I feel like I’ve been trying for almost a decade to have a handsfree orgasm. I’ve listened to the Mindgasm audios, I’ve laid with the aneros in me without moving, I’ve laid with it while contracting. There’s been a few times where I’ve felt waves of pleasure but I always panic when it happens and focus too hard on the goal. I’ve tried weed to help, less sleep, meditation, etc. I feel hopeless. Any advice?
Hey you guys! So I have the most insane yesterday session!
Literally 1 hour and 19 min. of me orgasming repeatedly! Until my body forced me to cum. I will give you the breakdown!
Okay first thing I made sure of I took an THC edible gummy. Did a quick clean now. Big key thing is I started doing stretching! I continually stretched until I felt the gummy kick in. I wanted to make sure my body was limber and relaxed. Which honestly helped out a lot!
When I felt the gummy kick in I grabbed my aneros lubed up and put it in. As soon as I put it in I thought it rubbing right up against my prostate. The first thing I thought of oh this is going to be intense today! Because I can feel my prostate already trying to work. I went and lay down with a towel underneath me.
As soon as I started doing kegels the muscles around my prostate and anus started moving on their own. Then the muscles started contracting more and more and more and then I started shaking within barely 2 minutes with a orgasm building. Then I started moaning with a orgasm. I have this about twice within 5 minutes.
Then I orgasmed again but this one was different. I organized and then I started shaking again with another one building which was more intense. Then this repeated multiple times until my body was literally shaking from head to toe from the orgasms. I was moaning whimpering and borderline screaming. My partner had to came over and put his hand over my mouth because I was getting really really loud. This lasted for almost 3 minutes. I ended up feeling like I cum for real and I started garter animalistic growling. I didn't come at all there was just pre dribbling out. My partner was like that was hot and kind of scary. You sounded like you were animalistically pleasured.
This wasn't the only one!
After that I'm very intensive orgasm. I got up got and quickly chugged water. I laid back down and I had several others small ones. Those also cause me to have multiple orgasms with little to no refractory and they built on.
The second big one. I don't remember how many times it built up and I orgasmed. I remember on several of which of the Waves I started violently shaking. The only thing I could remember is my prostate feeling so f****** good and moaning and shaking. I think I was moaning?! It was a massive mental blurbless! This lasted to 3 minutes probably.
After that I got up and got more water!
Laid back down again. So start a relaxing then my body started contracting.I had maybe one or two smaller orgasms where my body was shaking.
Then the third bigger one. I started shaking then I orgasm then I started shaking again then my body freaked out. I started like really really really shaking. From my toes to to my skull started to feel like it was vibrating. I vaguely remember me kind of like choking gagging trying to moan. Then immediately after I went still as a board with another. Then another wave where my hips started grinding. After that I remember feeling like I cum again. Zero cum! Just pre!
Literally at this point with only just 30 to like 45 minutes of me doing this. And I told myself as it let's keep going!
I had a few more medium orgasms. I remember getting up and getting water maybe like twice more.
At this point I was about an hour and 10 minutes in.
I had two massive back to back orgasms or orgasming periods which finally did me in.
The first final one the two. Trembling shaking moaning the normal repeated long orgasm like a describe. I remember at the very end I started getting guttural and growling and I think I started whining and moaning and saying oh my God we're and over again!
After that orgasm I took a minute to breathe and relax.
Then I had my final one! This one lasted about three full minutes!
Okay the breakdown of this one.
I started noticing my body started trembling. My core muscle service fluttering. Then my body sharted shaking side. Then I started bucking. I remember grabbing the pillow behind my head. My arms went to my side well my own choice and I started shaking and moaning. And I remember at this point I was in the state of oh my God! The only thing to fill with pleasure and.... I honestly don't know. Then I went really still and my hips started grinding very lightly for Mimi to call humping. Well my hip were freaking moving. I started getting very loud at this point my partner got up and cover my mouth. It was a good thing too because I started shaking it again! Before he put his hand on my face I swear to God I had a mile Out of Body Experience! Mentally I was like in a white room of bliss!!!! Just like a fraction of second before he put his hand on my face I slammed back mentally in. Then I started growling and roaring! My hips were still moving my core with fluttering my hands are from trembling.
Then I felt my body pushing! At this point I heard my partner say oh s*** you're cuming hard! When he said that I felt like I was oozing cun out of me! I remember I was growing I think I was making sense and shaking and roaring and growling. Then it happened again with zero refractory period. I just felt myself oozing even more. Like my body was trying to push out every drop of cum of my body! After that I started shaking a little bit like I was about to start orgasm again. Thankfully I didn't! But the first pee afterwards felt ridiculously good because of you know my prostate is swollen still from the orgasm.
I slept so freaking hard. My core my arms my legs my ass is just sore. And it's worth it!!!
I hope me sharing this experience helps you guys out. If you got any questions just ask I will respond as soon as I am available!
I see people reporting in their sessions that they'll feel like only a few minutes have passed, but its actually been several hours. I've noticed the exact opposite, where I'll have a session and feel like I've been going for well over an hour, but I'll look at the clock and it's only been 30-ish minutes. Has anyone else also observed this specific form of time dilation, where time slows down instead of speeding up?
I'm not necessarily complaining, just making an observation.
I was wondering if having a tight pelvic muscles can affect me reaching a prostate orgasm? If so what pelvic stretches that I can do to help with loosing my muscles?
Hi everyone!
I wanted to ask about something that happened to me yesterday with my Aneros, because it felt very different from anything I've experienced so far, and I'd love to know what it might have been and how I can build on those sensations.
For some context, I've been exploring prostate play for about a year and have been using an Aneros Helix Syn V for around three months. So far, I haven't had a prostate orgasm and, although my sessions usually feel nice, I've never experienced anything that made me think "Wow."
The day before, I had a session that lasted between an hour and a half and two hours, which is pretty normal for me. As always, I used the vibration on the lowest pulsing setting and didn't pay any attention to my penis at all. Like all of my sessions so far, it felt pleasant, but nothing particularly special.
Afterwards, I decided not to masturbate. Normally I always end up masturbating and ejaculating in the usual way while wearing the Aneros, but this time I didn't.
The next day I spent some time reading posts on this subreddit and decided to try again, this time without vibration.
I put on some calm porn in the background and applied several pieces of advice I'd read here, some of which I was already doing: relaxing, breathing with my belly, imagining pleasure moving up my spine and, most importantly, focusing on the small sensations produced by the Aneros and doing gentle PC muscle contractions. I spent almost the entire session lying on my back.
The first thing that surprised me was that I started leaking precum. It had happened to me before and it wasn't a lot, but it had been quite a while since the last time.
Little by little, I started paying close attention to the small reactions in my body.
And here's where it gets interesting.
After about an hour and a half, during which everything felt nice but nothing more than that, I decided to turn on the vibration again, this time on the lowest constant vibration setting.
Only a few seconds after turning it on, I started feeling things I'd never felt before. It was a strange kind of pleasure that I didn't really understand.
I could feel pressure on my prostate, that "I need to pee" sensation, my breathing became completely irregular, I instinctively curled my toes, and for the first time I felt a tingling sensation in the tip of my penis, which started moving on its own in little spasms. That last part was probably what surprised me the most.
I also noticed a very slight pulsing sensation in my prostate. I can't say with 100% certainty that it was involuntary, and it was definitely subtle, but it was there.
I didn't feel that strong urge to expel the toy, nor did the Aneros start moving around by itself like I've read happens to some people.
However, my breathing was completely out of control and, unfortunately, I couldn't stop thinking that maybe I was about to have my first prostate orgasm, which, according to most posts here, is something you're not supposed to chase. But I just couldn't stop thinking about it.
To make matters worse, I was chatting with a girl I like and she sent me a message. I made the mistake of telling myself, "I'm not going to reply until I have an orgasm like this."
For a few minutes everything felt amazing, with ups and downs, but it was clearly different from any other session I'd ever had.
After a while my PC muscles got tired and I stopped doing contractions. At that point, the sensations returned to what I usually experience.
Finally, just like the day before, I decided not to masturbate or ejaculate.
Tonight I want to try again and apply your advice. If anyone knows what I might have experienced or has any suggestions on how to deepen those sensations and keep progressing, I'd really appreciate it.
Thanks in advance!
Hallo zusammen,
Ich bin völlig neu hier und wollte teilen, wie ich zufällig auf diese Reise gestoßen bin.
Wie es angefangen hat: Ende Mai habe ich abends regelmäßig PC-Muskeltraining gemacht, während ich auf meinem Stuhl saß. Mein Ziel war es einfach, schließlich einen trockenen Orgasmus zu erreichen, indem ich lernte, meinen Prostata-/PC-Muskel zu kontrahieren und ihn 15 Sekunden lang zu halten. Ich merkte schnell, dass diese kleinen, kurzen Pulse während der Autofahrt unglaublich gut funktionierten, also begann ich, jeden Tag im Auto zu üben.
Der Durchbruch (30. Juni): Am 30. Juni, während ich auf der Autobahn fuhr, kam ich in einen guten Rhythmus. Plötzlich breitete sich ein wunderschönes Gefühl in meinem Unterbauch aus. Ich war so fasziniert, dass ich sofort weitermachen wollte, aber dann verflog das Gefühl.
Ich habe danach weiter geübt und schließlich herausgefunden, wie ich alles angehen kann. Ich habe es geschafft, alles zu synchronisieren: nicht nur den PC-Muskel anzuspannen, sondern auch ein wenig gegen meine Blase zu drücken. Ich habe mit dieser Technik jetzt wirklich gute Erfolge und kann ziemlich schnell Lusttropfen produzieren.
Meine Einrichtung und Entdeckungen:
Der "Hügel", den ich noch nicht überqueren kann: In letzter Zeit versuche ich, das Gefühl zu Hause nachzuahmen – sowohl im Bett als auch während meiner Zeit im Homeoffice. Ich kann das Lusttropfen und die warmen Empfindungen problemlos reproduzieren, aber dann blockiert es:
Ich schaffe es einfach nicht, diesen letzten Hügel zum Super-O zu überqueren. Mir ist völlig bewusst, dass das nicht innerhalb von zwei Monaten passieren wird. Ich erwarte überhaupt nicht, dass es so schnell geht. Das wäre natürlich schön, aber ich habe hier schon gelesen, dass es für viele Menschen mindestens ein Jahr oder sogar länger dauern kann. Das enttäuscht mich überhaupt nicht; Ich genieße die Empfindungen wirklich und spüre jedes Mal, wenn ich übe, ein schönes Gefühl der Vorfreude.
Hat hier sonst noch jemand komplett freihändig angefangen und dieses unkontrollierbare Zittern erlebt? Was ist der beste Weg, sich in das Zittern zu entspannen und endlich über den Hügel zu gelangen?
Danke für deine Hilfe!
Sascha
I have been told that I have a small prostrate.What Aneros would you recommend
I wanna buy my first Aneros but I don’t know which one. Im not new into prostate play, I’m doing it for over 2 years on and off and achieved Hfwo. I have a Prostate massager and an Njoy wand. For the most time I’ve used the big end of the wand because I like the feeling of being full and the massager is as big as the big end of the wand. But lately I’m getting more sensations of small movements like from a finger or the small end. I’ve read that the smaller aneros have the advantage to move more freely but I don’t know if that’s what could bring the whole game on a new level. I can’t buy several of them because I don’t live alone and I’m going out of hiding places.
Which one could you recommend and brought you to another level of sensations?
Whenever I do edibles and use my aneros, the most pleasurable part is when the thc first begins to hit (maybe the first 45 mins to an hour). After that, I’ve noticed that my prostate/pelvic region tightens up around the Aneros and no longer has the ability to move as freely. It still feels nice but no matter how much I breathe or relax I can’t get that area to release. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to prevent this from happening?
I’m looking to pick up an Aneros, but I’m not sure which model would suit me best.
For reference, I really enjoy using the Njoy Wand. When I first started, I mostly used the smaller end and would sometimes switch to the larger end during a session. These days I go straight for the larger end, and I get tingles almost immediately and can consistently trigger my prostate.
I’m not really into vibration, so I’d prefer a non-vibrating model.
Based on that, which Aneros model would you recommend?
If you play too much can you cause prostate discomfort or problem?
I’ve had a couple of realizations that have helped my sessions recently that I thought I’d share. YMMV but these are things that have worked for me in the past couple of weeks that I’ve been having mind blowing HFDOs.
It’s key to get aroused first before even thinking about putting the toy in. Seems basic I know - but sometimes I’d have these sessions where I’d put the toy in and then feel like not that stimulated and start falling asleep. Successfully sessions happen when it feels so good you can’t fall asleep - if you’re falling asleep take the toy out and do something else. A major part of getting aroused for me recently has been playing with my partner (we’ll do some foreplay and he’ll leave me with the toy, and then fuck me after) but it certainly isn’t necessary for sessions to be with a partner.
Affirming that I don’t know how much the pleasure can build is a major part of staying relaxed. Typically when I feel like i might having or close to an HFDO or super O I get excited and the pleasure peaks before dropping back off. When I stay calm and tell myself that there is no limit or that I don’t know where the limit of the pleasure is I tend to experience way more pleasure. If you’re one of those people that has been playing with the toy for a while and haven’t had an orgasm that made you feel like you were on drugs this might help you.
Optimize your sessions by finding ways to relax further. For me I typically play while on my back - and I was finding that the feeling of my legs splaying out or feeling like I had to keep my knees together was resulting in some body tension. Tying my knees together with shibari rope (or having my partner do so) makes it way easier for me to relax as my knees are held together by the rope. The feeling of helplessness from being tied also helps with relaxation for me lol. Other examples of this could be: finding different pillows or towels that make you feel more comfortable, blankets, white noise, etc. I’ve also found that being blindfolded with AirPods or earplugs in helps to limit distractions.
These three things have really propelled my sessions to a new level recently so thought I’d share!
Hi everyone 👋
I've been exploring prostate play for about a year now and have been using my Aneros Helix Syn V for around three months. Despite that, I still haven't had a prostate orgasm and, with the Aneros, I don't feel like I've fully "found" my prostate yet.
Like many beginners, I keep reading that relaxation is one of the most important parts of the Aneros experience. I've also come across several posts from people saying that they first experienced real pleasure or made significant progress when they were extremely relaxed.
Whenever I use my Aneros, I try to relax, and I think I do... but maybe not to that extent. That got me thinking about trying something different: inserting my Aneros and then just going to bed as I normally would. No porn, no chasing sensations, no contractions... just relaxing as much as possible, to the point of becoming half-asleep, and seeing what happens.
For those of you who have tried something similar, how did it go? Did being in that deeply relaxed, sleepy state make a noticeable difference?
My intention isn't to fall asleep while wearing it, but if it happened accidentally, would that be okay? Is it generally considered safe?
Also, would you recommend using a chastity cage while trying this approach?
Thanks in advance for sharing your experiences!
I have mild Erectile Dysfunction - I often lose hardness during sex and have to stop & wait to continue if I go soft
Normally during a sex/orgasm session I'll have taken some weed, and for me, this makes my erections quite capricious - sometimes they're extra strong & last as long as needed, but often they go soft quicker than normal & it takes some time to get them back
The orgasms themselves need focus, which for me often means that I take focus away from my erection, compounding this problem
My wife & I also have the additional complication that she is post menopausal, so we need lube for sex, and it has a tendency to dry up & needs to be reapplied, especially if I'm stop/start
So I finally decided to get some Viagra from an online pharmacy, and tried it last Saturday
I took a 50mg pill, 30 minutes before starting the session (1h before having sex) - I also vaped around 75mg of strong indica flower, and used an Aneros Eupho
As per usual I started getting strong full body prostate orgasms 10 minutes after vaping the weed, so my wife & I went to our bedroom to mess around - when it came to the sex part, my penis seemed to get hard like normal, but when I was inside her, it seemed extra hard (she said she could feel it extra hard the whole time we were fucking), and after around 5 minutes I felt a strong muscular full body orgasm coming on - normally I either focus on riding the orgasm or the erection (risking either losing the erection or not having such a wild orgasm), but this time I realised after a few minutes that I didn't need to focus on the erection - it seemed hard all on its own
So I focused instead on the full body orgasm and pushing my sexual energy into my wife's pussy, which started then giving me some cool visuals (prob best described as pink love tunnel + explosions), and ended up ejaculating inside her and having a big full body orgasm at the same time (normally I'd probably have to have stopped once or twice before getting to this point, or have been forced to pull out & masturbate myself to ejaculation)
So the whole experience was great and gives me a lot of confidence that my erection will stay strong until I ejaculate without me having to focus on it, which will give me a lot of flexibility to focus on cool full body orgasm effects instead
One question I have seen asked a number of times on prostate play forums - "does Viagra help you have prostate orgasms?" - not sure - I can have full body prostate orgasms very easily with weed, so this session was not able to answer that question
TL;DR: Viagra is awesome - removes the concentration needed to keep your penis hard, so you can focus on your full body orgasms, which should then hopefully be better
[Supplements: 75mg indica flower vaped, 50mg Viagra; Toy: Aneros Eupho]
Hi everyone! I wanted to post an update to share the sensations I've been experiencing in my recent sessions and, most importantly, to get some feedback and advice from you guys.
This post links back to one I shared about two weeks ago [here]. By following the advice you gave me, I’m noticing some really fast progress, and I hope my experience can help others who might be in the same boat. The real breakthrough happened when I stopped obsessing over the final goal (the HFDO) and dropped my expectations. Since then, I've been able to experience much more consistent and deep pleasure.
Here is how I currently structure my sessions:
- Frequency: They last about an hour and a half, with 1-2 days of complete rest in between to let my general arousal build up
- Prep: Generous amount of lube (both anal and on the toy) and insertion
- Warm-up (about 10 mins): I focus on deep breathing to release physical and mental tension, helping myself get aroused by listening to erotic audios
- Action: I start the actual session using the "do nothing" method, letting my body naturally take control of the toy
I've noticed it's getting much easier to trigger involuntary contractions: they usually start after 20 minutes (even less if I'm really turned on) and become progressively stronger and more constant throughout the session. My penis alternates between getting hard and going soft, but the one constant is a massive amount of precum.
In my latest sessions, I actually managed to reach some HFWOs. I find it really effective to lie in a fetal position on my left side, with my bottom leg (the one on the bed) pulled up slightly closer to my chest than the top one. As the pleasure builds, I feel the toy constantly hitting my prostate. In those moments, my only thought is to keep relaxing and avoid the urge to rush toward an orgasm at all costs. I've learned that even if the peak of pleasure subsides, simply calming down and releasing the tension will make the contractions start right back up again shortly after.
My ultimate goal is still HFDO, but I don't think I'm quite ready for it yet (the rewiring process is clearly still ongoing). I've noticed that when the pleasure peaks, my muscles tend to tense up a lot, and it's probably this tension that "pulls" me back towards a classic orgasm, resulting in an HFWO. In those moments, my penis feels rock hard and pulsing, I get a dull but very pleasant sensation in my prostate, and a strong urge similar to needing to pee, like my body urgently needs to let all this built-up tension "explode."
Now I'd love to hear your thoughts:
- Has anyone else experienced or is experiencing these exact same sensations?
- Based on your experience, am I on the right track towards HFDO?
- How do you manage muscle clenching and, more importantly, breathing? I've noticed that during the moments of highest, most intense pleasure, I tend to hold my breath. Do you have any techniques or tips to keep the breath flowing and manage these phases without tensing up?
Thanks everyone for the advice and support!
Should I be doing Kegels once the Aneros is in ?
It’s the only movement I can do seems like or else just let it rest in there and breathe.
Just some beginner advice helpful ?
To all of you who have used different models, are the website descriptions accurate as to what is actually felt?
I have the helix and im getting good use out of it. I've had what I can only assume was a super o 2 times before. Both because I smoked some weed for the session and felt like I was transported into another dimension where I was getting fucked by a sentient toy. The effect of weed with this thing is amazing. The problem is I don't really like getting high... so I don't smoke before every session.
Without the help of the drugs I definitely still get dry orgasms and p waves and overall have a great session. But I can't always get to the desired end goal with just the toy.
I've been curious about getting a different model, maybe the eupho because the descriptions says it has strong pinpoint sensations and I feel like that one can throw me over the edge immediately.
I've also considered the progasm because I do like the feeling of being full i just don't know if the larger head would make me feel it on the prostate more or less?
Anyone with experience with these models and how they compare to the helix for you id love your input!