u/DatGuyJBone

I want to know more about first dates. Like where do yall usually go? Multiple places or just keep to one spot? How long should a date last etc. Also some dos and donts would be appreciated.

Feels a little weird posting in here instead of just scrolling through like I usually do. Feels weird asking what I’m going to ask but…

Small rant but question will be at the bottom for those who have an answer:

As a 23 y/o with no experience in the game at all(sad ik) I want to get serious about putting myself out there and meeting women. I’ve never really approached women in my past. Ive been around a handful of women that I thought was attractive and would have liked to go out with but looking back I never made my intentions known which threw me into the nice guy/friend category. Always being called “nice guy”, “an amazing friend”, a sweetheart” etc by those same women. I’ve always made the excuse that I didn’t have enough of something or that I wouldn’t be the best fit for anyone. I also just recently started gaining confidence in myself, however, all of the nice guy/friend labels made me believe that’s all I was/had to be. (And that I lacked the necessary sexual appeal) But after reading through this sub, reflecting on myself, and reading some books(Models especially), I think I found some resolve on what I want and desire. Honestly, I’m not even sure about getting into a full blown committed relationship right now. I just want to get out there and gain some experience.

There’s more but I probably should ask the question I came here to ask:

What are some good first date ideas? I’m confident I can figure something out for a second/third date and so on(activities and what not) It’s that first date that always trips me out when I think about it.

More specifically, what places are some dos and donts. And how many places should we go? If you can please give examples yours or another’s date plan. Thank you