r/aneros

Going to try again after showering. Hoping for some more success as I have been thinking about this all day. Any tips? Wish me luck!

I can’t quite get a HFO but if I use my Aneros while masturbating it’s extremely pleasurable and definitely helps but me over the edge.

Like I’ll get erect, insert the toy, edge a few times before masturbating to orgasm. I can usually take my hand off right before ejaculation and it still pushes me over the edge and I ejaculate a huge load.

Is this alright to just use it this way or am I missing something?

I’ve used an aneros for probably about a year now with some success (small p waves and MAYBE a mini o, but nothing crazy). However, one problem that I have had is that I struggle to focus on the feeling in my prostate when I start getting an erection. I saw one post earlier of someone wearing underwear to fix this same problem. Has anyone had success doing this? Also, should I point my penis towards my head or feet for best results when trying while wearing underwear?

I'm a complete newbie to prostate play who was largely convinced to take the plunge on purchasing my first massager (the Aneros Helix Syn) by this group.

I've read a lot of advice, often conflicting which I'm guessing is down to varying anatomy and preferences, but I'm looking to collate your best top tips, game changers, and eureka moments to help guide me.

Anything would be greatly appreciated as I'm incredibly jealous of all of the pleasure you're indulging in and I'd like to join the club!

Thanks in advance!

Last night I used my Aneros toy for the 3rd time ever. I had it in while playing a video game and after about 10 mins I felt a very warm sensation inside me and I believe I had one very brief p wave. My heart was pounding a bit. After that I turned off the game and just tried to focus on what was happening with my toy.

I started moving my hips back and forth while laying on my back. Warm sensation never went away but, nothing really happened beyond that. I played for about 1 hour. Thoughts?

Ive been getting into nipple orgasms latetly just on their own and damn, seemingly i can get really blissful prostate orgasms just by small amounts of nipple play!

I started a session earlier today with nipple stim, immediatly felt orgasmic pleasure los of muscle twitching and pulsing, squeezing my prostate (i made sure to relax as much as possible, this was not under my control, it was like auto f*cking) Had around 4-5 orgasms and could have just carried on with that and enjoyed that, but instead put in an aneros and waited.

Just so beautiful, orgasmic bliss. So intense at times, rolling orgasms, blended orgasms, overlapping ones, one super long low level ones, long high intensity ones. Just orgasms and muffled screams.

Nipple play i feel is starting to become very important, espeically for inital arousal. Sitting here now with great pulsing orgasmic feelings.

Masterpiece, it could not be better, just perfection.

Hi everyone!
As a gay man (28), I have been intrigued by my prostate since I first lost my virginity. I have achieved prostate orgasm during sex a total of four times, however, in spite of my best efforts, I was never able to replicate that intense sensation in solo play. Dildos didn't work, massagers didn't work, digital manipulation didn't work, nothing seemed to work. Notwithstanding, I was not deterred and continued my pursuit.
About a month ago, I stumbled upon Aneros and purchased a Helix Syn V. Wow did that change everything!
Initially, I was having a lot of trouble with it, as my body would involuntarily contract, violently, from the stimulation of my Aneros, causing cramping and joint pain. I also found it difficult to deny the allure of my cock, especially after prolonged arousal.
After doing some research and reading about other people's experiences, I decided to stop masterbating all together in an attempt to make my body more accustomed to prostate stimulation and thus more likely to give into prostate orgasm as a means of release (at least in theory).
To prevent myself from masterbating, I started wearing my tighty whities during my Aneros session to restrict access to my dick. I also cut holes in the seats of several pairs of my tighty whities so the Helix Syn V still had the necessary dynamic movement range. Aside from being highly erotic, this was very effective.
Three weeks later and I just had my first Super-O! It was so intense, I thought my body was about to explode! I was amazed at how long it lasted too, it was at least fifteen minutes long! My first Super-O was soon followed by three more, albeit with shorter duration. Now my tighty whities are all wet and sticky from the amount of pre-cum I produced. I can now understand why people have said that this can be addictive.
I would highly recommend the Helix Syn V to anyone!

Hi everyone,

I am playing with my prostate for two years now. I can cum in a chastity just by fingering my prostate pretty easily even if I jerked off the day before. Now I would like to get the super-o which is everyone talking about. Need to say that during fingering I can get in a flow state where I close my eyes and just slightly pressing my prostate until cum flow from my cock and still be horny.

I am looking for the best aneros type which help me to reach the super-O. I read about the helix syn V is mostly used. Also I need to know how to achieve it. I just really need to just relax my body and let the prostate react on aneros without doing anything?

Hey redditors!

About a two weeks ago I had a session with aneros and want to share experience. I don't think, I had a prostate orgasm, but certainly, I had one of the most pleasureable orgasm I've ever had.

I started with cleaning myself, so only clean water went out and got ready. I started with fingers and some time into that I felt BM and went for another round of cleaning. Went fine and I got back to work. I pop my aneros MXG syn in me and laid back a bit and relaxed. After some time, when I felt only a slight feelings through my body, bot nothing strong I decided, to fall asleep with the toy in. And so I went.

After about an hour of trying to sleep, (I felt like I was sleeping but I was aware of everything) I got idea to move myself with the toy in.

I laid on the mattres on my belly and my semi erected dick. I startef to move my hips, like I would fuck a mattres or some, like humping and felt a really good sensation in my butt, like a super satisfying sensation on my anal ring, like the smooth movement of the toy, it felt like an anal massage during that all process.

I started to get close to climax and the feeling in my butt became so good. Then the feeling faded a bit, and that happened I think one more time, probbably I broke the speed pattern. So I decied to just move and slowly raise the speed as the feelings were more and more intense.

I felt like I was in a heaven, I was panting and really enjoying it. And then it hit me, It wasn't like a spike like in penile masturbation, but it went slowly there and Ijust went over the edge suddenly and calmly. My whole body spasmed, like really but rhytmicaly, my hands, legs, core, even my fingers.

I thought it was dry, because I didn't feel wet or something, but as I got up, the whole mattres was soaked with cum.

I tried the next day replicating sitting or standing, the feeling were there, but no build up and finished the classic way.

Tl;dr

Night with aneros lying belly down and hips moving caused me to climax, but I think lying on my erect penis helped to send me over the edge.

Can you think of any anal toys for men that are innovative, new or different? Everything I have seen just seems to be plugs, vibrators or dildos. Thank you

I’ve been doing this for a while, but after a point, just recently, ingot this realisation that I was really only feeling it in my penis. Whenever the session would get going, the best I would feel was when my penis would get this warmth and kind of need to ejaculate. I guess I just never really focused, or thought, that my prostate could actually feel the pleasure instead of just redirecting it to other places.

With this «epiphany» I tried to start over, with the focus of being able to feel the pleasure in my prostate. Obviously this would probably mean I would have to rewire from the start, and correctly this time, but I’m really happy I realised this before long. I also think that’s the reason I never really got any strong sensations beyond what I described earlier.

Still since it’s been a while since I started this rewiring I’ve got some questions and would appreciate some tips!

1. When «doing nothing» should the aneros be in constant contact with my prostate?
2. If so, how should I maintain it? Should I just let it lightly press on my prostate, or should I let the involuntaries steer the way?
3. I also find it difficult to actually focus on the pleasure in my prostate when there’s so much else going on (I start to shake very easily), so how would you recommend I try to get out of this plateau? (Of course it may be that the answer to this is with more time, but again tips are appreciated).

I know about Mindgasm and binaural beats. What else do people watch to zone out and relax?

So some of you know that i have successfull sessions and can experience VERY intense and amazing dry orgasms but no matter how intense they get, even the utterly mind blowing ones, i produce ZERO precum.

I used to just find it annoying and less hot. But some sessions i would feel very serious blue balls, sometimes so bad i cannot walk without pain.

However a user here has suggested that the precum is the releif during a session. Which now makes me quite annoyed to realise that this may be why.

I also thought, as was told, that precum from prostate massage is a result of the cowpers gland secretions, not the prostate. So how can this be?

Is this theory right?

Hey you guys. So I would recommend having a pillow on hand. So you can scream something because I resisted moaning flat screening and well. I broke a blood vessel in my eye. It's fine by the way. I learned my lesson. I need to scheme into a pillow when it's super intense. So I don't cause the blood pressure in my face to go insane.

Anywho.

My p waves have gone a bit intense as of late and much longer. Which is a fantastic feeling! Haven't dry orgasmed lately But the P waves have been great. I'm assuming my body is learning.

It would be nice though if I could still do kegels but my whole entire lower region locks up and moves on its own. Which is interesting but kind of frustrating. Oh well. This is a learning process.

Sorry about the long post, but I want to give lots of context so you all can give me the best advice possible.

Me: 32-year-old submissive bottom chub/bear gay male, usually wearing a chastity cage.  I never naturally pre-cum (seriously NEVER) but can get very slight amounts of precum using an NJOY wand to heavily stimulate the prostate (this will be relevant later in my write-up).  I use the chastity cage primarily to abstain from jerking off so that my prostate is primed and ready for play.
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Goal: The magical, mythical Super-O – the one with the leg/body shaking that many guys describe as a full body experience.
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Toys I Own: butt plugs, dildos, aneros, including a helix syn, progasm, and knock-offs similar in size and shape to the helix, and a knock-off NJOY wand that is identical to the brand-name NJOY wand.
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Past experience(s):  Been playing with my ass for about 10 years – both with real dicks and toys.  Been on the hunt for the Super-O for about five years.  Get fucked frequently.  I’ve had many hands-free orgasms from toys, but they are not super-O style orgasms, just regular orgasms brought on by prostate stimulation.  I love to have the cum fucked out of me by a top (have had this happen many times).  It feels amazing, but still not as amazing as how guys describe their super-O experiences.  I can get pleasure from my prostate (obviously, since I can cum from prostate stimulation), but I don’t think I’ve ever had true “P-waves” but not entirely sure, as the descriptions I’ve read of them vary and are sometimes kind of vague.  My aneros toys seem to do nothing for me, but maybe I’m using them wrong.  I can get some great pleasurable prostate sensations both from getting fucked and from my NJOY wand.  I’ve tried rubbing my nipples to help me get there as I see lots of guys mention this in their write-ups, but it doesn’t really do much for me.  

I ALWAYS wear my chastity cage during prostate sessions so that I don’t end up just jerking off (I’m very dedicated to my training and it’s very likely for me to get frustrated and just beat off if I’m not wearing it).  I almost always do my training lying in bed while on my back with my legs bent and knees pointed outward as this is what is most comfortable for me.

Based on some previous advice I got, recently I’ve been experimenting with a “less is more” approach recently – audio files instead of porn, no poppers, way less heavy thrusting with the njoy wand and more light movements instead.  I haven’t really gotten anywhere with this approach.

Closest I’ve Gotten: The best session I’ve ever had was recently (about a month ago).  I locked up my dick in chastity for about a month, then spent a night on the couch being a goony little fuck, HAMMERING away at my prostate with the NJOY wand with a popperbate video on (the video focused on guys wearing chastity cages getting used by huge dicks) while getting super poppered up.  Lots of great sensations in my prostate and pelvis.  Ended up having a lot of precum (a lot for me anyways, considering I almost never precum) and then had a great orgasm (but again, no leg/full body shaking, the sensation was very localized to my pelvic area/not a super O).  The fluid I shot during this orgasm seemed much more like precum/seminal fluid than regular cum. The fluid was more opaquely clear and less milky/white than my regular cum, not as strong a cum smell and taste as my regular cum).
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Outlook: Getting kind of discouraged thinking this may just be a sensation I’m not capable of/maybe my anatomy isn’t right for it.  Part of me thinks that only guys who naturally precum a lot can experience this.  I could really use both some encouragement and advice.
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Questions: Any questions you have for me to help you offer guidance/advice.  I’m happy to answer any questions you have. I’m a total open book and just want help breaking through.  Any general advice or tips to help me break through to the super-O?  Am I on the right track?  Can someone describe P-waves to me in a clear way?  Anything I’m doing or not doing that clearly needs correction?

yesterday, I went ahead and got my helix going. it went nowhere. sitting in a recliner, watching a movie, nothing at all … then about an hour and 20 in, it started. it built and built until I hit a nice peak for about 30 seconds and a drop. immediately climbed back up and ran into a peak wave for a good 6 minutes before fading out. total time elapsed was 2 hours.

this sound normal for you guys. does it always take so long to build? im using again right now, about 40 minutes in and finally starting to build.

It just seems strange that it takes so long to build, but the payoff is absolutely worth it.

Move yo fuckin' hips!

No matter how you identify gay, bi, or straight idc or what you’re into, learning to move with the rhythm instead of staying completely still can seriously change the entire experience.

I used to focus mostly on positioning and pressure, but at some point I started naturally moving my hips along with the motion instead of just “receiving” it. Think more like grinding or rolling your hips with the rhythm rather than forcing anything. Oh shit, that small adjustment made everything feel way more immersive and intense.

For me, it wasn’t even about speed or intensity. It was more about relaxing, syncing my body with the motion, and letting myself fucked and get into the moment instead of overthinking it. Them shits made the orgasm so intense and the sensations felt much more connected and full-body. Get wild, be the star of the show, think of pornstar bitches riding and twerking!

It almost feels like your body knows how to respond once you stop resisting the rhythm and just lean into what feels good. Also, let your mind imagine and wander to your darkest fantasies.

Curious if anyone else has noticed this too? Did changing your movement or body positioning make a big difference for you?

Ive been a fairly regular player with the prostate for the last 10months now... i managed to get some good goijg P-Waves and felt like i was making progress - but the last time I managed that was around 2-3months ago, and since then no P-waves at all

I still get subtle pleasure and I really enjoy the whole meditation aspect of it all. My go to toy is the aneros psy syn, and occasionally I have the Helix Syn V, which are the only toys ive managed to get waves with.

I do have a squarepeg Charlie Horse Milk it - which honestly feels great for stretch, but doesn't really build waves either, and i basically tend to use it to have blended orgasms after a session.

I think part of the reason I havent really progressed is maybe because I don't have that much time to play regularly - i only tend to have a few hrs, one day a week. So my cycle tends to be 7 days abstinence and then play for 2-3hrs on one day, then a blended finish.

The other aspect is recent months - my wife and I decided to go for IVF, so the clinic says to keep sperm optimal and healthy, I have to cum every 3days or so. So im either having sex or masturbating.

So my questions are:

1. is my lack of P Waves due to infrequent prostate play? And if so - how often should I be going for?

2. or is it because im ejaculating too often to build any abstinence and therefore sensitivity? Should I just wait until after the IVF is done to pick it up again, stress free?

3. I don't know if anyone can answer this - but does prostate stimulation detract from sperm quality?

Thanks in advance!!