Seen your parents having sex?
Watching My Parents’ Relationship Through the Years
I have carried this memory for a long time and never really knew how to talk about it. Growing up, I often noticed how affectionate my parents were with each other. Because our home was small and our schedules overlapped, I would sometimes walk into a room unexpectedly or overhear moans and dirty talks that were never meant for me to witness.
At first, as a child, I felt confused and embarrassed. I did not fully understand what I was seeing, and I would quickly leave the room, pretending nothing had happened. As the years passed, these incidents occurred often enough that I became aware of how close my parents were as a couple. It seemed that despite the stress of work, finances, and raising children, they always found time for one another. I never spoke about them to friends or relatives because I worried they would find it strange but I had started to enjoy watching sex.
Then I started hearing them purposely and enjoyed myself while my parents enjoyed in the room and I watched them through the window.