u/DefiantAd6118

i'm (21f) graduating college soon and really want to get involved in bdsm wherever i live (still don't have a job yet, the job market is brutal right now lol), but i don't really have any friends involved in kink and i'm scared to go to events alone. i'm also afraid of going to a munch or an event and everyone there being way older than me. is that silly? how do i get over this? and how do i find like a 30 and under group, on fet? any advice would be really great🩷