u/Nuturing_domme

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I am 5ft, slim but hourglass shape, long dark hair, blue eyes and 32dd. I work out frequently and am confident and outgoing. I am a career woman and have a high power job.

Looking to connect with someone 25 to 35 - yes I like a toy boy!!

Would love cute dates, weekends away. Please don't message me offering a hook up.

No students

Please have a career and you life in order.

Within 1-2 hours of Bristol.

Please send an introductory message with a description of your appearance, locality, hobbies and age.

I am seeking a calm, composed, kind sub male, who values authority, guidance and loves to worship a woman who has strength.

I HAVE A ZERO TOLERANCE POLICY FOR LOW EFFORT INTRODUCTORY MESSAGES OR MEN WHO'S KINK LIST IS ALL "DO ME".

Contact me with how you believe you are a match for me. Stating your age, location, a description of your appearance, and how you fit as a suitable candidate, particularly how you match my yes please list.

Yes please:

1. Please be within ENGLAND/WALES only, this is non negotiable, so please don't waste either of our time.

2. Over aged 21 (no students)

3. Stable and have your life in order

4. Willing to worship and adore a woman

5. Be into chastity, denial and tease, feet, pussy and ass worship, plus if you are into female scents, I want to hear from you!!

6. If you cannot host, do not message me.

7. Brownie points for service subs

8. Ideally within 1-2 hours of Bristol

9. Competent at communicating i.e you ask questions rather than being passive.

10. Have a personality other than being a sub!! I love banter, back and forth and witty, intelligent men. So don't be afraid to let your true personality shine through.

No thank you:

1. Huge beards or dad bods

2. Those looking for online only and JOI 😴

3. Lazy or passive men, who are not inquisitive.

4. Outwardly slutty subs i.e loads of sissified NSFW photos on your profile

5. "Do me" subs - your whole kink list revolves around things being done to you.

6. Brats

7. You visit pro dommes

8. I am not particularly attracted to lots of piercings, tattoos, ultra long hair.

About me.

5ft, slim waist (size 6), but hourglass shape, long dark hair, blue eyes, 32dd.

I am looking for a man who wants to go on adventures, knowing someone confident and fun, like me, is by your side.

I am a very caring and nuturing person, but only once we have a connection, I can also be bossy and demanding... You were warned!!

I work out 5 days a week and am attractive for a woman my age. I love travel, meals out, hiking, city breaks and generally being sociable.

I have a lot of energy and still attend trance and techno events on ocassion. I would love to find someone in to that, although I appreciate it's unlikely, given raving isn't the usual "sub" pass time.

Be prepared to ask and answer questions, I won't spend the entire time driving the conversation, dealing with passive, lazy men.

I am happy to disclose more information in messages.

I would love to meet a guy for a friend's with benefits situation. I am separated but have made the decision to stick it out under the same roof as my ex until my child has finished their exams next year. We are living separate lives entirely, but I need some fun in my life to get me through, obviously I can't go on normal dating apps right now and I need to be discreet out of respect.

I am 5ft slim (size 6 waist), but hourglass shape, long dark hair, piercing blue eyes, and 32DD. I am very attractive for a woman of my age and I work out 5 days a week.

I am extremely confident, outgoing and fun, there will never be a dull moment with me!

I would like someone to meet up with on weekends, get dinner, drinks and have other fun. I am looking for more of an ongoing thing but with no strings.

Please ensure you meet the below criteria before you message. ;

1. Live within an hour of Bristol, of half an hour of Birmingham - This is non-negotiable

2. No dad bods or overweight men

3. Preferably between 25 to 30

4. In a position to host

5. Please have an attractive face, that's vital.

6. If you length is less than 7 inches - no thank you

7. Be fun to talk to and engaging.

8. I am looking for something fairly regular, so please don't message me if you are looking just to pop by my local area once.

Drop me a message with a little introduction. Let's see how we gel!!

For context I am 43 and have been a domme for a number of years. I would classify myself as extroverted and very socially adept. Yet I seem to really be hitting a wall with subs online.

On a few occasions I have put out fem dom personals which are detailed and I ask subs to qualify how they meet my criteria as well as introducing themselves a little. The low effort messages I ignore.

Genuinely, I get some really well thought out detailed replies. But as soon as I start replying, it's like they totally hit a wall being able to converse or even ask any basic questions.... At all. They'll simply respond to what I have asked them and no more.

This goes on and on, to the point I know their whole life story and they haven't even asked a basic question.. Like which part of the country I am from!!

I'll then get fed up and stop replying, then they'll chase me up wanting to continue. On occasion, when I can be bothered, I will mention the whole "one way street feeling", they'll apologise, say they'll make a concerted effort, but then immediately revert back to being totally passive again.

It feels like an uphill battle, and when you have whittled 200 replies down to 15 or so and are having to constantly drive any kind of conversation and get no back and forth... Its really exhausting.

My question is.. Am I being really unrealistic in expecting a sub guy to take at least a little bit of interest in finding anything out about a prospective domme, or is this par for the course online? Is this the norm from everyone else's experience with finding someone online?

The issue I have, is that all my previous dynamics were founded in person, so that back and forth was there from the get go. I am pretty new to all this chatting online gumpf.

Is this lack of inquisition from subs just indicative of online dynamics? I'd really love to hear from other dommes, whether I have raised the bar to the heavens and am I being unreasonable and the expectation really is on the domme to step up and drive everything online?

I am seeking a calm, composed, kind sub male, who values authority, guidance and loves to worship a woman who has strength.

I HAVE A ZERO TOLERANCE POLICY FOR LOW EFFORT INTRODUCTORY MESSAGES OR MEN WHO'S KINK LIST IS ALL "DO ME".

Contact me with how you believe you are a match for me. Stating your age, location, a description of your appearance, and how you fit as a suitable candidate, particularly how you match my yes please list.

Yes please:

1. Please be within ENGLAND/WALES only, this is non negotiable, so please don't waste either of our time.

2. Over aged 21 (no students)

3. Stable and have your life in order

4. Willing to worship and adore a woman

5. Be into chastity, denial and tease

6. Be in a position to host and drive

7. Brownie points for service subs

8. Ideally within 1-2 hours of Bristol

9. Competent at communicating i.e you ask questions rather than being passive.

10. I'll say it again - you have a worship kink

No thank you:

1.Huge beards

2. Switches

3. Lazy or passive men, who are not inquisitive.

4. Your life revolves around sitting indoors gaming all day. Obviously it's a great hobby, but please let it not be your whole world.

5. Outwardly slutty subs i.e loads of sissified NSFW photos on your profile

6. "Do me" subs - your whole kink list revolves around things being done to you.

7. Brats

8. You visit pro dommes

9. I am not particularly attracted to lots of piercings, tattoos, ultra long hair.

About me.

5ft, slim waist (size 6), but hourglass shape, long dark hair, blue eyes, 32dd. My nickname is mini milf, if that paints a picture 😉.

I am looking for a man who wants to go on adventures, knowing someone confident and fun, like me, is by your side.

I am a very caring and nuturing person, but only once we have a connection, I can also be bossy and demanding... You were warned!!

Someone who falls at my feet instantly, is a turn off, so don't be popping into my messages begging to be my slave at the start.

I work out 5 days a week and am attractive for a woman my age. I love travel, meals out, hiking, city breaks and generally being sociable.

Be prepared to ask and answer questions, I won't spend the entire time driving the conversation, dealing with passive, lazy men.

I am happy to disclose more information in messages.

I am seeking a calm, composed, kind sub male, who values authority, guidance and loves to worship a woman who has strength.

I HAVE A ZERO TOLERANCE POLICY FOR LOW EFFORT INTRODUCTORY MESSAGES OR MEN WHO'S KINK LIST IS ALL "DO ME".

Contact me with how you believe you are a match for me. Stating your age, location, a description of your appearance, and how you fit as a suitable candidate, particularly how you match my yes please list.

Yes please:

1. Please be within ENGLAND/WALES only, this is none negotiable, so please don't waste either of our time.

2. Over aged 21 (no students)

3. Stable and have your life in order

4. Willing to worship and adore a woman

5. Be into chastity, denial and tease

6. Be in a position to host and drive

7. Brownie points for service subs

8. I'll say it again - you have a worship kink

No thank you:

1.Huge beards

2. Switches

3. Doms looking to "try being a sub"

4. Your life revolves around sitting indoors gaming

5. Outwardly slutty subs i.e loads of sissified NSFW photos on your profile

6. "Do me" subs - your whole kink list revolves around things being done to you.

7. Brats

8. You visit pro dommes

About me.

5ft, slim waist (size 6), but hourglass shape, long dark hair, blue eyes, 32DD.

I am looking for a man who wants to go on adventures, knowing someone confident and fun, like me, is by your side.

I am a very caring and nuturing person, but only once we have a connection, I can also be bossy and demanding... You were warned!!

Someone who falls at my feet instantly, is a turn off, so don't be popping into my messages begging to be my slave at the start.

I work out 5 days a week and am attractive for a woman my age. I love travel, meals out, hiking, city breaks and generally being sociable.

Be prepared to ask and answer questions, I won't spend the entire time driving the conversation, dealing with passive, lazy men.

I am happy to disclose more information in messages.

I am seeking a calm, composed, kind sub male, who values authority, guidance and loves to worship a woman who has strength.

Yes please:

1. Please be within ENGLAND only,

2. Over aged 28

3. Stable and have your life in order

4. Willing to worship and adore a woman

5. Be into chastity, denial and tease

6. Be in a position to host

7. Brownie points for service subs

No thank you:

1.Huge beards

2. Switches

3. Doms looking to "try being a sub"

4. Your life revolves around sitting indoors gaming

5. Outwardly slutty subs i.e loads of NSFW photos on your profile

6. "Do me" subs or power bottoms

7. Brats

About me.

I am looking for a man who wants to go on adventures, knowing someone confident and fun, like me, is by your side.

I like to work for your submission, so someone who falls at my feet instantly, is a turn off.

I work out frequently and am attractive for a woman my age. I love travel, meals out, hiking, city breaks and generally being sociable.

Contact me with how you believe you are a match for me. Stating your age, location, a description of your appearance, and how you fit as a suitable candidate.

Be prepared to ask and answer questions, I won't spend the entire time driving the conversation, dealing with passive, lazy men.

Low effort messages or those outside England will be ignored.

I am happy to disclose more information in messages.

I am so tired of chatting to sub-standard subs online. Anyone know where I can find munches in the UK, or a website that lists them? I am not prepared to join fetlife. Also are munches really a great place to find genuine subs?

I am seeking a calm, composed, kind sub male, who values authority, guidance and loves to worship a woman who has strength.

Please be within ENGLAND only, not under 25, stable and have your life in order, be willing to worship and adore a woman who is successful, strong willed and adept and leading.

I have a vast array of kinks which we can discuss if you are suitable. I work out frequently and am attractive for a woman my age.

No dad bods.

Please be in a position to host - no guys who live with their parents.

Contact me with how you believe you are a match for me. Stating your age, location, a description of your appearance, and how you fit as a suitable candidate.

Be prepared to ask and answer questions, I won't spend the entire time driving the conversation, dealing with passive, lazy men.

Low effort messages or those outside England will be ignored.

I am happy to disclose more information in messages.

I am seeking a calm, composed, kind sub male, who values authority, guidance and loves to worship a woman who has strength.

Please be within ENGLAND only, not under 25, stable and have your life in order, be willing to worship and adore a woman who is successful, strong willed and adept and leading.

I have a vast array of kinks which we can discuss if you are suitable. I work out frequently and am attractive for a woman my age.

No dad bods.

Please be in a position to host - no guys who live with their parents.

Contact me with how you believe you are a match for me. Stating your age, location, a description of your appearance, and how you fit as a suitable candidate.

Be prepared to ask and answer questions, I won't spend the entire time driving the conversation, dealing with passive, lazy men.

Low effort messages or those outside England will be ignored.

I am happy to disclose more information in messages.