Hi there,
I’m a 30 year old male from the Netherlands, a mix of Pleasure Dom, Master, and Daddy, looking for something serious and long term with a woman who genuinely wants to build a deep, committed D/s or M/s dynamic.
What I’m looking for
I prefer an in person relationship in the long run, but I’m open to starting online as long as you’re willing to meet and, if things truly connect, consider travel or relocation. A close time zone is a big plus.
Age isn’t a major factor as long as you’re a legal adult. What matters most is your mindset and your desire for a committed dynamic with structure, intensity, and trust. Experience is not a problem at all, for me its all about the mindset. I will gladly guide and teach you all about this lifestyle in a safe and trusted environment.
I’m extremely open minded regarding kinks and dynamics my interests are broad. These are some of my interests: Bondage, sadism, humiliation, degrading, TPE, CNC, orgasm control, sensory play, cock worshipping, breath play, impact play, wax play, pet play, exhibitionism, nipple torture.
One thing I know I’m seeking is someone who is drawn to TPE or high control dynamics. The form would lean toward D/s or M/s, not DDLG. I do like the nurturing part of DDLG just not the age play side. I enjoy taking as much control as a partner genuinely wants to give, in a way that feels grounding, intimate, and satisfying to both of us.
Who I am
Outside the dynamic, I’m a very grounded, family oriented person. I love spending time with my family, and I’m loyal and steady by nature.
In my free time I’m a bit of a nerd, I enjoy gaming, movies, series, and hanging out with friends doing the same. I also stay active through swimming and kickboxing. Professionally, I work as a mechanical engineer.
My Dominance
What makes me stand out as a Dom is the balance of strictness, understanding, and respect. I’ll set expectations and structure, but I’m also someone who listens. Your safety, limits, and well being always come first. RACK and SSC aren’t optional to me, safety always comes first.
If you’re looking for a Dominant who is serious, intentional, and ready to build something real and lasting, feel free to message me. I’d love to get to know you.