40 [M4F] #Chicago #Chicago Suburbs #Northwest Indiana Experienced Dom seeking play partner who wishes to explore the deep end of the pool.
I’m looking for a new toy to play with. Someone who wishes to be consensually broken before being safely put back together. Someone who enjoys the darker aspects of BDSM.
I have a sub who does a wonderful job of fulfilling my desires. I’m seeking (with my sub’s knowledge and consent) a play partner to occasionally meet up with to engage in certain activities, and with a specific tone, that are outside the scope of my current dynamic.
Our time together will be dedicated to your humiliation, degradation, objectification, and the infliction of pain on your willing body. The kinds of intense sessions that should only really be had on occasion. You will be the outlet for my darker desires. I will be the man who safely guides you into your own dark recesses.
I have experience in many different types of play and I enjoy the psychological aspects of BDSM just as much as the physical. Spending time with me could look like…
•Forcing you to piss yourself, mocking you for it, then using you as my personal urinal.
•Using you as a foot rest while I tend to things on my phone that are more interesting than you.
•Forcing you to perform ridiculous and impossible to achieve tasks.
•Beating you when you inevitably fail to complete those tasks.
•Beating you just because I like beating you.
•Getting you on the verge of the greatest orgasm of your life and then sending you home just before achieving it.
•On the flip side, forcing you to cum so many times that you quietly fear you’ll never enjoy orgasming again.
•Tying you down and taking the time to thoughtfully listen and learn some of your insecurities.
•Using those insecurities as weapons to verbally degrade you while I shove ginger up your ass and fist you…
I’m being a little flippant to demonstrate the tone I like to set. The reality is, I believe firmly in RACK, adhere to the traffic light system, check in frequently, and never engage in any type of play without consent and serious prior discussion of hard and soft limits. I will do a tremendous amount of homework on you before we ever attempt anything.
As I mentioned, I have a sub and she is my perfect little fuck doll and cum slut. Any sexual contact between you and I would be limited to hands and toys.
We will not see each other socially outside of play dates, but obviously we need to click on some personal level so…
About me:
Reader, writer, eccentric weirdo, lover of deep conversation, hater of small talk, old soul, loather of anything that is popular.
Physically I’m a burly, kind of scary looking fella, 5’11, dark hair, big beard, and tattoos. I’d like to exchange SFW pics early if we feel like we are a good fit.
About you:
Just tell me. Honestly, if you’ve made it this far we’re probably on the same frequency. If we’re not a good match I’m still always open to meeting new subs to chat about kink with.