I know this sub is for mainly neurodivergent people (like myself) to post kinky and sexual stuff. But I'm wondering what exactly is the difference between a non-neurodivergent being sexual compared to a neurodivergent who is?
Of course this is just out of curiosity. What comes to mind is kinky hyperfixations. But I know it's not just that/everyone's answer
I have a lot of issues regarding telling the difference between platonic vs romantic feelings and/or affection, but thats not exactly what im talking about here... For example, I made friends with a trans girl recently and we get along reeeeally well (she's autistic too of course) so I was having a hard time telling if I was into her or not. It was only after going and watching some trans porn and getting off, that the next time we spent time together I could better see what I was feeling. And no- it wasn't post nut clarity, I first saw her again like a week after doing it. Also, this isn't my only example, for it was through the creation of some fursona-adjacent characters for purely horny purposes that I really learned what my actual relationship with sex is. I kinda just experience something, find an adjacent kink, beat tf out of my pussy, and find myself learning things more deeply because of it... Will answer any questions, I definitely more have points that need elaborating.
I do this a lot, sometimes subconsciously and sometimes on purpose. Of course I only do it when I’m alone, I’ll be studying or doing chores or whatever and start playing with my boobs. It’s not usually in a sexual way (unless I’m already in the mood lol) I’d say like 80% of the time it’s non sexual. It’s just so calming to me, I love how squishy they are and how they hang, and as long as I don’t squeeze too hard it doesn’t hurt at all. I also like playing with my nipples a lot, feeling them go from soft to hard.
When I am doing it in a sexual way, obviously it just turns me on more, and I kinda love seeing how hard my nipples can get, it’s actually surprising sometimes. Sometimes I hate having boobs because they get in the way, but then I remember I can do this, and that helps a bit lmao. Anyone else feel the same?
My husband and I (M/M) have been together monogamously for over a decade, we’ve always been kinky - but we collared me about 6 years ago and developed a long term power exchange dynamic.
The dynamic has gotten deeper, more complex, and more intense over time and it recently hit new levels - so it was time for a new consent contract! I’ve always been the one to write it - he comments, helps edit, suggests additions, etc - but we’ve always kept it in digital notes or apps. I know it’s not everyone’s autism, but imagine all of the autistic intensity/ hyper-fixation of porting everything into a single formal document, fixing, editing, adding, formatting…. I’ve done nothing else in my free time for 4 days.
It’s 11.5 pages long (and it needs to be).
My partner is neurodivergent but not in this kind of font, and now the new mission is to check my intensity level and go through the whole document w him so we can edit if needed as sign… and not get overwhelmed in the process lmao.
I’m genuinely so proud of it to be honest.
First time i saw a naked man, i was terrified. His penis was huge and ugly, and his balls were disgusting.
But nowadays i'm constantly taking my boyfriend's pants off (consensually geez) just to get a good handful...Or mouthfull, specially when it's soft!
My favorite thing is feeling the difference in his sack before and after he cums, what was so full and rigid gets so soft and empty 🤤
I love playing with thehead when it's drooling, he usually flinches but he sounds and feels so good, and uncuts are the best..!
I love everything about dicks, love feeling in my hand or inside my mouth, it feels so good all over and it's so fun to watch, too.
Is this what they call cock worship?
My one fantasy is becoming a girl.
I'm training to become a paramedic, and I constantly worry that me being kinky, or even me sexually expressing myself online at all, could make it hard for me to get hired when I'm certified or could get me in trouble at work. Is anyone here in the medical field or a similar field and let me know if this is true? Or is it just that I'm just letting my anxiety monster win again?
They’re so soft and warm, I want to bury my face in them… or even better, have the person hover over me and rub them on my face… even BETTER if they’re also stroking themselves while doing this 😵💫🥰
I love putting them in my mouth and feeling the texture of them. I LOVE sucking on them like a noodle 🍜
I think they’re the most unappreciated part of a man’s (or any type of balls-haver’s) body, and I make sure to give them some extra love whenever I can 😊🩷🩷🩷
I was talking recently to a friend of mine and realised how odd it is that I’ve never actually finished from head. Before anyone says the age old ‘All guys say that to get better head’ I am writing this online on Reddit - nothing is happening from this 😂
It’s more just a fascinating thing I’ve come (or cum - puns) to realise that I’ve never experienced. The weird thing is I love blowjobs, which years ago I thought they were hella overrated. But now I actually really love them and the sounds of someone gagging and slurping on it (yay sloppy head) make me very very feral. But it’s like an inability to finish from it, it’s always a warm up to sex for me, or me giving them head instead.
Anyone else find this is the case?
I literally sat down in a chair for a hour or something today and all I did was fantasize about becoming a girl.
Hi this is my first time posting here, I’m a diagnosed autistic woman. Does anyone else have a thing for pubic hair? It’s kind of embarrassing how much I enjoy it, idk what happened but in the last couple years I’ve started being obsessed with it; I actually used to actually dislike it. Especially when I’m ovulating or just extra horny, and I see a picture of a guys dick with pubic hair, genuinely I lose my mind lol. Please tell me I’m not the only one because I feel like at this point it’s become a fetish lmaoooo and I’ve never had a fetish before
is there a psychological explanation for that? what life events or personality factors would be likely to result in it?
edit: i meant “psychology of” instead of “between”. i don’t know what i was thinking, but the title doesn’t make very much sense and now i can’t change it.
I think my weekly average is 2.5, but sometimes can be higher. The absolute most ive done in a single day is 6 times. Comment below what yours is.
So a couple of days ago I posted a list of kinks that I am either not into, maybe into, ok with, like, lov/favorite. Well thanks to a commentor I realized my dumbass linked with to MY choices not a blank sheet which prolly explain why some were having difficulties with it. So here’s the Blank list
I am a very independent person and everyone around me knows it.I can come across bossy and I’m usually the one of my family making plans and taking initiative. At work I’m the current top performer and newer coworkers always come to me when they need help. But I love being treated like I’m not able to make decisions for myself.
My fiancé is such a soft Dom, he clips my nails, opens my pop cans, drys me off after showers and rubs lotion on me. When I fall asleep on the couch he sends me to bed. When I can’t make a decision he gives me two options to choose from. He’s even picked my nose for me when my acrylics are too long (not sexy just nice of him). He basically pampers me in every way with no complaints.
This past weekend I had a gummy and got high, which makes me very submissive/dumb/ and also makes it hard for me to move around. We had sex and then he went to start the shower. When I joined him he just immediately scrubbing me down. It was hotter than the sex we had just had. He didn’t ask, he just started washing me and telling me to spin around for him. It was the sexiest thing he did all night and I’m still thinking about it. His hands were so gentle and soft and it just turned me on even more.