u/Dear-Blacksmith7249

long time lurker here, finally ready to stop overthinking and just pull the trigger on my first toy.

i have litteraly zero experience with this so looking for something super beginner friendly. defiantly nothing too thick or long bc im lowkey terrified of sizing lol.

budget is around $100 to $150. id really prefer something with vibration to help me actually find the spot since i have no clue what im doing. also a huge plus if its on the quieter side. my apartment has paper thin walls and id rather not notify my neighbors lmao.

been researching a ton but theres so many options and its hard to tell whats legit quality vs just marketing with fake reviews.

also do i need water based lube or what kind of lube

any recs appreciated