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22 [F4M] London

I just arrived yesterday for a year study (Design). American girl seeks fun with everything UK. Any age. Age gaps preferred.

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u/Ok_Island_5220 — 4 hours ago
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43 [F4M] #UK Separated, petite, slim, bubbly looking for cute dates

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I am 5ft, slim but hourglass shape, long dark hair, blue eyes and 32dd. I work out frequently and am confident and outgoing. I am a career woman and have a high power job.

Looking to connect with someone 25 to 35 - yes I like a toy boy!!

Would love cute dates, weekends away. Please don't message me offering a hook up.

No students

Please have a career and you life in order.

Within 1-2 hours of Bristol.

Please send an introductory message with a description of your appearance, locality, hobbies and age.

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u/Nuturing_domme — 2 days ago
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33m looking for a long term & genuine connection with someone who has shared interests.

33m from Scandinavia, this is me: https://imgur.com/a/YGvKMH9

What I love and so is a plus if we share more interests.:

- Working out (got a homegym, love talking equipment and what not)
- Gaming (I’ve been gaming probably since I was 4)
- Anime & k-drama watcher
- 100% a nerd

Alright, if we share interests, just hit me up.. I don't bite.

u/Ok-Rutabaga-3362 — 5 days ago
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20 [F4A] London/Cambridge - wanna waste some time together?

Don't dm me if you can't keep up some small talk ;3
I'm a london girly, working in cambridge atm and i am boooored, i hope we can keep eachother company for a little while!
send your asl and let's see if we connect :3

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u/bleak_mouse_6577 — 3 days ago
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18[F4A] Bristol- Looking to meet new people

Hey 18f from Bristol looking to make new friends I don’t mind which gender or age preferably close to mine. Ideally around the area too I’m happy to chat and see how it goes if we get along to meet!

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u/Certain_Breakfast425 — 3 days ago
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36 [NB4A] (Glasgow) looking for friends that could potentially progress to have benefits.

Title says it

I’m a 36 y/o Masc presenting enby.

Polyamorous

Im 6’4 and chubby.

Autistic, ADHD and Bipolar.

Huge miniature collection nerd, with a big interest in scifi, fantasy, science and history.

I’ll talk and/or listen to you with about any and all of these.

Please be willing to put effort in, because I’m done carrying the interactions.

See you soon!

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u/MasqueOfTalos — 3 days ago
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42 [F4M] Northwest, Uk

I’m single, chatty, funny and love to laugh and be silly with someone.

I’d love to chat to someone who has a good sense of humour, is single, local, doesn’t smoke or take drugs and won’t mind me spamming you with pics of all my house plants.

I’m getting sick of sleeping in the middle of my bed so come and be the reason I move back over to the left, or right, either is fine.

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u/poweredbyajaffacake — 4 days ago
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42 [F4M] #central Make your move if you like a tall and curvy lass

I know, it’s me again but all I’m getting is all bark but no bite from the guys that message me.

I'm 5ft 8, Size 14 woman with meat in all the right curvy places

I want to flip the inexperienced to experienced on its's head.
Someone to show me the ropes, someone who can pin me down and have their way with me, in a primal way, not rough though. Though saying that I do liked to be worshipped as a Goddess and being a pillow princess at times.

Have some sensual/intimate fun. Preferably, looking for something ongoing than a one off. I can't host, but would prefer for you to pay for a hotel for us both during the day/night

Craving orgasms
Be tested and don't be married or in an ENM relationship
You are over 30

My Kryptonite - Sexy Broad Shoulders & Back, Dimples, Hot/Gym Nerds, A decent human being with meat in all the right places too

DM me with your age, a lil intro and a photo of yourself once l've accepted the chat and I'll share too and let's see how it goes. No effort is getting ignored

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u/DuskyTones — 5 days ago
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19 [F4M] East of London.

Hi, im looking for anything and everything naughty. I am ok with older. Let me know what you are into, i prefer people to be straight to the point with what they like. Naughtier the better. Please message with ur age and location.

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u/ellent-0912 — 5 days ago
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21 [F4M] #West Midlands, looking for older men to meet

Edit: pleaseee don’t message if you’re under 40 sorry just not my preference

Hi. I’m 21 living in Warwickshire but going to uni in Birmingham (I commute). I had to remake my account might have spoken with some of you before. I’m studying psychology and am very academically driven, but in my spare time I like to read, play video games (I loveee fnaf and animal crossing), listen to music especially metal and I like yoga too. Kind of a nerd. I’m 5’5, 80kg so chubby, brunette with dark hair and eyes. I’m looking for men in the uk only, who are around 40-65 and would be interested in a low pressure meet. I’m really shy and on the spectrum so ideally someone who’s patient and understanding. Not exactly getting the traditional uni experience so it would be nice to meet someone to make a connection with so I can have some new experiences. happy to send pics or verify myself if needed if you message. Thanks

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u/swanonthelake — 6 days ago
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29 [F4M] [Scotland/UK] - If you're looking for a cosy, loyal and wildly affectionate partner to spoil, laugh with and genuinely adore you... let's chat.

Let’s skip the weeks of dry "wyd" texts and get straight to it.

I’m 29, live in Scotland and work in marketing. Trading the fast-paced big tech grind to come back to my home comforts in Scotland means by day I’m sensible, grounded and very organised. By night? I’m usually scribbling down my jumbled thoughts in the quiet, ridiculous hours of the morning, lost in a film trivia rabbithole or using my weekly cinema pass to escape reality for two hours.

My life is built on simple, cosy pleasures. I have an unreasonable number of mugs, an ongoing addiction to building my jewellery collection (should I get my nose pierced?) and a deep love for slow bookshop wanders with a coffee in hand. I keep myself active with yoga and lunchtime gym sessions, mostly so I can justify my daily yogurt bowl fix and because I like feeling good in my own skin. I can deep-dive into Lord of the Rings lore or a Marvel marathon just as easily as I can lose an hour to a Sudoku puzzle or crime novel. 

I’m warm, loyal and wildly affectionate with my person, but I also have a smart mouth and I love to sarcastically tease. I thrive in a true provider and protector dynamic where a man takes the lead, initiates contact, checks that I got home safe and generally makes me feel completely looked after and desired. I like someone grounded and decisive who doesn't panic when a woman has a personality, handling me with a mix of clear reassurance, protection and absolute respect.

If we’re being completely transparent upfront: I’m 5’6 with dark curly hair, brown eyes and a midsize/curvy figure (90kg, 36DD). I have a belly and while I’m actively at the gym working on my health, I am definitely not slim. I want a man who genuinely adores a curvy woman as I am right now.

I’m looking for a long-term partner so I'm stepping away from low-effort "talking stages”. I'm looking for a single man who wants to move things forward intentionally. If we click in the DMs then the clock is ticking: I want us to move to a phone call within a few days and a real in-person date planned within a few weeks. We’re keeping it classy, no NSFW chats and pics, I value real chivalry. 

What you get in return: Total loyalty, late-night chats, cute pet names and endless affection. A woman who will soft-launch you into her cosy world, genuinely adore you, cherish how you take care of her and match your energy every step of the way.

If this sounds like you, I really want to hear from you. Better yet, let’s make this interesting! Pick one scenario to start: 

  • Scenario A: It’s a rainy Sunday. We’re doing a cosy coffee and bookshop run, but you get to pick where we eat after. What’s your go-to spot?
  • Scenario B: A debate breaks out over film lore, directors or obscure movie trivia. What’s your ultimate hot take?
  • Scenario C: You’re planning our first proper date. What are we doing and how are you making sure I don't have to worry about a single detail?

Send your age, location, what you do for a living and your answer to one scenario. Bonus point if you send something clever to give my smart mouth something to bite back at. Let's see if you can handle it 😉

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u/sco-blend — 6 days ago
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38 [M4F] London, England - Looking for someone cool to get to know during this hot summer.

Hi! I'm a 38-year-old guy living in London who's hoping to meet someone for a genuine connection. Ideally that starts with good conversation, a coffee or a walk, and seeing where things go.

Outside of work you'll usually find me geocaching, out with my camera, or buried in a book. I mostly read history and fiction—everything from espionage novels by John le Carré to books on European history. If you've got recommendations, I'm always looking to add to my ever-growing reading list.

Photography is probably my biggest hobby. I enjoy wandering around London (and further afield) looking for interesting architecture, landscapes, and street scenes. If you're curious, here's some of my work: https://www.flickr.com/photos/piersmathias/

I'm also into geocaching, which has turned out to be a brilliant excuse to explore places I'd never otherwise visit. There's something satisfying about finding hidden corners of cities and countryside alike.

Travel is another big interest. So far I've explored Belgium, Germany and Denmark, and I'd love to see more of Europe over the next few years. I'm equally happy discovering a new city, finding a great museum, or simply sitting in a café people-watching.

I'm looking for someone who's kind, curious, and enjoys conversations that can wander from history and travel to completely random topics. Bonus points if you're happy to join me on a photography walk, a geocaching adventure, or help me decide where my next trip should be.

If any of that sounds like your kind of day, send me a message. Tell me about the last place that surprised you, your favourite book, or the best hidden gem you've discovered.

u/Terry-Shark — 6 days ago
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27 [F4M] #Yorkshire — FWB, with an emphasis on friends

Honestly, I’m tired of dating in general. I’ve spent a lot of time trying to find a serious relationship but I’d rather take a step back from dating, have some fun and explore a different side of myself. I feel like I’ll regret not doing this later in life so I’m looking for an FWB situation with a genuine emphasis on the friends part.

I don’t want to meet someone and immediately jump into bed. I’d much rather get to know each other, build trust, see if we click and let anything physical develop naturally.

I’m 27F, South Asian and curvy with some chub. I’m working on losing weight, but I’m looking for someone who is attracted to me as I am. I’m warm, easy to talk to, a little sassy and an ambivert. I love baking, reading, trying new restaurants and cafes, concerts, travelling and the occasional reality TV binge.

I’m also very inexperienced. I’ve never had my first kiss or had sex. There’s no particular reason why; it’s just never happened for me. I’m curious and want to learn and explore what I like (and don’t like) with someone I trust. I’d want someone patient, respectful and happy to take things at my pace. I realise Reddit might not be the place to be looking but you never know!

I’m generally attracted to someone tall, broad and perhaps a little muscular, with nice hair and good hygiene. That being said personality and chemistry matter just as much.

I’m looking for someone 27–32, single, completely unattached and able to host as I can’t. Ideally you’re kind, respectful, emotionally mature and have your own life going on. Yorkshire/Leeds/Manchester would be easiest, but I’m open to London too as I’m hoping to move there next year.

I’m not looking to force this into a relationship, but if feelings naturally develop, I’m not completely opposed to that either. For now, I just want to meet someone I genuinely enjoy spending time with, have a laugh with, build some trust and explore this side of myself with.

If you’re interested, tell me your age, location, a little about yourself and what you’re looking for. Low-effort “hey” messages probably won’t get a reply. Happy to exchange photos once we’re both comfortable and please be prepared to verify yourself too!

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u/Massive_Scientist725 — 6 days ago
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30 [F4M] Somerset - Looking for a genuine FWB where the connection comes first

I'm looking for a long term fwb where the friend part actually matters. I'm not interested in sleeping around or juggling multiple people. I'd rather find one person I genuinely click with, someone I enjoy talking to and flirting with.

A bit about me: I'm 30 petite Asian. I am educated if that matters, and independent and I love good conversation. Intelligence is incredibly attractive to me. I also have very active lifestyle to keep myself fit and strong.

Since I don't want to waste anyone's time, I'll be upfront about physical attraction too. I tend to be attracted to tall white men, and a beard is definitely a bonus. Ideally, you're local to Somerset (Taunton, Bridgwater, Burnham) or nearby, emotionally mature, respectful and looking for something consistent rather than endless casual hookups. Here are some of my non-negotiables too to make it easier for us:

  1. Someone with their own space/place and who can host regularly

  2. Someone willing to test regularly

  3. Minimum 5'10 as I like to be dwarfed 🙈

  4. Great kisser as I enjoy long sensual makeout sesh 😏

  5. Being circumcised is a preference/advantage, but definitely not a dealbreaker

  6. Age: 27-40

  7. Someone willing to hangout regularly

  8. Willing to explore kinks with me as I'm into praise kink, pussy and feet worship, roleplay and sensation play. I also have moments I enjoy it sensual and slow

If you're the kind of person who enjoys flirting and meaningful conversation, I'd love to hear from you. Start with your age, height and location please x

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u/TheCuriousCat_88 — 7 days ago
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34 [F4A] [Scotland] Help me explore my reawakened Watersports kink!

Hello!

Poly, queer, fat babe here with a glorious hairy bush. My kink for pee play has been reawakened and I want to explore this with someone again.

I’m looking to explore pretty much everything to do with pee play, including the following -

- Peeing in (semi) public
- watching you pee
- you watching me pee
- touching each other while we pee
- being filmed peeing
- being peed on
- peeing on you
- peeing myself in (specifically) cotton panties
- possible nappy/diaper play
- fucking while peeing

Plus much more I am willing to explore!

Please:

- be UK based
- be ideally over 30
- be willing to meet up in a safe location
- be looking for a casual arrangement (I have romantic partners already, not really interested in another relationship)

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u/Huge_Highlight_3040 — 8 days ago
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34 [M4F/MF] (Aberdeen/Scotland) - Looking for that elusive naughty connection

34 male living in Aberdeen for over a decade. Looking for a dirty minded woman to share messages over the course of the day, and build connection with hopes of meeting. I don't mind what is your relationship status, hope you don't mind mine. Otherwise white professional male, just looking to get naughty and reduce boredom. Love the the thrill of chatting with someone new and getting to know them.

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u/FinanceThings — 9 days ago
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21 [M4F][Warrington] Looking for fwb

Not entirely sure where to start here. Im 21 in warrington about 5 ft 10(im not actually sure basing this of a mate who reckons hes 6 1)

Pretty much a basic white boy (brown hair/eyes) glasses, skinny

I dont have much experience in this so im hoping to meet someone similar or that is willing to take the lead as im not a very dominant person generally.

Any questions just ask pls

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u/TraditionalGoose561 — 11 days ago
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28 [F4M] #online Looking to make ordinary days feel a little less ordinary

Online only. As the title says, I’m looking for a little bit of excitement in life.

I recently started a new job which has been equal parts demanding, exciting, and occasionally glamorous. But most of the time, it has left me feeling burnt out. These days I’m all polished and professional and, if I’m being honest, I miss being a little more reckless, a little more flirtatious. I miss saying “Yes, Sir” with a different meaning.

What I mean is, we all deserve something to make us survive the weekdays and something to look forward to for the weekend. It can’t be just the rat race.

Besides, after a day of restraining yourself at work, don’t you want to let loose a little bit?

Sex is fun, but my main interest in BDSM lies in the power exchange and mental stimulation. Ideally, I’d like a mix of mentorship, friendship, and good conversation. But if that’s too much to ask, I’ll settle for a white man who looks good in a suit 😔 (In case that was too much to comprehend: Hi, I’m looking for a white Dom who can hold a conversation and is comfortable with consensual raceplay.)

I’m a young professional, into power exchange and humiliation, bit of a know-it-all, and very much in need of someone who can put me in my place.

To show that you can actually read, you can start by telling me what you do (you can keep it vague) and the kinkiest thing you’ve done to date.

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u/pawtangible — 11 days ago