u/DistinctClass4042

I am in my late 20s and never had a girlfriend. I am a very logical and smart person with deep intellect, and some facts in life you just accept.

If no woman that I like has shown this kind of interest in me ever; then it will never happen.

In general in my friendships, I am always the one who reaches out.

Women always reject me and choose ugly players and assholes who dont deserve them.

I am a very cool guy but girls never give me a chance. I am 1.85 tall, handsome, not fat.

I am severely depressed because of this. This is my only complex in life. Apart from my career/academic situation. I have given up on everything in my life because what is the point if I will never have a loving girlfriend.

How do I get out of these negative thoughts?

I live in Sweden and here no one talks to strangers. How ever, I am a man in my late 20s and never had a girlfriend. I need to change this.

How do I stop the anxiety and the inner bad talk I have? If a girl gives me super clear choosing signals I will obviously talk and if we are both seated close to each other/next to each other, but what if none of them are looking at me and are talking among themselves?

Usually I ask for a phone charger because then I have to interact two times, once when getting it, and second time when returning it.

but what do I do? I dont wanna embarass myself during cold approach. Thats my main struggle. I dont wanna seem desperate and people looking at me like "oh this guy tries to hit on women"

I am a man in late 20s and never had a girlfriend despite being tall (185cm) and handsome.

I have only been with women in central european countries where the social life is different.

No one talks to strangers in Sweden, especially in the shithole capital Stockholm. I get no matches on dating apps either. The few interactions I've had with women, like a talking stage or what ever the last 2 years, I can count on one hand.

And all of them have been foreign women, and they all ghosted me in the end anyway. Those interactions were through me interacting with women that were in the same environment as me and we started a random convo about something in that current environment.

In Sweden there are fewer women than men and feminism is quite extreme here so it makes it even harder than it is to meet women. Men are seen as "bad/evil" by many swedish women and swedish women think they dont need a man.
Which makes me even more scared to to cold approach here. I only say hi to foreign women

I feel like I am trapped in a mental prison here. Women are extremely skeptical to strangers, no one let alone women talks to strangers.
Nightlife is basically nonexistent here and people just go to bars to grab a drink with their friends.
The bars close at 1am and there are bouncers everywhere ready to kick out people if they have any slight visual cue of being somewhat tipsy.

Its a shithole country. I feel profound loneliness and depression being here as I know how it is in other countries. Even in Germany or Denmark there is a huge difference.

Yet there are ugly men with pretty girlfriends here.
I refuse to accept that in this one life I got, I will never experience having a girlfriend.

How do I get out of this rut?
Also I want to start daygame here and I would be glad to have some fellow wingmen to go out and practice talking to women. Either in Stockholm or Malmö

I'm a man in my late 20s and I've never had a girlfriend. I get sad and angry whenever I see couples outside, as I know I'm getting older and I will never experience that.

I'm not a virgin but I've only gotten laid in other countries where it is easy to get one night stands

In my country Sweden, in this feminist fucking bullshit hellhole, even saying hi to a woman on the street you dont know is seemed as "weird/creepy". The only interactions I've had with women in Sweden has been with foreign women, who are normal and not brainwashed like swedish women.

Also, I have a different ethnic background, so even though I am born in Sweden swedish chicks still will view me as a foreigner and are more likely to avoid me.

Even though i have nice convos/interactions with foreign women, it does not lead anywhere. I might get some phone number or socials but they stop replying/ghost me.
I'm not stupid and I realize I will never get a girlfriend as long as I live in this shithole.

I see ugly men and narcissistic assholes get women, but not me. This has made me super angry and I walk around with an aggressive facial expression all the time. My inner stress and mental stress shows to the outside.

In the past I have even thought about why am I even living if this is how it will be for me.
Luckily I've gotten out of these thoughts.

But nonetheless life is against me. I have no friends who contacts me first, I have to always contact them first. I get no women. I have no money, despite doing everything I can to make money.

I had so much potential in life. I am a med school dropout. It means I had the smartness to at least
study in med school until my studies got messed up due to personal reasons.

Even if I manage to find some women in her 30s/40s when I myself get older, it will be some woman who is tired of getting plowed through by assholes and now wants to settle down with a beta provider.
I will never accept such a woman.
I will never experience the first love people have in their youth. I dont want to turn into a grey haired man when I get my first girlfriend/wife

So what do I do now?
Dating apps aint working. I've never gotten any women in Sweden despite being born in this bullshit country