u/Due-Side-3265

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OK so a couple of years ago I met a guy who was in my school, but then we were just friends never thought about anything like relationship or going any further but then like last year he came up to me and then like we started talking at each other on social media and stuff and then he started being sexual, so I did not want to commit to anything because I’m kind of scared of being betrayed cheated on because that’s always all I knew in my family’s life. I’ve never actually been in a good relationship only one, but I ended it because I I am scared of getting cheated on betrayed or just not loved anymore so I just told him let’s just be friends with benefits no emotional commitment no nothing just we can be friends talk and stuff but no emotion like relationship and stuff but then the thing is he recently got a girlfriend and the thing is I’m really wondering am I the problem for keep talking to him and seeing him because I tried stopping it at first because I’d never want my boyfriend to actually do that to me so why would I be the side chick but the thing is the relationship has become so like deep it is hard to go it’s like we got somehow emotionally attached to each other even though we both don’t admit to it like am I the problem or something because I keep getting blocked and unblocked so his girlfriend don’t find out about us. I’m kind of scared. I don’t wanna get caught or fight about it because of a boy I really need advice.

OK so a couple of years ago I met a guy who was in my school, but then we were just friends never thought about anything like relationship or going any further but then like last year he came up to me and then like we started talking at each other on social media and stuff and then he started being sexual, so I did not want to commit to anything because I’m kind of scared of being betrayed cheated on because that’s always all I knew in my family’s life. I’ve never actually been in a good relationship only one, but I ended it because I I am scared of getting cheated on betrayed or just not loved anymore so I just told him let’s just be friends with benefits no emotional commitment no nothing just we can be friends talk and stuff but no emotion like relationship and stuff but then the thing is she recently got a girlfriend and the thing is I’m really wondering am I the problem for keep talking to him and seeing him because I tried stopping it at first because I’d never want my boyfriend to actually do that to me so why would I be the side chick but the thing is the relationship has become so like deep it is hard to go it’s like we got somehow emotionally attached to each other even though we both don’t admit to it like am I the problem or something because I keep getting blocked and unblocked so his girlfriend don’t find out about us. I’m kind of scared. I don’t wanna get caught or fight about it because of a boy I really need advice.