u/DeniedCatgirl

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This is that second post I mentioned yesterday! Obviously, if you're long-distance with your sub/dom, then toy control is as close as you can get to actually stimulating them yourself. And just like everything else, it can be implemented into resourceslutting!

This is a fairly explored vanilla concept already, though- so to prevent the real Freaksters in the audience from getting too bored, I'll also discuss binding your resourceslave and making them hurt<3

Buut to start: pleasure! Obviously, the poster child of stimulating your sub while they're in bondage is vibrators. Egg vibrators, wand vibrators, etc.! There's all sorts of things you can do with them: reward your sub for completing those increasing-bondage tasks I mentioned in the last post with some nice vibe time, without actually untying them, or maybe, deliberately make their job harder by distracting them with vibrations while they try to work!

Its obviously worth mentioning Lovense, as well. This lets you see your sub react to your shenanigans in real-time by allowing you to control the vibrators remotely! You can evolve the previously-mentioned general use cases by making them cum yourself after they've done a good job, or by edging them while they work manually and watching how they react in chat (or a video call) <3

EDIT: Oops, I somehow forgot about dildos! Distracting your sub by stuffing a great big ol' cock in them is a surefire way to get some cute reactions. For extra credit, make them bounce while working AND put a vibe on their body at the same time for double the distraction value! <3

Of course, though, there are two sides to every coin. ...I mean, not really, but it made a good transition, right? Something something, segue, pain. If you're interested in stimulating your sub while they're all bound and helpless for you, but you don't like all that silly stuff like 'rewarding them' or 'being nice,' then painplay is for you. Clothespins make great nipple clamps!

There's temperature play as a good subset; stuff some ice in your sub's pants while they're all tied up and see how their gameplay changes. Or get creative! Make them put thumbtacks or rocks or something in their shoes, and whenever they take damage, make them stomp their feet down like a little whore! I know I say this a lot, but a little creativity goes a loooong way.

...Does it say anything about me that my painplay ideas were way more involved than my pleasure ideas..?

...Ehh, I'll try not to think about it.

All-in-all, resourceslutting is about control to a lot of people. The control you have over your sub's time, effort, resources, and with bondage included, even their ability to move at all. So go wild, darlings. <3

Call to action time: what do you think? Have you done any clever bits of bondage w/ resourceslutting? And, of course, my DMs are always open for anyone, for any reason, at any time. I'm still available to be used, y'know~! <3

My mind is kinda fried from my neediness and denial, okay?! TwT

Buuuttt... yes! This IS actually an interesting concept. If you've seen, like, any of my previous posts on this subreddit, then you'll probably have gathered that ANY kink can be applied to any OTHER kink to make it hotter! So, yes, doing bondage for the sake of your sub enjoying being tied up IS valid. I'd... personally like some low-stakes play like that every once and a while... But I personally prefer it when that bondage actually does come with stakes!

Like, binding your sub up progressively more and more while giving them harder and harder tasks. Just bind their ankles - or, if you're long-distance, make them bind their own ankles via selfbondage - and tell them to go chop down some trees.

Then, make them bind their thighs and tell them to navigate and light up an unexplored cave or something.

Then, bind their arms at the elbows and make them either complete a high-effort task, like building, or if you're feeling particularly cruel, go send them out into the darkness of the night w/out any items and let them fend for themselves!!

If you appreciate theming as much as I do as well, then you could even do a harem "see no evil, speak no evil, hear no evil" bit by having one of your subs be blindfolded, one of your subs be deafened (just turning their computer volume to zero, lmao), and one of your subs be gagged and unable to use text chat. You can even let the speak-no-evil sub use voice chat if you want to hear their desperate moans, as they try their hardest to alert the other two (...or other /one,/ seeing as one of them can't hear-) to some imminent danger of some kind.

And all of this is bondage for the sake of being restrictive! Bondage combined with pleasure, like toys, is a whole other topic that I'll be talking about tomorrow. Don't miss it! :3