u/Dom_SubLover

24 [F4M] #USA #California Looking for a longterm dynamic with a submissive man

Hello Everyone,

I hope you are having a wonderful night so far!

I am currently searching for a submissive guy, someone who is genuinely interested in exploring a dynamic that goes beyond just the physical aspects of kink. I am looking for someone to develop a long-term relationship with. This means growing both inside and outside of kink. I want a partner with whom I can share experiences, learn from each other, and build a meaningful connection. This involves open communication, mutual respect, and a willingness to support each other’s personal growth. I am fairly new to the scene but don’t let my experience level fool you. I know what I want and deserve and expect nothing less. I have clear expectations and am looking for someone who is equally self-aware and knows what they bring to the table.

I am okay with short term BUT please EXPLICITLY state that you are just looking to get off. I would much rather appreciate the honesty and help you help me get off. This will be mutually beneficial and not waste my time. I value transparency and directness, especially when it comes to exploring short-term encounters. I believe that clear communication ensures that both parties are on the same page and can enjoy the experience without any misunderstandings.

I am excited to get to know everyone and hopefully find the one!! I have been really wanting to try out new kinks and explore more in depth some kinks I already have. I think it would be really fun to find someone to be able to do that with. I am eager to find someone who is as enthusiastic about exploring new experiences as I am. I envision a dynamic where we can openly discuss our desires, experiment with different scenarios, and push our boundaries in a safe and consensual manner.

A little bit about me is that I am working full time! Even though work takes up time, I love it because I get to meet new people and interact with them every day! I also get to work from home sometimes which helps organize my day. My job is a significant part of my life, and I enjoy the social interaction and mental stimulation it provides. The flexibility of working from home allows me to better manage my time and integrate my personal interests into my daily routine.

I love games (both board and video), hanging out with friends, and scrolling Instagram/X. I also occasionally do puzzles or go hiking, which some people find boring! I have a variety of hobbies that keep me entertained and engaged. Whether it's strategizing in a board game, exploring virtual worlds, or simply enjoying the company of friends, I appreciate activities that bring joy and relaxation to my life.

I also love trying new foods, going to concerts, and traveling. I am a very adventurous person and love to try new things. I am also very open-minded and love learning about new cultures. Cooking for me is the way to my heart. I am always seeking new adventures and experiences, whether it's sampling exotic cuisines, attending live music events, or exploring new destinations. I believe that travel broadens the mind and fosters a deeper understanding of different cultures and perspectives.

I am really only looking for people in the US or other countries within those time zones. I have tried international, and it is really, really difficult, but if you think you can make it work, let me know and explain why in the first message. Logistical considerations are important to me, especially when it comes to maintaining a long-term relationship. I prefer to connect with individuals who are geographically compatible to facilitate easier communication and potential meet-ups.

Kinks: femdom, edging, chastity, cbt, pegging, humiliation, toys, anal play, denial, orgasm control, JOI, and more!

Limits: illegal, vomit, sounding, and anything too extreme.

*I am very open and do not kink shame. Just please be honest with me in what you're looking for and what you want out of a dynamic/relationship.*

If you read all the way down, please message me with your:

* Name (does not have to be full name or real name (nickname is okay)
* ASL (Age, Sex, Location (country preferably and state or timezone)
* Detailed list of kinks and limits
* Hobbies and interests
* Picture of yourself (SFW or NSFW) (Face preferred)

I will not respond unless all of these things are answered. Please put some effort into the responses. I will likely respond to every response with a yes and continue the conversation or let you know that I am not interested. As long as effort is shown, a response will be made :)

Have a great night!!

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