We have a particular kink. Partner loves the enthusiasm of a virgin. Shy is great. Please don’t contact us if you are not a virgin so 30+ and looking like a player is pretty obvious.
We want to meet genuine people only. Even if just to enjoy some naughty chat but our goal is to meet and deflower. No we are not into charity. You need to be pretty cool.
Plz no one experienced. Virgins only.
This is going to be specific. Seeking a bf for my partner. Someone who will join the ENM relationship and treat her really well. Not just sex. An actual partner. Anyone actually looking for something with substances
Mr will be communicating til I refer you to her. So be cool. No one liners and there’s no reason to send me dick pics. That’s just nasty. Again. Be cool and tell me why you’d like to be included
We’re looking to meet someone who is kind, emotionally mature, and simply enjoyable to be around. Ideally, you’re in your late 40s or early 50s and are looking for a relaxed, respectful connection with good people.
Your first message matters.
Please introduce yourself the way you would on a dating app. Tell us who you are, what you enjoy doing, what you’re passionate about, or something that makes you smile. We’d much rather hear about your favorite hike, your career, your travels, your hobbies, or why your friends enjoy having you around than anything else.
If your first message is just “Hey,” or immediately turns sexual, we’ll probably move on.
One important request: if your first message includes anything about penis size, sexual experience, performance, kinks, or explicit photos, we’ll pass without replying. We’re intentionally trying to build this from a genuine place. Attraction starts with conversation, personality, humor, and mutual respect—not with sexual details.
For clarity, the male in this relationship is a stag, not a cuck. He’ll be present, involved, and guiding the experience so everyone is comfortable, informed, and on the same page. The goal is a relaxed, respectful experience for everyone involved.
Ultimately, we’re hoping to meet someone we’d actually enjoy sitting down and having dinner or drinks with before anything else. If we click as people, everything else can happen naturally.
So tell us about you. Make us want to reply.
I’ll keep it simple. My girlfriend is looking for someone to come over, enjoy some time together, and head home. We’re hoping to meet someone who’s sexually inexperienced, so we’re looking for guys 30 or younger. If you’re a virgin, that’s absolutely welcome—we’d be happy to help make your first experience a positive one.
Your first message matters.
Make it completely non-sexual, friendly, and engaging. Introduce yourself like you would if you were meeting someone through a dating app. Tell us a little about who you are, what you enjoy, or something that makes you interesting. If your opening message is just “Hey,” we’ll probably move on.
Please don’t talk about your size, sexual abilities, kinks, or send explicit photos. None of that helps. We’re looking for someone with a good personality first. If Mr. enjoys your conversation and likes your vibe, he’ll reply.
One thing to be clear about: the male in this relationship isn’t a cuck—he’s a stag. He’ll be guiding the entire experience, and everyone involved will know exactly what’s expected. It’s relaxed, respectful, and meant to be enjoyable for everyone.
Again… your first message counts. Make us want to get to know you before anything else.
Seeking a single male with an intelligent mind to join us.
We do not like cocky arrogant or ego. Your first message Should be one that does not lead with sex but rather one that engages us in conversation.
You should be close to the ward area as we like to love quirky. Prefer very inexperienced men. Not experienced in the lifestyle, but inexperienced in general.
Your first message should be engaging and work to pull us into the conversation.
Aloha
We are trying something a little different.
I will be traveling and gf asked if she could have a playmate so we are exploring the idea. More her than me. But still trying. We have several rules.
She is not polyamorous so it’s not a relationship. If anything it’s to scratch an itch.
Most importantly: do not include anything sexual in your message. Do not reference your body or make suggestive comments, even indirectly. If there is any hint of that, your message will be ignored.
If you reach out, know that your message will be going to the female half of this dynamic. Approach it like you would on a legitimate dating app. That means a real introduction, not a one-liner.
Tell us who you are. What do you enjoy doing when you’re not working? What’s something that genuinely interests you or gets your attention? Hobbies, routines, passions, even small details that say something about you.
We’re not responding to messages like “hey” or “still looking.” We’re also not interested in jumping straight into meeting without knowing anything about you or seeing who you are.
What we care about is how you communicate. Thoughtfulness goes a long way. Effort stands out. We’re looking for quality over quantity and something that feels genuine from the start.
If you’re someone who can express yourself, has a bit of personality, and understands how to make a solid first impression, you’ll probably catch our attention.
Have had no luck finding a guy for my lady. We are selective.
He has to be in shape, intelligent and reach out with a great message. No “hey” or “still looking”
Can’t messages us talking about your BBC or BWC, talk about tacky. We are sapiosexuals, so show some intelligence and effort.
Can’t be homophobic in any way. There will be incidental contact so heteroflexibility is a must.
We
Want to make an ongoing connection so don’t be coming in here to hit and run. This stuff is hard. We want it to pay off.
Most of all, be near us in the ward kakaako or be ready to move when the mood hits. Anything outside of town just takes too much coordination.
We’ve tried posting this before and get a wide variety of responses, but we’re looking for something very specific.
We’re looking for a completely inexperienced male. Not just inexperienced with swinging or threesomes, but genuinely brand new overall. Newbie, virgin, first real experience type of situation.
This is something we’re both specifically into. The male enjoys bringing someone completely new into the experience and taking the lead through the whole thing. To be clear, this is not a cuck situation at all, it’s actually the opposite.
One issue we’ve run into is that after talking for a while, some guys start hoping this will turn into something romantic or emotional. That’s not what this post is about, and honestly probably not what you should be looking for in this subreddit. If your expectation for a first experience is romance or a relationship, this probably isn’t the right fit.
You should be in decent shape, clean, respectful, and able to hold a conversation. No dad bods, no severely overweight guys. You can absolutely be shy, but please don’t be impossible to talk to.
Also, if you tend to flake, disappear, ghost, or waste time, don’t bother responding.
When you message us, actually tell us about yourself. Don’t just send “hey” or one-word messages. Put some effort into your intro so we can get a feel for your personality, interests, and why this post caught your attention.
We have tried to post this before, we get a variety of responses, but we’re really only looking for a particular thing. We’re looking for an inexperienced male. That does not mean inexperienced with threesomes or swinging, we are talking completely inexperienced. Newbie, virgin, if you will.
It’s a particular kink of the male to bring in somebody completely brand new and direct all the fun. No mail is not a cuck he is the exact opposite.
One of the issues we have had is we get talking along the way and said newbie male decides he want something romantic, that’s not what this post is about. And that’s not really what you should be looking for in this Reddit group, I think hoping your first experience is gonna be romantic and then responding to post like this is counterproductive.
So please, if you are in an experienced male in the bedroom, you’re in good shape, no dad bods no overweight. Hit a message, you can be shy, but please don’t be completely absolutely unable to hold a conversation. And by all means if you’re even remotely possible of flaking or ghosting, don’t even bother responding to this post.
We have tried to post this before, we get a variety of responses, but we’re really only looking for a particular thing. We’re looking for an inexperienced male. That does not mean inexperienced with threesomes or swinging, we are talking completely inexperienced. Newbie, virgin, if you will.
It’s a particular kink of the male to bring in somebody completely brand new and direct all the fun. No mail is not a cuck he is the exact opposite.
One of the issues we have had is we get talking along the way and said newbie male decides he want something romantic, that’s not what this post is about. And that’s not really what you should be looking for in this Reddit group, I think hoping your first experience is gonna be romantic and then responding to post like this is counterproductive.
So please, if you are in an experienced male in the bedroom, you’re in good shape, no dad bods no overweight. Hit a message, you can be shy, but please don’t be completely absolutely unable to hold a conversation. And by all means if you’re even remotely possible of flaking or ghosting, don’t even bother responding to this post.
We have tried to post this before, we get a variety of responses, but we’re really only looking for a particular thing. We’re looking for an inexperienced male. That does not mean inexperienced with threesomes or swinging, we are talking completely inexperienced. Newbie, virgin, if you will.
It’s a particular kink of the male to bring in somebody completely brand new and direct all the fun. No mail is not a cuck he is the exact opposite.
One of the issues we have had is we get talking along the way and said newbie male decides he want something romantic, that’s not what this post is about. And that’s not really what you should be looking for in this Reddit group, I think hoping your first experience is gonna be romantic and then responding to post like this is counterproductive.
So please, if you are in an experienced male in the bedroom, you’re in good shape, no dad bods no overweight. Hit a message, you can be shy, but please don’t be completely absolutely unable to hold a conversation. And by all means if you’re even remotely possible of flaking or ghosting, don’t even bother responding to this post.
My lady is new but has enjoyed every experience as week as hearing about mine. If you’re new and ready to play. Let’s talk. We can make a no-pressure play date
No men.