Actual non sexual service?

Hey 👋 I've done a couple events being at the service of others. Mainly ladies. Been invited to do some in their home service. Non sexual play for me but has anyone done this kind of thing at all? Or just even attended events in a service role?

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u/DiscoveryThroughDMLG — 5 days ago

Non Sexual Service Subs in the home

I've been a couple events and LOVED them. I love the psychology/community/trust of it all and it's great I can be involved without actually being INVOLVED. I like 'cumming in my brain' so it's a different experience for me. I barely actually cum anymore... Or have desire to.

I've been providing servitude service at both events and been appreciated. As you can imagine cleaning can sometimes literally be a shitty job. But I enjoy doing my part to make sure everyone else has a great time 🥰 I've been invited to other events too 💕

But I've also been invited to clean homes, which for 2 I think they're genuinely serious whilst others may just be having some fun with the suggestion.

How do you think cleaning homes would go? I mean if they're single pringles or a family-less kinky couple I guess it could work but I'm unsure about doing this around vanilla people and obviously not under 18!

Has anyone here had a service sub at their home or been one? Do you set boundaries like bedrooms are personal spaces etc to not be entered?

It's been women that have asked me. Surely we need to build some trust first as a male (mind you a small, skinny one in a maid uniform) so I guess having coffees or meeting at munches? Because whilst I know I'm safe and trustworthy they dont know. But them having a friend there too could work even if vanilla I guess.

Now escapism into the role is largely what I get out of it and I kinda like the 'be seen not heard' but still, I'd like to get interaction out of it even if it's just being told I've been a good girl. One lady just lightly tickled the back of my neck with her nails whilst saying how well I was doing 🥺 💕 How could I communicate that? I certainly don't want to be used.

Any help appreciated ☺️

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u/DiscoveryThroughDMLG — 6 days ago

Hismith Machine and Lube Launcher

Hismith 3.0 Premium Sex Machine £300

Premium sex machine 100w so if you're into Anal then this will certainly 'power' through. Stroke length 1.3–5.03 inches (you can change it). All packed nicely for transport :)

I bought from this sub Reddit from U/my_sissy_life for £360 but he had the attachable dildo sealed whereas I don't

I really wanted it to work but I just don't have time and when I do I'm often not in the mood and it's been sat under the bed since I bought it. So I'm selling so I can buy more clothes .. maybe other toys idk

Hismith Automatic Lube Launcher 1.0 £50

I'll be real, you're better off buying the upgraded 2.0 but this is at least cheaper to see if this is for you.

This has NOT been used anally. It was far too big to even consider 😂 but it was fun to experience getting a mouth/face full.. but after you done it once I got bored and it is a little noisy. You can put a pillow over the device to dampen the noise though.

But the feature to this is to keep you well lubricated inside. Attaches to the Hismith 3.0 machine

All items sterilised and cleaned.

Ideally selling both items together but will be sent separately.

PayPal preferred

Not in a rush to sell so if you're a time waster or you give me the ick then I'll just ignore.

Open to offers/partial trades. I'm a total girl any satin or plastic clothes let me know 🥰

Can't seem to add videos so ask me if you want proof of toys working :)

u/DiscoveryThroughDMLG — 12 days ago

Advice for High Quality Maid Outfit

I'm looking at TheSissyStore which seems to be the place to go :) but love to know other thoughts.

I'm going to an event and tbh I want to be more presentable so maybe not have my arse hanging out unless I bend over more like a tart. This is so I could go non-kink events too and just generally because I think it's more polite.

No offence to anyone but feel the black and white is a bit boring too so be good to spice it up with colour!

I do like PVC/plastic but I imagine they get hit and sweaty after a point? Probably just fun for solo play.

Any thoughts appreciated on places :) I have a decent budget but I think my dream would be finding one that kinda works like a normal dress too!

Xx

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u/DiscoveryThroughDMLG — 1 month ago

I have signed up to one, slightly pricey ticket but offers a lot. It isn't a munch if social but party styled.

Curious what happens l like how does one get involved when going alone? Pretty happy to play the part of a sub and be used for other people's enjoyment

Like for example do golden showers happen? Gloryholes? Could I be collared? Massage feet? I know it'll be eventually dependent etc but what has been others experiences?

Let me know any thoughts please 🥰 I just hope it isn't a drink and social with isolated couples and I'm just sat alone in the corner. Really hope there's like a group chat actually..

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u/DiscoveryThroughDMLG — 1 month ago

Ideally some mid 30s like me with a pretty normal life 😂 just looking for someone to chill with and ideally a sissy or girly

I'm male :) married etc and lead a very normal life - this is just my escapism!

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u/DiscoveryThroughDMLG — 1 month ago
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Self Play Punishment ideas

In a hotel for a few nights and I want to roleplay bring punished bring a female domm

Spanking myself is a simple one

Kissing toilet seat is another

Thinking of mouth soaping (but buying a bdsm friendly version as it isn't healthy!)

Fart spray for fart slave but not sure how this will work

Thinking of getting smelly socks somehow for smelling and being gagged with

Any ideas? I love messy play but it's a hotel!

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u/DiscoveryThroughDMLG — 1 month ago