u/vyomnetra

Hey! We're a married couple in San Jose, both 31. We're looking for other couples to actually become friends with — and down the line, if everyone clicks, maybe explore parallel play.

Being upfront so nobody wastes an evening: local only. We've tried the distance thing more than once and it never turns into anything. Same goes if you're messaging us about tonight. That's not what this is.

Honestly, the friendship is the whole point. Not swapping, not dating, nothing complicated. We want the kind of people we'd invite over for festivals, talk into a hike, and just do regular life with. Family friends, basically.

We're boring in the best way. Hiking, hot springs, movie nights where nobody bothers changing out of pajamas. We're big anime people and it genuinely makes our week to meet someone we can go back and forth with about it. If you're into farm or homestead life, that's a huge plus.

About us: Indian couple, both in tech, both homebodies. Very domestic, very low-key. Totally clean lifestyle — no smoking, no drinking, no drugs. F doesn't wear makeup and we like keeping things that simple. A good night for us is everyone showered, in comfortable clothes, doing nothing in particular. We're both HWP, definitely not gym-fit, no tattoos.

What we're drawn to: soft, cute, cuddly people. Not really the very tall or very muscular look. We've clicked best with Asian and white couples.

As for the parallel play part — if a real friendship comes together and everyone actually vibes, we're open to it. But we'd want to start by just hanging out. Gaming, a movie, whatever. Think sleepover, not a night out. We've done this before, so we know a forced scene is nobody's good time. If something more happens naturally somewhere down the road, we're not opposed, but there's no expectation and no pressure.

A few things that won't work for us:

Anyone not local We'd want a quick 4-way call before meeting up. We're not looking to text forever or start a group chat that fizzles out. No hubby-to-hubby side chats. Single guys, pushy couples, or crass first messages. Anything outside a clean lifestyle.

Health-wise, we're both tested and clean. F's on birth control, M is cut.

If you want normal friends and a no-pressure dynamic, just message us. Tell us a bit about yourselves and what you're into. That's really all we're after.

Hey everyone, We are a married couple (both 31) local to San Jose. We are looking to connect with a similar couple (or older, we are totally open) to build a genuine friendship with first, and eventually explore a parallel play dynamic.

To save everyone some time: We are strictly looking for local friends only. We want people we can actually go out, hang out, and chill with regularly. If you are just visiting the area, or if you are in our DMs looking for something "for tonight," please skip this post. We have tried the distance thing before, and it is useless for what we want.

What We Are Looking For (The "Family Friends" Vibe):
Friendship First: To be completely upfront: we are not looking for swapping, dating, or complicated relationship dynamics. We want real friends first and foremost—the kind of people we can invite over for festivals, go on trips or hikes with, and just do normal life stuff with as "family friends."

Our Interests: Outside of the bedroom, we usually just want to do normal stuff: hiking, hitting the hot springs, or having a quiet movie night at home. We are huge into anime and love when we can actually geek out about that with new friends. If you happen to be into the farm or farmstead lifestyle, that is a huge bonus.

About Us & Our Vibe:
Our Background: We are an Indian couple, and we both work in the tech industry.

Wholesome & Clean: To give you an idea of our vibe, we are total homebodies. We love a very wholesome, simple, and domestic life. We live a completely clean lifestyle, which means no smoking, no alcohol, and no drugs.

Relaxed & Natural: We prefer a very natural and relaxed vibe. The wife is a true girl-next-door type who doesn't wear makeup, and we prefer keeping things that simple. For us, a great hangout just means being freshly showered, wearing comfortable clothes, and keeping it chill.

Our Look: We are both HWP but definitely not gym-fit, and we have no tattoos.

Physical Preferences:
As for what we are physically drawn to, we really prefer soft, cute, and cuddly people.
We aren't into the super tall or highly muscular look.
Asian and white couples are a plus for us.

The Parallel Play Aspect:
If a solid, normal friendship is built and everyone clicks, we are open to occasional parallel play.
We want to start by just hanging out, maybe some gaming or a movie, and see where things go naturally. Think PJ party more than a fancy club night.
We have done this before, so we are absolutely not looking for a forced scene or one-night hookups.
That being said, if something more happens organically down the line, we aren't opposed to it—but there is absolutely zero expectation or pressure for that to happen.

Dealbreakers & Next Steps:
Locals Only: No tourists, and absolutely no messages looking for a hookup "tonight."

Video Verification is Required: We are not interested in endless chatting, creating groups just to text, or wasting everyone's time. If you are genuinely interested, we expect a quick 4-way video call (FaceTime, WhatsApp, or Telegram) to verify everyone's faces and see if we vibe. If you are unable to do this or aren't comfortable showing your faces, unfortunately, this won't work for us.

Communication: No "hubby to hubby" chats or any of that nonsense. We want a genuine group connection, not weird side conversations.

Vibe Check: No single guys, no pushy couples, and please skip the crass opening messages.

Lifestyle: Clean lifestyle only (no drugs, smoking, or drinking).

Health and Stats: We are both clean and regularly tested. F is on birth control, and M is cut.

If you guys are looking for completely normal friends and a low-pressure dynamic, shoot us a message. Just tell us a little about yourselves and what you are into. We are just looking for genuine people to get to know.

P.S. Regarding AI: Yes, I use AI to help dictate and format my posts because it saves me time.

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Hey everyone,

We are a married couple (both 31) local to San Jose, and we’re looking to connect with a similar couple (or older, we're totally open) to hang out with and eventually explore a soft swap dynamic.

We’re experienced and have done this before, so we’re really not looking for a forced "scene" or one-night hookups. We just want to meet some cool, down-to-earth people to build a genuine friendship with first.

We’re pretty simple people, and we live a completely clean lifestyle—no smoking, no alcohol, and no drugs. We prefer a very natural, low-maintenance vibe (no makeup, just comfortable and chill). We’re both HWP but definitely not "gym-fit,".

As for what we’re physically drawn to: we really prefer soft, cute, and cuddly people. We aren't into the super tall or highly muscular look. Asian and white couples are a plus for us.

Outside of the bedroom, we usually just want to do normal stuff: hiking, hitting the hot springs, or having a movie night. We’re huge into anime and love when we can actually geek out about that with new friends. Also, if you happen to be into the farm/farmstead lifestyle, that’s a huge bonus.

We want to start by just hanging out, maybe some gaming or a movie, and see where things go naturally. Think "PJ party" more than "fancy club night."

If you guys are looking for something low-pressure and friends-first, send us a friend request or shoot us a message. Just tell us a little about yourselves and what you’re into.

A few quick things: * No single guys, no pushy couples.

• Clean lifestyle only (no drugs/smoking/drinking).
• Health/Stats: We are both clean and regularly tested. F is on birth control, and M is cut.
• We are not interested in trading nudes, and we verify over a quick video call.

We’re just looking for genuine people to get to know.

Hey everyone,

We are a married couple (both 31) local to San Jose, and we’re looking to connect with a similar couple (or older, we're totally open) to hang out with and eventually explore a soft swap dynamic.

We’re experienced and have done this before, so we’re really not looking for a forced "scene" or one-night hookups. We just want to meet some cool, down-to-earth people to build a genuine friendship with first.

We’re pretty simple people, and we live a completely clean lifestyle—no smoking, no alcohol, and no drugs. We prefer a very natural, low-maintenance vibe (no makeup, just comfortable and chill). We’re both HWP but definitely not "gym-fit,".

As for what we’re physically drawn to: we really prefer soft, cute, and cuddly people. We aren't into the super tall or highly muscular look. Asian and white couples are a plus for us.

Outside of the bedroom, we usually just want to do normal stuff: hiking, hitting the hot springs, or having a movie night. We’re huge into anime and love when we can actually geek out about that with new friends. Also, if you happen to be into the farm/farmstead lifestyle, that’s a huge bonus.

We want to start by just hanging out, maybe some gaming or a movie, and see where things go naturally. Think "PJ party" more than "fancy club night."

If you guys are looking for something low-pressure and friends-first, send us a friend request or shoot us a message. Just tell us a little about yourselves and what you’re into.

A few quick things: * No single guys, no pushy couples.

• Clean lifestyle only (no drugs/smoking/drinking).
• Health/Stats: We are both clean and regularly tested. F is on birth control, and M is cut.
• We are not interested in trading nudes, and we verify over a quick video call.

We’re just looking for genuine people to get to know.

Hey everyone,

We are a married couple (both 31) local to San Jose, and we’re looking to connect with a similar couple (or older, we're totally open) to hang out with and eventually explore a soft swap dynamic.

We’re experienced and have done this before, so we’re really not looking for a forced "scene" or one-night hookups. We just want to meet some cool, down-to-earth people to build a genuine friendship with first.

We’re pretty simple people, and we live a completely clean lifestyle—no smoking, no alcohol, and no drugs. We prefer a very natural, low-maintenance vibe (no makeup, just comfortable and chill). We’re both HWP but definitely not "gym-fit,".

As for what we’re physically drawn to: we really prefer soft, cute, and cuddly people. We aren't into the super tall or highly muscular look. Asian and white couples are a plus for us.

Outside of the bedroom, we usually just want to do normal stuff: hiking, hitting the hot springs, or having a movie night. We’re huge into anime and love when we can actually geek out about that with new friends. Also, if you happen to be into the farm/farmstead lifestyle, that’s a huge bonus.

We want to start by just hanging out, maybe some gaming or a movie, and see where things go naturally. Think "PJ party" more than "fancy club night."

If you guys are looking for something low-pressure and friends-first, send us a friend request or shoot us a message. Just tell us a little about yourselves and what you’re into.

A few quick things: * No single guys, no pushy couples.

• Clean lifestyle only (no drugs/smoking/drinking).
• Health/Stats: We are both clean and regularly tested. F is on birth control, and M is cut.
• We are not interested in trading nudes, and we verify over a quick video call.

We’re just looking for genuine people to get to know.

Hey everyone,

We are a married couple (both 31) local to San Jose, and we’re looking to connect with a similar couple (or older, we're totally open) to hang out with and eventually explore a soft swap dynamic.

We’re experienced and have done this before, so we’re really not looking for a forced "scene" or one-night hookups. We just want to meet some cool, down-to-earth people to build a genuine friendship with first.

We’re pretty simple people, and we live a completely clean lifestyle—no smoking, no alcohol, and no drugs. We prefer a very natural, low-maintenance vibe (no makeup, just comfortable and chill). We’re both HWP but definitely not "gym-fit,".

As for what we’re physically drawn to: we really prefer soft, cute, and cuddly people. We aren't into the super tall or highly muscular look. Asian and white couples are a plus for us.

Outside of the bedroom, we usually just want to do normal stuff: hiking, hitting the hot springs, or having a movie night. We’re huge into anime and love when we can actually geek out about that with new friends. Also, if you happen to be into the farm/farmstead lifestyle, that’s a huge bonus.

We want to start by just hanging out, maybe some gaming or a movie, and see where things go naturally. Think "PJ party" more than "fancy club night."

If you guys are looking for something low-pressure and friends-first, send us a friend request or shoot us a message. Just tell us a little about yourselves and what you’re into.

A few quick things: * No single guys, no pushy couples.

• Clean lifestyle only (no drugs/smoking/drinking).
• Health/Stats: We are both clean and regularly tested. F is on birth control, and M is cut.
• We are not interested in trading nudes, and we verify over a quick video call.

We’re just looking for genuine people to get to know.

Hey everyone,

We are a married couple (both 31) local to San Jose, and we’re looking to connect with a similar couple (or older, we're totally open) to hang out with and eventually explore a soft swap dynamic.

We’re experienced and have done this before, so we’re really not looking for a forced "scene" or one-night hookups. We just want to meet some cool, down-to-earth people to build a genuine friendship with first.

We’re pretty simple people, and we live a completely clean lifestyle—no smoking, no alcohol, and no drugs. We prefer a very natural, low-maintenance vibe (no makeup, just comfortable and chill). We’re both HWP but definitely not "gym-fit,".

As for what we’re physically drawn to: we really prefer soft, cute, and cuddly people. We aren't into the super tall or highly muscular look. Asian and white couples are a plus for us.

Outside of the bedroom, we usually just want to do normal stuff: hiking, hitting the hot springs, or having a movie night. We’re huge into anime and love when we can actually geek out about that with new friends. Also, if you happen to be into the farm/farmstead lifestyle, that’s a huge bonus.

We want to start by just hanging out, maybe some gaming or a movie, and see where things go naturally. Think "PJ party" more than "fancy club night."

If you guys are looking for something low-pressure and friends-first, send us a friend request or shoot us a message. Just tell us a little about yourselves and what you’re into.

A few quick things: * No single guys, no pushy couples.

• Clean lifestyle only (no drugs/smoking/drinking).
• Health/Stats: We are both clean and regularly tested. F is on birth control, and M is cut.
• We are not interested in trading nudes, and we verify over a quick video call.

We’re just looking for genuine people to get to know.

Hey everyone,

We are a married couple (both 31) local to San Jose, and we’re looking to connect with a similar couple (or older, we're totally open) to hang out with and eventually explore a soft swap dynamic.

We’re experienced and have done this before, so we’re really not looking for a forced "scene" or one-night hookups. We just want to meet some cool, down-to-earth people to build a genuine friendship with first.

We’re pretty simple people, and we live a completely clean lifestyle—no smoking, no alcohol, and no drugs. We prefer a very natural, low-maintenance vibe (no makeup, just comfortable and chill). We’re both HWP but definitely not "gym-fit,".

As for what we’re physically drawn to: we really prefer soft, cute, and cuddly people. We aren't into the super tall or highly muscular look. Asian and white couples are a plus for us.

Outside of the bedroom, we usually just want to do normal stuff: hiking, hitting the hot springs, or having a movie night. We’re huge into anime and love when we can actually geek out about that with new friends. Also, if you happen to be into the farm/farmstead lifestyle, that’s a huge bonus.

We want to start by just hanging out, maybe some gaming or a movie, and see where things go naturally. Think "PJ party" more than "fancy club night."

If you guys are looking for something low-pressure and friends-first, send us a friend request or shoot us a message. Just tell us a little about yourselves and what you’re into.

A few quick things: * No single guys, no pushy couples.

• Clean lifestyle only (no drugs/smoking/drinking).
• Health/Stats: We are both clean and regularly tested. F is on birth control, and M is cut.
• We are not interested in trading nudes, and we verify over a quick video call.

We’re just looking for genuine people to get to know.

Hey everyone,

We are a married couple (both 31) local to San Jose, and we’re looking to connect with a similar couple (or older, we're totally open) to hang out with and eventually explore a soft swap dynamic.

We’re experienced and have done this before, so we’re really not looking for a forced "scene" or one-night hookups. We just want to meet some cool, down-to-earth people to build a genuine friendship with first.

We’re pretty simple people, and we live a completely clean lifestyle—no smoking, no alcohol, and no drugs. We prefer a very natural, low-maintenance vibe (no makeup, just comfortable and chill). We’re both HWP but definitely not "gym-fit,".

As for what we’re physically drawn to: we really prefer soft, cute, and cuddly people. We aren't into the super tall or highly muscular look. Asian and white couples are a plus for us.

Outside of the bedroom, we usually just want to do normal stuff: hiking, hitting the hot springs, or having a movie night. We’re huge into anime and love when we can actually geek out about that with new friends. Also, if you happen to be into the farm/farmstead lifestyle, that’s a huge bonus.

We want to start by just hanging out, maybe some gaming or a movie, and see where things go naturally. Think "PJ party" more than "fancy club night."

If you guys are looking for something low-pressure and friends-first, send us a friend request or shoot us a message. Just tell us a little about yourselves and what you’re into.

A few quick things: * No single guys, no pushy couples.

• Clean lifestyle only (no drugs/smoking/drinking).
• Health/Stats: We are both clean and regularly tested. F is on birth control, and M is cut.
• We are not interested in trading nudes, and we verify over a quick video call.

We’re just looking for genuine people to get to know.

Hey everyone,

We are a married couple (both 31) local to San Jose, and we’re looking to connect with a similar couple (or older, we're totally open) to hang out with and eventually explore a soft swap dynamic.

We’re experienced and have done this before, so we’re really not looking for a forced "scene" or one-night hookups. We just want to meet some cool, down-to-earth people to build a genuine friendship with first.

We’re pretty simple people, and we live a completely clean lifestyle—no smoking, no alcohol, and no drugs. We prefer a very natural, low-maintenance vibe (no makeup, just comfortable and chill). We’re both HWP but definitely not "gym-fit,".

As for what we’re physically drawn to: we really prefer soft, cute, and cuddly people. We aren't into the super tall or highly muscular look. Asian and white couples are a plus for us.

Outside of the bedroom, we usually just want to do normal stuff: hiking, hitting the hot springs, or having a movie night. We’re huge into anime and love when we can actually geek out about that with new friends. Also, if you happen to be into the farm/farmstead lifestyle, that’s a huge bonus.

We want to start by just hanging out, maybe some gaming or a movie, and see where things go naturally. Think "PJ party" more than "fancy club night."

If you guys are looking for something low-pressure and friends-first, send us a friend request or shoot us a message. Just tell us a little about yourselves and what you’re into.

A few quick things: * No single guys, no pushy couples.

• Clean lifestyle only (no drugs/smoking/drinking).
• Health/Stats: We are both clean and regularly tested. F is on birth control, and M is cut.
• We are not interested in trading nudes, and we verify over a quick video call.

We’re just looking for genuine people to get to know.

Hey everyone,

We are a married couple (both 31) local to San Jose, and we’re looking to connect with a similar couple (or older, we're totally open) to hang out with and eventually explore a soft swap dynamic.

We’re experienced and have done this before, so we’re really not looking for a forced "scene" or one-night hookups. We just want to meet some cool, down-to-earth people to build a genuine friendship with first.

We’re pretty simple people, and we live a completely clean lifestyle—no smoking, no alcohol, and no drugs. We prefer a very natural, low-maintenance vibe (no makeup, just comfortable and chill). We’re both HWP but definitely not "gym-fit,".

As for what we’re physically drawn to: we really prefer soft, cute, and cuddly people. We aren't into the super tall or highly muscular look. Asian and white couples are a plus for us.

Outside of the bedroom, we usually just want to do normal stuff: hiking, hitting the hot springs, or having a movie night. We’re huge into anime and love when we can actually geek out about that with new friends. Also, if you happen to be into the farm/farmstead lifestyle, that’s a huge bonus.

We want to start by just hanging out, maybe some gaming or a movie, and see where things go naturally. Think "PJ party" more than "fancy club night."

If you guys are looking for something low-pressure and friends-first, send us a friend request or shoot us a message. Just tell us a little about yourselves and what you’re into.

A few quick things: * No single guys, no pushy couples.

• Clean lifestyle only (no drugs/smoking/drinking).
• Health/Stats: We are both clean and regularly tested. F is on birth control, and M is cut.
• We are not interested in trading nudes, and we verify over a quick video call.

We’re just looking for genuine people to get to know.

Hey everyone,

We are a married couple (both 31) local to San Jose, and we’re looking to connect with a similar couple (or older, we're totally open) to hang out with and eventually explore a soft swap dynamic.

We’re experienced and have done this before, so we’re really not looking for a forced "scene" or one-night hookups. We just want to meet some cool, down-to-earth people to build a genuine friendship with first.

We’re pretty simple people, and we live a completely clean lifestyle—no smoking, no alcohol, and no drugs. We prefer a very natural, low-maintenance vibe (no makeup, just comfortable and chill). We’re both HWP but definitely not "gym-fit,".

As for what we’re physically drawn to: we really prefer soft, cute, and cuddly people. We aren't into the super tall or highly muscular look. Asian and white couples are a plus for us.

Outside of the bedroom, we usually just want to do normal stuff: hiking, hitting the hot springs, or having a movie night. We’re huge into anime and love when we can actually geek out about that with new friends. Also, if you happen to be into the farm/farmstead lifestyle, that’s a huge bonus.

We want to start by just hanging out, maybe some gaming or a movie, and see where things go naturally. Think "PJ party" more than "fancy club night."

If you guys are looking for something low-pressure and friends-first, send us a friend request or shoot us a message. Just tell us a little about yourselves and what you’re into.

A few quick things: * No single guys, no pushy couples.

• Clean lifestyle only (no drugs/smoking/drinking).
• Health/Stats: We are both clean and regularly tested. F is on birth control, and M is cut.
• We are not interested in trading nudes, and we verify over a quick video call.

We’re just looking for genuine people to get to know.

Hey everyone,

We are a married couple (both 31) local to San Jose, and we’re looking to connect with a similar couple (or older, we're totally open) to hang out with and eventually explore a soft swap dynamic.

We’re experienced and have done this before, so we’re really not looking for a forced "scene" or one-night hookups. We just want to meet some cool, down-to-earth people to build a genuine friendship with first.

We’re pretty simple people, and we live a completely clean lifestyle—no smoking, no alcohol, and no drugs. We prefer a very natural, low-maintenance vibe (no makeup, just comfortable and chill). We’re both HWP but definitely not "gym-fit,".

As for what we’re physically drawn to: we really prefer soft, cute, and cuddly people. We aren't into the super tall or highly muscular look. Asian and white couples are a plus for us.

Outside of the bedroom, we usually just want to do normal stuff: hiking, hitting the hot springs, or having a movie night. We’re huge into anime and love when we can actually geek out about that with new friends. Also, if you happen to be into the farm/farmstead lifestyle, that’s a huge bonus.

We want to start by just hanging out, maybe some gaming or a movie, and see where things go naturally. Think "PJ party" more than "fancy club night."

If you guys are looking for something low-pressure and friends-first, send us a friend request or shoot us a message. Just tell us a little about yourselves and what you’re into.

A few quick things: * No single guys, no pushy couples.

• Clean lifestyle only (no drugs/smoking/drinking).
• Health/Stats: We are both clean and regularly tested. F is on birth control, and M is cut.
• We are not interested in trading nudes, and we verify over a quick video call.

We’re just looking for genuine people to get to know.

Hey everyone,

We are a married couple (both 31) local to San Jose, and we’re looking to connect with a similar couple (or older, we're totally open) to hang out with and eventually explore a soft swap dynamic.

We’re experienced and have done this before, so we’re really not looking for a forced "scene" or one-night hookups. We just want to meet some cool, down-to-earth people to build a genuine friendship with first.

We’re pretty simple people, and we live a completely clean lifestyle—no smoking, no alcohol, and no drugs. We prefer a very natural, low-maintenance vibe (no makeup, just comfortable and chill). We’re both HWP but definitely not "gym-fit,".

As for what we’re physically drawn to: we really prefer soft, cute, and cuddly people. We aren't into the super tall or highly muscular look. Asian and white couples are a plus for us.

Outside of the bedroom, we usually just want to do normal stuff: hiking, hitting the hot springs, or having a movie night. We’re huge into anime and love when we can actually geek out about that with new friends. Also, if you happen to be into the farm/farmstead lifestyle, that’s a huge bonus.

We want to start by just hanging out, maybe some gaming or a movie, and see where things go naturally. Think "PJ party" more than "fancy club night."

If you guys are looking for something low-pressure and friends-first, send us a friend request or shoot us a message. Just tell us a little about yourselves and what you’re into.

A few quick things: * No single guys, no pushy couples.

• Clean lifestyle only (no drugs/smoking/drinking).
• Health/Stats: We are both clean and regularly tested. F is on birth control, and M is cut.
• We are not interested in trading nudes, and we verify over a quick video call.

We’re just looking for genuine people to get to know.

Hey everyone,

We are a married couple (both 31) local to San Jose, and we’re looking to connect with a similar couple (or older, we're totally open) to hang out with and eventually explore a soft swap dynamic.

We’re experienced and have done this before, so we’re really not looking for a forced "scene" or one-night hookups. We just want to meet some cool, down-to-earth people to build a genuine friendship with first.

We’re pretty simple people, and we live a completely clean lifestyle—no smoking, no alcohol, and no drugs. We prefer a very natural, low-maintenance vibe (no makeup, just comfortable and chill). We’re both HWP but definitely not "gym-fit,".

As for what we’re physically drawn to: we really prefer soft, cute, and cuddly people. We aren't into the super tall or highly muscular look. Asian and white couples are a plus for us.

Outside of the bedroom, we usually just want to do normal stuff: hiking, hitting the hot springs, or having a movie night. We’re huge into anime and love when we can actually geek out about that with new friends. Also, if you happen to be into the farm/farmstead lifestyle, that’s a huge bonus.

We want to start by just hanging out, maybe some gaming or a movie, and see where things go naturally. Think "PJ party" more than "fancy club night."

If you guys are looking for something low-pressure and friends-first, send us a friend request or shoot us a message. Just tell us a little about yourselves and what you’re into.

A few quick things: * No single guys, no pushy couples.

• Clean lifestyle only (no drugs/smoking/drinking).
• Health/Stats: We are both clean and regularly tested. F is on birth control, and M is cut.
• We are not interested in trading nudes, and we verify over a quick video call.

We’re just looking for genuine people to get to know.

Hey everyone,

We are a married couple (both 31) local to San Jose, and we’re looking to connect with a similar couple (or older, we're totally open) to hang out with and eventually explore a soft swap dynamic.

We’re experienced and have done this before, so we’re really not looking for a forced "scene" or one-night hookups. We just want to meet some cool, down-to-earth people to build a genuine friendship with first.

We’re pretty simple people, and we live a completely clean lifestyle—no smoking, no alcohol, and no drugs. We prefer a very natural, low-maintenance vibe (no makeup, just comfortable and chill). We’re both HWP but definitely not "gym-fit,".

As for what we’re physically drawn to: we really prefer soft, cute, and cuddly people. We aren't into the super tall or highly muscular look. Asian and white couples are a plus for us.

Outside of the bedroom, we usually just want to do normal stuff: hiking, hitting the hot springs, or having a movie night. We’re huge into anime and love when we can actually geek out about that with new friends. Also, if you happen to be into the farm/farmstead lifestyle, that’s a huge bonus.

We want to start by just hanging out, maybe some gaming or a movie, and see where things go naturally. Think "PJ party" more than "fancy club night."

If you guys are looking for something low-pressure and friends-first, send us a friend request or shoot us a message. Just tell us a little about yourselves and what you’re into.

A few quick things: * No single guys, no pushy couples.

• Clean lifestyle only (no drugs/smoking/drinking).
• Health/Stats: We are both clean and regularly tested. F is on birth control, and M is cut.
• We are not interested in trading nudes, and we verify over a quick video call.

We’re just looking for genuine people to get to know.