u/Dskrt_214

In plain empirical terms:

A = (47, 5’10”, 166 lbs, brown hair/eyes, lean runner build. Happily married gay MWM in most of the ways that matter. Great life overall, though the missing spark leaves a quiet little ache in the margins.)

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B = (bi/curious MWM somewhere in the 30s–50s range; slim/fit, clean-cut, witty, polite smart-ass demeanor, emotionally intelligent, intellectually curious, and ideally equipped with a functioning head both above the shoulders and slightly below the belt, lol.)

= x

Where x = a genuinely good connection built on EQ + IQ, with a little SQ thrown in to round it out (Sexual Quotient… probably not a real thing, but it fits here, lol). Good conversation. Clever banter. Playful flirting. The kind of chemistry where you catch yourself smiling at your phone like an idiot because the next message just landed.

x ∈ A and x ∈ B

…math checks out, at least in theory. 😉

*MWM = married white male
**Yes, bonus points if you can appreciate both a well-timed innuendo and proper punctuation.

In plain and empirical terms :  

A (genuinely happily  married gay mwm * who is busy and generally content with work and domestic duties—the daily life grind humming along just fine. I’m happily married in most of the ways that matter… except for the small but not-so-small detail of a long-standing dead bedroom) ∩ B (genuinely happily married bi/curious mwm ** with witty banter, a polite smart-ass demeanor, and a functioning brain who wants a similar outlet—perhaps due to a dead bedroom like mine, or someone who quietly enjoys bisexuality on the side. In other words, someone navigating roughly the same logistical physics of married life) = x : a quality bromance where both parties enjoy the ongoing interplay of EQ and IQ, with a SQ to round it out (Sexual Quotient—probably not a real thing, but it fits here, lol). Good conversation, playful flirtation, clever banter, and the kind of rapport that makes you look forward to the next message

Where x ∈ A and x ∈ B. Math checks out. 

* Me: professional, reasonable gl, 5'10, 165lbs, 31w br/br, lean, masc, clean-cut, witty, fun, gay married white man. Avid but slow long-distance runner (marathon/50K), regularly work out. Confidentiality and hygiene/ddf are a given and well-respected.

** You: professional, physically and mentally active/attractive, easy going, clean-cut, slim-fit 30-50 guy next door type bi-curious married white man.

I’m 46, 5’10”, 165, 31w—brown hair/eyes, lean runner build with some cross-training. Masc, professional, married gay white guy. Happily married in most ways… minus the small-but-not-small detail of a long-standing dead bedroom.

Lately I’ve been entertaining the idea of a quality bromance : EQ + IQ, with a SQ (Sexual Quotient—probably not a real thing, but it fits here, lol). Good conversation, playful flirtation, sharp banter—the kind that makes you look forward to the next message.

Ideally and admittedly a bit superficially, I’m drawn to a white, married bi/curious man (30s–50s) who is slim/fit, clean-cut with witty banter, a polite smart-ass edge, and a functioning head (both above the shoulders and below the belt, lol), who understands the discreet logistics of married life.

Happy to keep things online for a while to get to know each other and feel comfortable, but I’d say an in-person sequel would be a great next step sooner rather than later.

Ah also: No, won’t be able to host . No, not married to a woman. Prefer within city of Dallas, not burbs.

I’m 46, 5’10”, 165, 31w—brown hair/eyes, lean runner build with some cross-training. Masc, professional, married gay white guy. Happily married in most ways… minus the small-but-not-small detail of a long-standing dead bedroom.

Lately I’ve been entertaining the idea of a quality bromance : EQ + IQ, with a SQ (Sexual Quotient—probably not a real thing, but it fits here, lol). Good conversation, playful flirtation, sharp banter—the kind that makes you look forward to the next message.

Ideally and admittedly a bit superficially, I’m drawn to a white, married bi/curious man (30s–50s) who is slim/fit, clean-cut with witty banter, a polite smart-ass edge, and a functioning head (both above the shoulders and below the belt, lol), who understands the discreet logistics of married life.

Most posts seem tailored for online connection, but I’d argue an in-person sequel would be a pretty great next step.

Ah also: No, I don’t use Snap, Reddit chat is just suffice. No, not married to a woman. Prefer local or a frequent-visitor bro.