u/Disastrous_Pizza4788

It’s been a rough one, but I’m hoping one of you sexy people can turn it around for me before I call it a night!

I’ll preface with the fact that I LOVE autistic Reddit. It makes me feel so normal and among my people, so thank you all! I’m really so grateful and validated every time I come on here.

I spend some time in r/autism, and have really enjoyed this community and r/autismafterdark

Where else are you sexy NDs hanging out and engaging on here? On Discord? I need more of you all!

I’d don’t know if it’s my literal thinking or what, but I never really understood the concept of sexual fantasies growing up. Like yea, I can imagine myself in whatever situation if it’s presented to me - sometimes that’s a turn on. Beyond that, the idea that people have these specific fantasies in their minds they want to fulfill has always felt very distant from my reality.

As I’ve gotten older and understand myself better, I think a lot of that was confusion over my own experience of arousal. I now have a better grasp of my kinks and that lends itself to more vivid fantasizing, but even now I can only conjure up the hopes of what I’d like done to me, but not necessarily broadening that to what I’d like to do with others.

Does anyone else have that block or something similar? How much of a role does fantasy play for you? What are some fantasies that jump out for you - maybe some of us can live vicariously through yours!