32 [M4F] #Europe #Online Experienced Dom looking for a dynamic built on trust with an eager sub
Hello potential subbie,
This post is going to be a reflection of who I am as a person, as a Dom and what I am looking for.
Before I start, let me warn you- This is going to be a long post but hopefully by the end of it, you are intrested to talk and send me a text.
Also, while I have mentioned #Europe in my post, it's just a preference so if you are from another timezone but feel that we can be a great match, text me and we will figure things out.
Now let's start with who I am?
I am Octo, a 32 year old guy who's been a part of this beautiful world of bdsm for the last 6 years. Currently I work in a hybrid job but have plans to set up my own business in near future. However reat assured, I always have enough time to dedicate to my dynamics and nurture them.
My physical description:
- Height 6'0
- Black Hair
- Black eyes
- Toned and Athletic body
Kinky Me
As I said earlier, I have been into bdsm for the last 6 years. My experiences (From both IRL and online dynamics) and the mistakes that I have made during these years have helped me to improve myself as a person and become better Dom for my sub. I believe in continous improvement and I still keep reading and learning more.
Coming to my kinks, I have explored a lot of things over these years. My likes include different forms of control like Orgasms, clothes, toys, schedules etc., wax play, denials and edges, ice play, ropes and bondage, humiliation and degradation, hidden public things, pain play, anal. This is not an exhaustive list since I am always interested to explore more things.
As a Dom, I don't like to rush into any dynamic but rather take my time to understand my sub as a person, their needs and desires as well as their limits and build trust over time. I firmly believe having honest and open conversations is the best way to figure out compatibility and it also helps to develop mutual trust.
Vanilla Me
In my vanilla life, I am a chilled out person who loves a bit of structure in his life. My usual day starts with going to the gym and then heading to work after that. I love to spend my evenings either reading something (Yes it includes both kinky and vanilla stuff), watching a tv show (I love thrilers or mystery shows and anime as well) or going out to meet my freinds.
As you would have guessed, I am also into fitness and like to take care of my body. My close friends would describe me as someone who has a calm personality but yaps a lot.
What am I looking for?
I am looking for a long term connection with a submissive which is built on trust. It doesn't matter to me if you have lots of experience or are unexperienced, what's important to me is the amount of efforts you put into the dynamic and the willingness to learn. Also since I yap a lot and I prefer to have two way conversations, I would love it if you are also able to hold a conversation about both vanilla as well as kinky stuff.
I will reply back to all messages so don't hesitate to text me but please make sure you send your Age, Timezone when you text.
Thanks