Hello everyone,
For starters, I’m Emi (woman).
I’m a sub who hasn’t yet found a long-term dominant I truly connect with.
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I’m trying to understand this specific fantasy that I have.
I’m drawn to the idea of being softly tied by my dom, using something delicate like a ribbon ( ideally pink). I imagine a light, decorative kind of binding, almost like a harness around my waist, hips, and upper thighs.
What matters to me is that it’s done with care, tenderness, and affection, I want it to be more about connection than restraint.
In this fantasy, I would then wear a loose dress or a sundress over it and go about my day, keeping the ribbon on underneath, as something intimate and private that only my dom and I share.
There’s also a strong emotional attachment that I want to live in this fantasy : I want to feel my femininity, my body, and my submission appreciated and cherished.
I’m wondering if this kind of dynamic or fantasy is totally unrealistic ?
( Thanks to anyone who took the time to read it all )