u/Educational_Tune4640

Hey All,

Me and the wife are heading to amsterdam on the 26th next month. After a few coffeeshop tours were looking to go to Club Paradise.

Weve been to Cafe Sameplace a few months back which was great (went on sunday couples night). Being new to the lifestyle we really appreciated the no dress down rule to help us dip our toes into the lifestyle.

This time we really want to go to one that has a bigger venue. Looked at Fata Morgana and Fun4two which was quite far out from where we are, so we come across Club Paradise. Weve seen the pictures and read all the information on their website and also read loads of reviews already. But we still have a few question we couldnt find the answers to.

Weve been travelling all year, so ive put on some timber and my wife is quite self concious about herself so we know theres a mandatory dress down rule which were fine with but where just stuck on what to wear. In general we dont really dress very revealing.

So we wanted to know if men are allowed to wear like a tank top, a t-shirt or shirt (because of the added timber) on along with dark boxer shorts. I was thinking of wearing black boxer shorts and a black tank top (cotton or satin) and for shoes i was thinking some slides or we allowed socks? Feels weird wearing shoes with just boxers on.

And wife wanted to wear them short satin robes or a babydoll dress and some stockings and some flats.

Is this attire okay for the dress down rule? What are we not allowed from what we listed? What did you guys wear? And any suggestions?

Next question:

Were going on a saturday. Website hasnt released whats going to happen on that day yet but it seems like saturdays are couples night. Is that true? We only want to go because of couples night.

And also on their price list it says "all-in" does that mean drinks included all night or after certain time or after a certain amount?

Hi All, were 27F and 30M british south asian couple looking for another couple to share the bedroom with

NO SINGLES

Were not swingers (just yet) but we like being watched and watching others

Were looking for someone that can host or we can book a hotel

Will be asking couples for verification so dont bother contacting us if you cant verify your a couple (a video call with us is good enough)

Were not sending any pics of us till a few days of speaking so dont bother asking straight away

Were still new to this and would love to meet another south asian couple in or around london and also around our age

Still trying to find the right couple to start this adventure with

Being abit picky only because its our first time doing this. So would like patient couples

Would like couples that likes to have a drink and maybe a puff and enjoy company

Were both kinda introverts

Wed like a couple with no experience in this at all so we can learn how it works together maybe even start swinging together in the future

Too many fake couples or pictures collectera on reddit so verification is needed to move forward!

Hi All, were 27F and 30M british south asian couple looking for another couple to share the bedroom with

NO SINGLES

Were not swingers (just yet) but we like being watched and watching others

Were looking for someone that can host or we can book a hotel

Will be asking couples for verification so dont bother contacting us if you cant verify your a couple (a video call with us is good enough)

Were not sending any pics of us till a few days of speaking so dont bother asking straight away

Were still new to this and would love to meet another south asian couple in or around london and also around our age

Still trying to find the right couple to start this adventure with

Being abit picky only because its our first time doing this. So would like patient couples

Would like couples that likes to have a drink and maybe a puff and enjoy company

Were both kinda introverts

Wed like a couple with no experience in this at all so we can learn how it works together maybe even start swinging together in the future

Too many fake couples or pictures collectera on reddit so verification is needed to move forward!

Hi All, were 27F and 30M british south asian couple looking for another couple to share the bedroom with

NO SINGLES

Were not swingers (just yet) but we like being watched and watching others

Were looking for someone that can host or we can book a hotel

Will be asking couples for verification so dont bother contacting us if you cant verify your a couple (a video call with us is good enough)

Were not sending any pics of us till a few days of speaking so dont bother asking straight away

Were still new to this and would love to meet another south asian couple in or around london and also around our age

Still trying to find the right couple to start this adventure with

Being abit picky only because its our first time doing this. So would like patient couples

Would like couples that likes to have a drink and maybe a puff and enjoy company

Were both kinda introverts

Wed like a couple with no experience in this at all so we can learn how it works together maybe even start swinging together in the future

Too many fake couples or pictures collectera on reddit so verification is needed to move forward!

Hi All, were 27F and 30M british south asian couple looking for another couple to share the bedroom with

NO SINGLES

Were not swingers (just yet) but we like being watched and watching others

Were looking for someone that can host or we can book a hotel

Will be asking couples for verification so dont bother contacting us if you cant verify your a couple (a video call with us is good enough)

Were not sending any pics of us till a few days of speaking so dont bother asking straight away

Were still new to this and would love to meet another south asian couple in or around london and also around our age

Still trying to find the right couple to start this adventure with

Being abit picky only because its our first time doing this. So would like patient couples

Would like couples that likes to have a drink and maybe a puff and enjoy company

Were both kinda introverts

Wed like a couple with no experience in this at all so we can learn how it works together maybe even start swinging together in the future

Too many fake couples or pictures collecters on reddit so verification is needed to move forward!

Hi All, were 27F and 30M british south asian couple looking for another couple to share the bedroom with

NO SINGLES

Were not swingers (just yet) but we like being watched and watching others

Were looking for someone that can host or we can book a hotel

Will be asking couples for verification so dont bother contacting us if you cant verify your a couple

Were not sending any pics of us till a few days of speaking so dont bother asking straight away

Were really new to this and would love to meet another south asian couple in or around london and also around our age

Still trying to find the right couple to start this adventure with

Being abit picky only because its our first time doing this. So would like patient couples

Would like couples that likes to have a drink and maybe a puff and enjoy company

Were both kinda introverts

Wed like a couple with no experience in this at all so we can learn how it works together maybe even start swinging together in the future

Too many fakes on reddit so verification is needed to move forward!

Hi All, were 27F and 30M british south asian couple looking for another couple to share the bedroom with

NO SINGLES

Were not swingers (just yet) but we like being watched and watching others

Were looking for someone that can host or we can book a hotel

Will be asking couples for verification so dont bother contacting us if you cant verify your a couple

Were not sending any pics of us till a few days of speaking so dont bother asking straight away

Were really new to this and would love to meet another south asian couple in or around london and also around our age

Still trying to find the right couple to start this adventure with

Being abit picky only because its our first time doing this. So would like patient couples

Would like couples that likes to have a drink and maybe a puff and enjoy company

Were both kinda introverts

Wed like a couple with no experience in this at all so we can learn how it works together maybe even start swinging together in the future

Too many fakes on reddit so verification is needed to move forward!

Hi All, were 27F and 30M british south asian couple looking for another couple to share the bedroom with

NO SINGLES

​

Were not swingers (just yet) but we like being watching and watching other

​

Were looking for someone that can host or we can book a hotel

​

Will be attending a swingers clubs in the netherlands this weekend so if you will be there too give us a shout

​

Were not sending any pics of us till a few days of speaking so dont bother asking straight away

​

Were really new to this and would love to meet another south asian couple in or around london and also around our age

Still trying to find the right couple to start this adventure with

Being abit picky only because its our first time doing this. So would like patient couples

Would like couples that likes to have a drink and maybe a puff and enjoy company

Were both kinda introverts

Wed like a couple with no experience in this at all so we can learn how it works together maybe even start swinging together in the future

​

Hi All, were 27F and 30M british south asian couple looking for another couple to share the bedroom with

NO SINGLES

​

Were not swingers (just yet) but we like being watching and watching other

​

Were looking for someone that can host or we can book a hotel

​

Will be attending a swingers clubs in the netherlands this weekend so if you will be there too give us a shout

​

Were not sending any pics of us till a few days of speaking so dont bother asking straight away

​

Were really new to this and would love to meet another south asian couple in or around london and also around our age

Still trying to find the right couple to start this adventure with

Being abit picky only because its our first time doing this. So would like patient couples

Would like couples that likes to have a drink and maybe a puff and enjoy company

Were both kinda introverts

Wed like a couple with no experience in this at all so we can learn how it works together maybe even start swinging together in the future

​

​

Hi All, were 27F and 30M british south asian couple looking for another couple to share the bedroom with

NO SINGLES

​

Were not swingers (just yet) but we like being watching and watching other

​

Were looking for someone that can host or we can book a hotel

​

Will be attending a swingers clubs in the netherlands this weekend so if you will be there too give us a shout

​

Were not sending any pics of us till a few days of speaking so dont bother asking straight away

​

Were really new to this and would love to meet another south asian couple in or around london and also around our age

Still trying to find the right couple to start this adventure with

Being abit picky only because its our first time doing this. So would like patient couples

Would like couples that likes to have a drink and maybe a puff and enjoy company

Were both kinda introverts

Wed like a couple with no experience in this at all so we can learn how it works together maybe even start swinging together in the future

​

​

Hi All, were 27F and 30M british south asian couple looking for another couple to share the bedroom with

NO SINGLES

​

Were not swingers (just yet) but we like being watching and watching other

​

Were looking for someone that can host or we can book a hotel

​

Will be attending a swingers clubs in the netherlands this weekend so if you will be there too give us a shout

​

Were not sending any pics of us till a few days of speaking so dont bother asking straight away

​

Were really new to this and would love to meet another south asian couple in or around london and also around our age

Still trying to find the right couple to start this adventure with

Being abit picky only because its our first time doing this. So would like patient couples

Would like couples that likes to have a drink and maybe a puff and enjoy company

Were both kinda introverts

Wed like a couple with no experience in this at all so we can learn how it works together maybe even start swinging together in the future

​

Hi guys we are 26F and 30M from London UK. We are visiting amsterdam central on Saturday and was planning to visit sameplace this sunday. Wanted to find out if any lovely couples will be attending this sunday (couples night)?

​

Were still new to the scene thats why we decided with sameplace instead of the other swinger clubs. Some mixed reviews on it but love to hear what others on here would say about it

​

Any couples attending on sunday give us a shout we might see you there 🫡

Hi, me and the wife will be visiting from London. Wanted to see if there will be any south asian or any couples from here attending couples nights at sameplace on sunday

Still trying to find the right couple

Being abit picky only because its our first time doing this

Would like someone that likes to have a drink and enjoy company

Were both kinda introverts

Wed like a couple with no experience in this at all so we can learn how it works together maybe even start swinging in the future

Met a few people that had alot more experience in this and put the wife off a little

Were not into swapping but more into watching and being watched having fun with our partners

Or..

If there is a south asian F that just wants to be part of our fun in the bedroom (no penetration just oral)

Also have to be in London

Were both british south asian couple looking for another couple to share the bedroom with NO SINGLES

Were not swingers we just liked being watching and watching other

Were looking for someone that can host or we can book a hotel

Were not sending any pics till a few days of talking so dont bother asking straight away

Were really new to this and would love to meet another south asian couple in or around london and also around our age