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UPDATE 27 Aug [MF4F] [MF4MF] [MF4M] Visiting Waikiki-Hilton Hawaiian Village/Hale Koa (Aug 24-31) – Looking for organic connection and chemistry!

UPDATED INFO- We have been spending our evenings at the Hale Koa Pool Area which is restricted unless you are a guest.  Please only reach out if you are a guest and/or can meet up there. 

We have been non-monogamous for our entire 20+ year relationship. Because we live in a very remote, rural town, we do not get to play very often. This is especially true because she prefers things to happen naturally and organically. Since we are out of town it is a perfect time to play! We are a Caucasian couple: She is 46, a sexy 5'4" redhead, 135 lbs, with a perfect rack. He is 47, 5'7", 190 lbs with an average dad bod build.She loves being complimented and feeling the spark of being pursued. She dislikes apps and hookup websites; she is all about natural encounters.

That said, I don't mind nudging fate behind the scenes. That means Please note that she does not know about this post, and it needs to stay that way so the natural, organic feeling isn't ruined for her. If our paths cross, it must feel entirely spontaneous and be all about the conversation, the vibe, and how you make her feel. A genuine connection still needs to be made.

We are traveling for her work, which means I (the husband) am free to meet up for a casual drink or chat during the day. Any daytime meetup would just need to be within walking distance of our hotel area and in a public area.

Physical Preferences and Connection:
Please be aware that she prioritizes a strong personal connection, physical comfort and loves to laugh. For men, she likes small to average tools. Large tools hurt her and she does not enjoy them. She also prefers shorter, passionate sessions as she feels like you enjoy her so much you can't hold it.

If this sounds like something you might be interested in, please reach out.

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u/fresh-cakes-2025 — 21 hours ago

25/25 [MF4MF/F] Honolulu Mid September

First time couple making the trip next month. Looking for clean/ sexy couples. Wife is looking for a bi sexual female to play with first. Single bi sexual females can be considered as well. Send couple pics and we can plan something out. Dms open and ready!

u/jumpmanjonah — 1 day ago

[MF4MF/F] 34M & 26F - First-timers looking for same room play

Hey everyone! We are couple (34 asian M / 26WF) and first-timers to the lifestyle here in Oahu for next few days.

Since it's our first time exploring, we are preferably looking for an MF couple or single F for same room play with no physical contact. Just looking to explore the vibe, have fun, and see where the chemistry goes in a comfortable, pressure-free setting.

If interested, please send a DM with a brief intro and photos. Looking forward to chatting!

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u/Next-Record6592 — 1 day ago

Subject: MF4MF 37/47 — Newbie or Cuck Couples Welcome

MF couple looking for another MF couple for something fun, relaxed and low-pressure.

Newbie couples are absolutely welcome, and we’re also open to cuck couples where hubby genuinely enjoys watching his wife have fun.

Good chemistry, respectful communication and a playful attitude matter most. If you’ve been curious but haven’t quite taken the plunge, we may be a good fit.

Couples only. Say hi and tell us a little about both of you.

Please don’t make your first message about exchanging pics. Let’s have a little bit of a friendly exchange.

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u/lilikoiseeds — 1 day ago

35m40f Waikola big island

Visiting the big island in a few days, casually looking. We’re Not going to be on my phone responding all the time.

u/pnwcouple9085 — 6 days ago
▲ 6 r/HawaiiSwingers+1 crossposts

[MF4F] [MF4MF] [MF4M] Visiting Waikiki-Hilton Hawaiian Village/Hale Koa (Aug 24-31) – Looking for organic connection and chemistry!

We have been non-monogamous for our entire 20+ year relationship. Because we live in a very remote, rural town, we do not get to play very often. This is especially true because she prefers things to happen naturally and organically. Since we are out of town it is a perfect time to play! We are a Caucasian couple: She is 46, a sexy 5'4" redhead, 135 lbs, with a perfect rack. He is 47, 5'7", 190 lbs with an average dad bod build.She loves being complimented and feeling the spark of being pursued. She dislikes apps and hookup websites; she is all about natural encounters.

That said, I don't mind nudging fate behind the scenes. That means Please note that she does not know about this post, and it needs to stay that way so the natural, organic feeling isn't ruined for her. If our paths cross, it must feel entirely spontaneous and be all about the conversation, the vibe, and how you make her feel. A genuine connection still needs to be made.

We are traveling for her work, which means I (the husband) am free to meet up for a casual drink or chat during the day. Any daytime meetup would just need to be within walking distance of our hotel area and in a public area.

Physical Preferences and Connection:
Please be aware that she prioritizes a strong personal connection, physical comfort and loves to laugh. For men, she likes small to average tools. Large tools hurt her and she does not enjoy them. She also prefers shorter, passionate sessions as she feels like you enjoy her so much you can't hold it.

If this sounds like something you might be interested in, please reach out.

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u/fresh-cakes-2025 — 6 days ago
▲ 69 r/HawaiiSwingers+10 crossposts

30/30 [MF4MF/F] Pahoa - Looking for same room no swap or nudists

Aloha! We’re a couple visiting the Big Island until this coming Sunday and looking to have some fun before we head out.
We’re hoping to connect with a single female for a threesome, or another couple for some same-room play (strictly no swapping). Alternatively, we'd also love to just hang out and enjoy the vibe with fellow nudists in the area!
Keeping things super casual, pressure-free, and fun. Drop us a DM if you’re around and want to connect! 🌺🍹

u/vyomnetra — 9 days ago

30s [MF4A] Maui - Sheraton

We are a couple in our late 30s. Last few days in Maui. Would love to meet up with anyone also staying at the sheraton. Hit us up and let’s see where things go.

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u/Wasatchusayder — 6 days ago

33MF4MF or M OAHU looking for couple or hung single M

Good afternoon! We’re looking for another couple or a single male who is hung please be respectful and tell us about yourselves. If we don’t reply right away it’s because we’re accepting messages and reading what you guys have to say. 😁

u/kama-pineapples1319 — 10 days ago