How would I know that an SP is “low traffic” - higher rates/fewer days available I guess? And why does that seem to be preferred? I’ve noticed it mentioned a few times on here… is it because people think that there’s more risk for STI transmission if SP’s have more clients? Not sure I align with that thinking as anyone at anytime can have an STI!
Hey, all client here… Some of my posts have been downvoted and I really appreciate that because it’s a subtle way of giving me feedback to reflect on what I’m posting… So thank you.
However, why am I getting downvotes when I’m just saying thank you to providers for providing me with answers to my questions? Like is downvoting politeness a kink I’m not aware of lol??? What’s the deal? TIA!
Hello! Client here. Thanks everyone for all of these great insights. It’s so helpful to learn how to be a better client… So thank you for your labour in advance!
I am aiming to be a monthly regular with a provider and this will be the third time I have seen her. She’s AMAZING - she’s really busy with lots of other time consuming side hustles and opening a new business next month, etc. and so I wanted to give her a tip with time, meaning when I meet with her for our hour appointment, I’ll just stay for half an hour and expect no sex (just social time) to give her a bit of a labour break gift. (Oh, and I’m going to tip her a bit, like $50, money wise as well.)
That being said, I don’t want her to think that I don’t want to have sex with her or maybe she finds the social part more laborious than the sex etc…
I know I should just ask her, but I wanted to check in here to see too. Thank you so much for letting me know if this would be appropriate or helpful (or not) in your opinion!