u/Dense-Persimmon-787

Day before yesterday my wife had a non regular guy over. He was in London visiting his family and my wife said he could stay over the night. She literally met him whilst she was shopping and he started chatting her up essentially, consequently she told him we are part of the lifestyle and asked if he would like to come back to the house.

So anyway she text me to say she is bringing a guy back, someone tall and attractive. I was like yeah cool, no problem. For context I am never present in the room during the sex, it is just a boundary my wife and I have. Therefore I will stay downstairs for her safety or sometimes go out and run some errands etc if it is a regular, then hear all about it later.

So when they come back to the house it is about 7pm. He seems polite but clearly wants to get down to business, grabbing her arse etc. They go upstairs and I hear the distinct noises of pounding etc. About an hour passes, then she comes downstairs and says kinda awkwardly that he wants to stay the night. Of course I say it is up to her, what does she think etc. He ends up sleeping over. I hear stuff going on throughout the night. The next morning she comes to see me in the spare room about 6.30am and says it was good but he is quite persistent and wants sex before leaving. I was like jeez ok but you have to get ready for work etc, she was like yeah I know I'll go see him. Then I hear thighs slapping against arse cheeks again lol.

So about 7am she is getting a shower, fully getting ready for work, and so am I. She has to leave at 8.30 but I can stretch it to 8.45 as work local. This guy is literally in bed not moving. He knows we are leaving the house soon and wife said goodbyes etc. At 8.15 I literally had to say to him, whilst he was still in bed, OK come on now buddy, we are leaving the house very soon. He kinda looked at me a little offended like I was rudely kicking him out. I am not sure if he was on the spectrum and couldn't pick up social queues or what. Eventually he left, but only as she was leaving for work. He didn't follow her or anything bad, but just and odd situation.

Has anyone experienced similar?