r/HawaiiSwingers

40s {mf4m mf4mf mf4f} Kauai jun 24-29

Looking to have some fun on vacation with attractive height/weight proportional people.

u/funinsun1234 — 1 day ago

29F/35M 4 MF/F Looking to connect with the local lifestyle scene / go on some dates with a nice couple.

We are an experienced couple looking to connect with the local lifestyle scene! We would love to find the local parties! As we all know the apps are horrible here…

u/Tangohotelmic — 2 days ago

26/24 [MF4F/MF] looking for a good time in Waikiki 5/28-6/4

Hit us up and see if we click!

u/Cultural_Ad9525 — 2 days ago

32/28 [MF4F] Maui Waldorf - Open to HWP MF also

Shoot us a message and we will approve it. Please be prepared to provide similar style pictures so we can gauge interest.

u/brittanyblusearch — 3 days ago
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31M 29F [MF4M/MF] Waikiki Hotwife couple visiting and looking for fun!

This is our first time on the island, but not our first time playing! Mostly looking for fun that he can watch from the sidelines.

Age and race is not super important. Personality, hygiene, and fitness are! Size doesn’t matter a ton but I certainly don’t complain when it’s a little bigger guys.. lol

u/Anxious_Resource_305 — 4 days ago

39/50 [MF4MF] Sexy, Frisky Couple Camping at Polo Beach This Saturday.

Sexy, fit couple will be camping overnight this coming weekend and hoping to make new sexy friends while there!

If you will be there reach out, we would love to connect!

Not interested in single men!

We love a unicorn 🦄

u/Powerful_Cobbler6283 — 4 days ago

29f/31m4F/MW (Oahu only No BLANK PROFILES)

Oahu couple looking another female or a couple to spice up or fun we are a young open marriage local couple (Blank accounts will not get a response)

u/Opposite-Stranger-54 — 5 days ago

34/22 MF4M/MF Honolulu

We’re looking for a male or couple. Experienced in the lifestyle and very sexual, lots of energy. Let us know if you’d like to connect and we’ll see where it goes.

u/ThatHawaiiGuy808 — 7 days ago

26m/26f Kona Looking for a cuck/ possibly to join if vibes are right lmk

He will vet prospects first and if he approves then I’ll decide if I want you to experience me behind close doors! Must be very discreet and know how to keep a secret we’re both very well known in town so don’t be weird or a snitch!!!

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u/Expensive-Dinner3396 — 5 days ago

30/33 [MF4MF] - Couple looking for full swap couple

My girl is visiting the island until May 20, we’re looking for a straight full swap couple preferably visiting the island as well. Please send pics if you reach out.

u/Necessary_Rip_9448 — 7 days ago

30s mf4 mf or f visiting 5/30-6/2

Visiting looking for couples or single girls or possoble males to have fun with 1 night pm pics abd detials. Will be in town 5/30-6/2

u/Kenny-Benny-8313 — 7 days ago

29m30f fit. looking for fun friends. 2 very young kids. Use to be in the LS in our early 20s but since moving to Hawaii almost a decade ago, have not tried anything since there is little to no lifestyle here(BigIsland)

Big island. Looking for friends.
talk story, have drinks. Get to know each other in person.
maybe get babysitters and See where the night takes us.

please share pics, location, stats and desires.

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u/Weak-Membership-808 — 6 days ago

45/43 [MF4MF] Honolulu - Couple looking for hottie couples! (no single dudes plz)

Couples only plz!

Experienced, high-energy couple looking for likeminded friends in the LS! If we connect and click and that leads to sex - great! If not, that’s cool too! But we really value connection and mutual attraction so we might take a bit more time to get to know you. Massive bonus if you communicate well beforehand and can hold a conversation when we meet!

We are fit and try to look good and while looks aren’t everything (for real), we do prefer HWP folks who also value fitness and/or taking care of themselves.

We have a cheat sheet pinned to our profile about the best ways to connect with us if you are interested. A thoughtful note and pictures go a very long way.

And we might just be out in Chinatown tonight 😉…

Couples only please!

u/here4yall — 8 days ago
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32/28 [MF4F] Ko Olina - very experienced. Also interested in select MF

We are fit and active and looking for others who are also. Experience not necessary, as we are patient and understanding.

Edit - we are in Ko Olina until the 19th.

u/brittanyblusearch — 8 days ago

42M/36F for MF or Select Singles

Couple on Oahu looking for other likeminded friends that are willing to have an ongoing friendship. We are HWP and prefer others who are the same. Being well groomed and having good hygiene is our preference.

To everyone who has already messaged us previously, thank you and we are going through our messages as we have the time. For those of you that send us a message, we are not looking for visitors here for the weekend. We only do things together and will not entertain pushy individuals.

Curvy ladies with confidence is great. For the male half, if your tool is not equal to or larger than the one in the video, we respectfully decline unless the expectation is FF play.

MALE IS STRAIGHT, she is Bi.

If you read the entire message, respond with your favorite sports team.

u/funcouple346 — 10 days ago

Who is on schofield that's interested in hanging out with a couple 36M35F

If you have any interest in a couple reach out to us and tell us a little about yourself.

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u/Quick_You7315 — 8 days ago

Oahu | Couple for couple or bwc. White male, busty asian milf.

Couple looking for Saturday evening. Open to host another couple or attractive single male.

Attractive, cleancut hung husband. Curvy, busty, bi, tight asian wife. Early forties.

We can host windward in our beautiful oceanview home.

Open to any couple, but if youre a single male her preference is bwc.

We’re cool, fun, chill, clean, sexy, normal.

If the ad is still up were still looking.

Feel free to message. Have pics to share.

Thanks.

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u/ssshield — 9 days ago
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New to this, but confident, respectful, and easy to vibe with. I listen, communicate, and keep things clean and drama-free.

Primarily into women, open to couples if the energy’s right.

Looking for mutual attraction, good communication, and a chill but real connection. One-time or ongoing.

Can verify + send pics. If you’re local and interested, message me.

u/bussinmussin — 9 days ago

41M/28F [MF4MF] Oahu

Posted by Husband. Would appreciate anyone interested reading all before messaging, especially if you’re a single male. If there’s no pics of you on your reddit profile it’s going to be the first thing we ask for.

Non-Local Asian couple living on the Leeward side of Oahu.

Husband: 5’7 Tattooed short king with a muscular-ish dad bod and an average sized package (pretty sure she loves me for my personality)

Wifey: 4’10 115 pounds with a perky chest and ASS for days (maybe even weeks..) Not a size queen but can take anything like a pornstar and I still have no idea where it all goes.

Couple for couples and thirds (MFM/MFF)

We’re swingers and occasionally play the Stag/Vixen dynamic (we appreciate you doing your research before messaging us) I vibe with looks, while wifey vibes with personality(talk nerdy to her) We love enhancing our amazing sex life with more people from having Same Room Sex, to just the Women playing while the men watch, and all the way to Full Swap.

She is very select on the male thirds. Be RESPECTFUL, conventionally attractive, hung, with no facial or body hair and killer massage skills (Yeah i know, but I don’t make the rules on this one)

While we do focus on tourists (less drama and hotel room sex is amazing) we absolutely love the friends to friends with benefits pipeline.

We don’t kink shame. However, we are NOT into the cuckold dynamic.

Actively trying to avoid anyone we might run into at work (expect light screening)

Lastly, We love spontaneous or planned experiences with couples, but if you’re trying to be a third with us, Wifey will most likely only agree to you joining us when she’s really horny or when we just started sex. So the closer you are to us the better your chances.

more pics on request but hard pass on pic collectors or guys that just want to talk sex.

*Last STI Test a Jan 2026

Active accounts on Feeld/3fun but wifey sucks checking hers, lol.

u/CinnaBunsXO — 12 days ago