Wife considering fucking another to get pregnant.
Well… This requires a little background history. My wife and I have been married for seven years. I am 23 years her senior, I had done the passport bro) thing and had been introduced to her through our brother-in-law who lives in the states with his wife, my wife's sister. They are from Vietnam and from a small village. She is extremely wonderful and loving and loyal. As mentioned earlier… I am older and have two adult children already, but in life you stick with what you're good at, and I was a good father. Thing about it was that I never thought I'd be in this position and had a vasectomy many years ago after my son had been born.
Prior to marrying my current wife… I had made it clear to her that I did not want a vanilla sex life. I wanted excitement and I want it to be excited for her. My ex-wife had gone out on dates while we were married… She enjoyed it…and I had also shared a few girlfriends after my divorce. So I do know what I love.
Now a present day… My wife is not into the lifestyle. We have had a number of arguments about it. She is firm on the fact that she's not into sharing. But things may have changed.
wife wants a child and I was excited to give one. We had gone through IVF and had three attempts… which led to three failures. We were considering reversing my vasectomy, but after having spent a substantial amount of money on the IVF procedures… We're doing nothing more than continuing to get into debt. I had told her before that I would not have an issue of her having the child of another man. I'm adopted and I understand how my parents love me because they wanted me and how they are truly my parents.
Now we came to an impasse where my wife is opening up to the idea of taking on a lover too impregnate her. My question/concern is that I would not want her to just give it up to anybody. I would want her to bring a child in to this world because of love.
My wife is also mentioned to me that she would want me to be there… Not quite sure in what capacity… But I'm thinking that I'll have to take a lead on this end. Find somebody. I am considering online, of course. But one thing that I'd like to do is have her learn to open up to other people. Just speak to people. She is quite shy and in addition to that the reluctantly of hooking up with somebody is still there. So I'm gonna take her to a bar leave her there… Have the guys flirt with her… She's very attractive. Just for her to learn to open up and be willing to speak to others… And build relationships too.
I will work on finding somebody… Personally, I would like for it to be long-term… Both sexually and also for future possibilities of another child.
What are your thoughts guys and thanks.