I am a 50 year old, 6’ tall, in shape IT / Cybersecurity business owner living in Costa Mesa. I have reached a stage of life where I am an empty nester, which has coincided with me finding a great work-life balance as a business owner. This has given me the actual time and mental space to focus on new, meaningful connections.
I stay active with traveling, hiking and a variety of home remodel projects. When I am not working or in the garden, I am usually in the kitchen or at the grill. I enjoy cooking at home just as much as I enjoy a night out at a great restaurant in Laguna.
Regarding my situation, I am in a stable, long-term open relationship. My partner and I live together but date entirely separately. I am looking for a consistent, long-term poly connection that exists alongside our separate lives. Whether you prefer to keep our worlds completely separate or eventually become friends with the people in my life, I am open to whatever feels natural for us.
I am a show up in person kind of guy. I value consistency, including weekly dates, overnights, and being there for the moments that matter. I am most attracted to women who have their own vibrant lives and passions and are looking for something high-quality. I believe in that easy, natural chemistry tha