Now before I get crucified for saying this let me explain. Since this is super small and silicone this can just be put tip to tip with ur dick and folded over it. You can jerk yourself like normal as if this is just another layer of skin and you won't feel the thing at all on your penis really. Maybe just a bit lower sensation. But if I do this for a small bit I produce enough precum to have it lubed enough for use! Silicone doesn't absorb like TPE and since it isnt a crazy absurd texture the surface area isnt crazy high that you need a ton of pre cover your penis.

This isnt much smaller than me, I think its around 3.5 and im 5. So going from the bottom of it to the bottom of me is more awkward than good. I imagine for a longer penis this is the move! I just hold it from the mid and pull it down. It stretches so easily and the textures dont feel lost at all. You can cum in it easily and since it is textured it doesn't just spill out (unless you have an absurdly large load lol I guess).

Going on a trip soon. Kinda didnt want to bring my full fleshlight or even quick with me just since its so bulky and ill be with friends. Mostly scared to get caught cleaning. This is so lowkey though! Also LOVE it being silicone. I love Fleshlights and was about to buy Golden Boy and Emily Willis Quickshot but this made me decide I dont think I will anymore! TPE is just so scary to have to maintain imo especially such large toys. Might go for an MRL onahole next if I can afford it, lol.

Final thoughts:

Price: 9/10 Cheap, but small for it price. Softness is likely the reason, dont really know.

Value: 10/10 Worth it! Cheap and works fine. 2 textures in one plus silicone

Textures: 7/10 Good. Both very basic. Does the job. Id like arcwave to make a crazy textured stroker soon. Would buy!

Orgasm: NULL. Don't feel comfortable rating right now. Already came today! Might update this in the future but it was solid especially for a second of the day.

Quality: 10/10 clean smooth silicone. Very nice

Presentation: 10/10 small case but functional. Can dry in case.

Brand: Arcwave

Model: Ghost

Vendor: Lovehoney US

Nondiscounted price: 18USD

Discount recieved: 25% (found online)

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u/Traditional-Crew-715 — 2 months ago

Accidentally bought the helix instead of trident when purchasing only realized now when it came in... ive heard the trident is much more simple to get into from the aneros website. I was wondering if this is a big difference and is worth trying to swap it since its unopened...

If it makes any difference I have butt plug and dildo experience just no aneros toys

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u/Traditional-Crew-715 — 2 months ago

I want to buy Golden Boy but need $100 for free shipping. So I am between buying the quick connect with compact emily willis since I already have Autumn Falls QS or buying Lvl Up. I have and enjoy Boss Level right now that is why I want Lvl up. Looks like a more fun and intense version.

I also enjoy my Autumn Falls QS and want to get another QS for using the connector since I can rotate them for few textures it feels like more textures for one purchase haha idk.

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u/Traditional-Crew-715 — 2 months ago
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Is this vaginal dilator set by blush safe to use anally?

https://www.peepshowtoys.com/products/blush-wellness-silicone-dilator-kit?\_pos=39&\_sid=ec44380ba&\_ss=r

Girlfriend is opening up to the idea of experimenting with her butt. She is sexually very shy so I am trying to go as absolutely slow as possible so when I saw this kit the sizing looked perfect. Since it doesn't have a "suck in taper" i think it is safe, but I'd like to get other opinions since the base is totally unideal.

u/Traditional-Crew-715 — 2 months ago

I find Boss Level (my only fleshlight) quite lose compared to another toy I bought and was wondering if I can make this tighter. I saw you can cut the tabs to make it loser, but can you add something to make it tighter? Maybe stuff towels into the case? IDK

Any tips greatly appreciated

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u/Traditional-Crew-715 — 2 months ago

I am trying to understand what are and are not safe for anal use. So, I know that T bases are ideal and the general go to for anal. The confusion is that top anal brands like SquarePegToys and ToppedToys use some circle bases that look incredibly small. I don't see how these are safe when gem's aren't safe. I believe that gem's aren't safe, I just don't know how these are. Links for examples:

https://toppedtoys.com/collections/deep-space/products/deep-space-50

https://toppedtoys.com/collections/the-post/products/the-post-100

https://toppedtoys.com/collections/hilt/products/hilt-75

https://www.squarepegtoys.com/product/pummel/

https://www.squarepegtoys.com/product/anaconda/

https://www.squarepegtoys.com/product/baby-tusk/

https://www.squarepegtoys.com/product/ballistic-medium/

u/Traditional-Crew-715 — 2 months ago