UPDATE 27 Aug [MF4F] [MF4MF] [MF4M] Visiting Waikiki-Hilton Hawaiian Village/Hale Koa (Aug 24-31) – Looking for organic connection and chemistry!

UPDATED INFO- We have been spending our evenings at the Hale Koa Pool Area which is restricted unless you are a guest.  Please only reach out if you are a guest and/or can meet up there. 

We have been non-monogamous for our entire 20+ year relationship. Because we live in a very remote, rural town, we do not get to play very often. This is especially true because she prefers things to happen naturally and organically. Since we are out of town it is a perfect time to play! We are a Caucasian couple: She is 46, a sexy 5'4" redhead, 135 lbs, with a perfect rack. He is 47, 5'7", 190 lbs with an average dad bod build.She loves being complimented and feeling the spark of being pursued. She dislikes apps and hookup websites; she is all about natural encounters.

That said, I don't mind nudging fate behind the scenes. That means Please note that she does not know about this post, and it needs to stay that way so the natural, organic feeling isn't ruined for her. If our paths cross, it must feel entirely spontaneous and be all about the conversation, the vibe, and how you make her feel. A genuine connection still needs to be made.

We are traveling for her work, which means I (the husband) am free to meet up for a casual drink or chat during the day. Any daytime meetup would just need to be within walking distance of our hotel area and in a public area.

Physical Preferences and Connection:
Please be aware that she prioritizes a strong personal connection, physical comfort and loves to laugh. For men, she likes small to average tools. Large tools hurt her and she does not enjoy them. She also prefers shorter, passionate sessions as she feels like you enjoy her so much you can't hold it.

If this sounds like something you might be interested in, please reach out.

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u/fresh-cakes-2025 — 1 day ago

UPDATE 27 Aug [MF4F] [MF4MF] [MF4M] Visiting Waikiki-Hilton Hawaiian Village/Hale Koa (Aug 24-31) – Looking for organic connection and chemistry!

UPDATED INFO- We have been spending our evenings at the Hale Koa Pool Area which is restricted unless you are a guest.  Please only reach out if you are a guest and/or can meet up there. 

We have been non-monogamous for our entire 20+ year relationship. Because we live in a very remote, rural town, we do not get to play very often. This is especially true because she prefers things to happen naturally and organically. Since we are out of town it is a perfect time to play! We are a Caucasian couple: She is 46, a sexy 5'4" redhead, 135 lbs, with a perfect rack. He is 47, 5'7", 190 lbs with an average dad bod build.She loves being complimented and feeling the spark of being pursued. She dislikes apps and hookup websites; she is all about natural encounters.

That said, I don't mind nudging fate behind the scenes. That means Please note that she does not know about this post, and it needs to stay that way so the natural, organic feeling isn't ruined for her. If our paths cross, it must feel entirely spontaneous and be all about the conversation, the vibe, and how you make her feel. A genuine connection still needs to be made.

We are traveling for her work, which means I (the husband) am free to meet up for a casual drink or chat during the day. Any daytime meetup would just need to be within walking distance of our hotel area and in a public area.

Physical Preferences and Connection:
Please be aware that she prioritizes a strong personal connection, physical comfort and loves to laugh. For men, she likes small to average tools. Large tools hurt her and she does not enjoy them. She also prefers shorter, passionate sessions as she feels like you enjoy her so much you can't hold it.

If this sounds like something you might be interested in, please reach out.

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u/fresh-cakes-2025 — 1 day ago

UPDATE 27 Aug [MF4F] [MF4MF] [MF4M] Visiting Waikiki-Hilton Hawaiian Village/Hale Koa (Aug 24-31) – Looking for organic connection and chemistry!

UPDATED INFO- We have been spending our evenings at the Hale Koa Pool Area which is restricted unless you are a guest.  Please only reach out if you are a guest and/or can meet up there. 

We have been non-monogamous for our entire 20+ year relationship. Because we live in a very remote, rural town, we do not get to play very often. This is especially true because she prefers things to happen naturally and organically. Since we are out of town it is a perfect time to play! We are a Caucasian couple: She is 46, a sexy 5'4" redhead, 135 lbs, with a perfect rack. He is 47, 5'7", 190 lbs with an average dad bod build.She loves being complimented and feeling the spark of being pursued. She dislikes apps and hookup websites; she is all about natural encounters.

That said, I don't mind nudging fate behind the scenes. That means Please note that she does not know about this post, and it needs to stay that way so the natural, organic feeling isn't ruined for her. If our paths cross, it must feel entirely spontaneous and be all about the conversation, the vibe, and how you make her feel. A genuine connection still needs to be made.

We are traveling for her work, which means I (the husband) am free to meet up for a casual drink or chat during the day. Any daytime meetup would just need to be within walking distance of our hotel area and in a public area.

Physical Preferences and Connection:
Please be aware that she prioritizes a strong personal connection, physical comfort and loves to laugh. For men, she likes small to average tools. Large tools hurt her and she does not enjoy them. She also prefers shorter, passionate sessions as she feels like you enjoy her so much you can't hold it.

If this sounds like something you might be interested in, please reach out.

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u/fresh-cakes-2025 — 1 day ago

[MF4F] [MF4MF] [MF4M] Visiting Waikiki-Hilton Hawaiian Village/Hale Koa (Aug 24-31) – Looking for organic connection and chemistry!

We have been non-monogamous for our entire 20+ year relationship. Because we live in a very remote, rural town, we do not get to play very often. This is especially true because she prefers things to happen naturally and organically. Since we are out of town it is a perfect time to play! We are a Caucasian couple: She is 46, a sexy 5'4" redhead, 135 lbs, with a perfect rack. He is 47, 5'7", 190 lbs with an average dad bod build.She loves being complimented and feeling the spark of being pursued. She dislikes apps and hookup websites; she is all about natural encounters.

That said, I don't mind nudging fate behind the scenes. That means Please note that she does not know about this post, and it needs to stay that way so the natural, organic feeling isn't ruined for her. If our paths cross, it must feel entirely spontaneous and be all about the conversation, the vibe, and how you make her feel. A genuine connection still needs to be made.

We are traveling for her work, which means I (the husband) am free to meet up for a casual drink or chat during the day. Any daytime meetup would just need to be within walking distance of our hotel area and in a public area.

Physical Preferences and Connection:
Please be aware that she prioritizes a strong personal connection, physical comfort and loves to laugh. For men, she likes small to average tools. Large tools hurt her and she does not enjoy them. She also prefers shorter, passionate sessions as she feels like you enjoy her so much you can't hold it.

If this sounds like something you might be interested in, please reach out.

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u/fresh-cakes-2025 — 6 days ago

[MF4F] [MF4MF] [MF4M] Visiting Waikiki-Hilton Hawaiian Village/Hale Koa (Aug 24-31) – Looking for organic connection and chemistry!

We have been non-monogamous for our entire 20+ year relationship. Because we live in a very remote, rural town, we do not get to play very often. This is especially true because she prefers things to happen naturally and organically. Since we are out of town it is a perfect time to play! We are a Caucasian couple: She is 46, a sexy 5'4" redhead, 135 lbs, with a perfect rack. He is 47, 5'7", 190 lbs with an average dad bod build.She loves being complimented and feeling the spark of being pursued. She dislikes apps and hookup websites; she is all about natural encounters.

That said, I don't mind nudging fate behind the scenes. That means Please note that she does not know about this post, and it needs to stay that way so the natural, organic feeling isn't ruined for her. If our paths cross, it must feel entirely spontaneous and be all about the conversation, the vibe, and how you make her feel. A genuine connection still needs to be made.

We are traveling for her work, which means I (the husband) am free to meet up for a casual drink or chat during the day. Any daytime meetup would just need to be within walking distance of our hotel area and in a public area.

Physical Preferences and Connection:
Please be aware that she prioritizes a strong personal connection, physical comfort and loves to laugh. For men, she likes small to average tools. Large tools hurt her and she does not enjoy them. She also prefers shorter, passionate sessions as she feels like you enjoy her so much you can't hold it.

If this sounds like something you might be interested in, please reach out.

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u/fresh-cakes-2025 — 6 days ago
▲ 6 r/oahucasualencounters+1 crossposts

[MF4F] [MF4MF] [MF4M] Visiting Waikiki-Hilton Hawaiian Village/Hale Koa (Aug 24-31) – Looking for organic connection and chemistry!

We have been non-monogamous for our entire 20+ year relationship. Because we live in a very remote, rural town, we do not get to play very often. This is especially true because she prefers things to happen naturally and organically. Since we are out of town it is a perfect time to play! We are a Caucasian couple: She is 46, a sexy 5'4" redhead, 135 lbs, with a perfect rack. He is 47, 5'7", 190 lbs with an average dad bod build.She loves being complimented and feeling the spark of being pursued. She dislikes apps and hookup websites; she is all about natural encounters.

That said, I don't mind nudging fate behind the scenes. That means Please note that she does not know about this post, and it needs to stay that way so the natural, organic feeling isn't ruined for her. If our paths cross, it must feel entirely spontaneous and be all about the conversation, the vibe, and how you make her feel. A genuine connection still needs to be made.

We are traveling for her work, which means I (the husband) am free to meet up for a casual drink or chat during the day. Any daytime meetup would just need to be within walking distance of our hotel area and in a public area.

Physical Preferences and Connection:
Please be aware that she prioritizes a strong personal connection, physical comfort and loves to laugh. For men, she likes small to average tools. Large tools hurt her and she does not enjoy them. She also prefers shorter, passionate sessions as she feels like you enjoy her so much you can't hold it.

If this sounds like something you might be interested in, please reach out.

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u/fresh-cakes-2025 — 6 days ago

[MF4MF] / [MF4F] / [MF4M] 46F & 47M @The Horseshoe 10-15 Aug

We are ethically non-monogamous and have been for over 20 years. We are open to meeting couples, single females, or single males while we are in town. Full disclosure: My wife isn't a fan of the dating apps and doesn't like forced or highly planned setups. She is a bit shy and won't initiate, but she absolutely loves a good compliment and completely lights up and carries the conversation once a connection is made! I’m trying to "nudge fate" a little bit. If you are around and want to organically cross paths, we will likely be hanging out around the casino bars or playing video poker.
How to spot us: She is a gorgeous redhead with a perfect large rack, and I will usually be wearing a black ring on my right hand. If you're in the area and want to break the ice online first so you know exactly when we're down at the casino floor, drop me a DM with a bit about yourself!

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u/fresh-cakes-2025 — 22 days ago
▲ 12 r/SwingersLasVegas+1 crossposts

[MF4MF] / [MF4F] / [MF4M] 46F & 47M @The Horseshoe 10-15 Aug

We are ethically non-monogamous and have been for over 20 years. We are open to meeting couples, single females, or single males while we are in town.
Full disclosure: My wife isn't a fan of the dating apps and doesn't like forced or highly planned setups. She is a bit shy and won't initiate, but she absolutely loves a good compliment and completely lights up when she is and carries the conversation once a connection is made! I’m trying to "nudge fate" a little bit. If you are around and want to organically cross paths, we will likely be hanging out around the casino bars or playing video poker.

How to spot us: She is a gorgeous redhead with a perfect large rack, and I will usually be wearing a black ring on my right hand. If you're in the area and want to break the ice online first so you know exactly when we're down at the casino floor, drop me a DM with a bit about yourself!

u/fresh-cakes-2025 — 16 days ago