u/DwayneTheThiccJohnso

Hi! I've (20f) been with my partner (21m) for two years. We engage in a sub/dom situation, but mostly sexually. Before dating him I never wanted to call a man daddy, but I often feel the urge during sex.

I get into a 'subspace' basically instantly during sex and become incoherent pretty quickly and I'm worried one day it's just going to spill out and he's not going to like it. I've thrown the word around jokingly to his face and over text but he always skirts around it.

Is the easiest solution to just discuss our boundaries and see how he would feel about trying it out? I don't want to ruin our dynamic by making him uncomfortable. I am also really new to the online sub community, so any advice is helpful and appreciated

Thank you :)