u/Downtown_Dare_4991

(Feel free to delete if there are posts about it, I just haven’t found many while searching)
I’m looking for a prosthetic that would allow me to stroke and receive a blowjob with good suction. I don’t want it to penetrate or pack with, just a pleasure extender. I haven’t found many reviews for the gendercat gender extender, but it looks like it could work well for me. I was interested in the transthetics lollipop but it’s pretty expensive. Does anyone recommend the genderextender, or something similar to get pleasurable sensation for blowjobs?

I’m 19M, nearly 2 years on T and planning bottom surgery (most likely extended meta).
Currently, I enjoy getting a blowjob from my boyfriend but once I get fully hard, I become too sensitive and it’s painful. I need to switch to fingering or being fucked to actually cum. I’ve always had this issue, never been able to cum easily from head. Would having meta have any effect on this? Did this issue resolve post meta?

TW: natal genitalia talk

I’m a trans man and either getting extended meta or phallo, with scrotoplasty either way, and no UL. My ideal look would be to have fully male appearing genitals if anyone was to see me naked, however I still want a vagina under my balls so I can still use it to bottom. Though I’ve heard issues can arise from the scar tissue on labia majora after scrotoplasty, which can make the hole too tight for sex.

My only purpose for not getting a vaginectomy is to retain the sexual sensation I get from PIV, as it’s the main way I can cum. But if there’s a high likelihood I’ll be too tight to be penetrated with no way of improving that, there’s no point in keeping it for me. Has anyone had personal experience with bottoming again after surgery? Can the tightness be fixed with dilating or massaging?