u/Deep_Island_7326

I (36m) have never been able to cum during sex. I’ve been sexually active since high school and never once got to fully enjoy it. Like everything downstairs work and I’m able to enjoy sex and make it enjoyable for my partners but it bothers me and I know it’s definitely bothered a few of them. I was having sex well before ever watching porn or masturbating so I don’t think that’s the issue. The only time ever been able to finish is when I’m taking care of myself even then it takes a considerable amount of time. I haven’t dated in awhile and I want to get back out there but I don’t want this to be an issue in any future relationships and it’s kinda stressful. Any advice from anyone who’s had a similar situation?