It is not even 10 a.m. and I’ve had to ban 9 people so far for posting their genitalia in the first photo.
I’m tired of playing with y’all— if you post your genitals in the first photo (male OR female), it’s an instaban. STOP IT.
And no whining in my inbox later saying you didn’t know. If you read the rules prior to posting, you would know. 💁🏽♀️
I have long said that if you’re going to risk it, risk it for someone who sets you on fire. I know myself well enough to know that I don’t do well with a hands-off, never-speak situation. I need the mental wind up between meetings to maintain interest, and I prefer an affair that lasts longer rather than not.
So if you are intelligent, funny, handsome and communicative, and within a reasonable distance do me, drop me a line. I am safe, sane, attractive, and discreet, and I ask the same from you.
Now for what I DON’T want: inconsistency. The end goal is incredible sex. The more that I like you, the more that I want you. Inconsistent communication leads to boredom on my end.
Someone who immediately wants to discuss sexual proclivities: getting close to 100 responses where everyone wants to immediately be sexual is a turnoff.
Men who lie about their age. Be honest about that. While I don’t have a preferred age range, I ask that you be age-appropriate: if you’re 19, you have no business messaging me. If you’re 70, same thing.
Anyone outside a reasonable distance from me. I can only rarely travel, and your coming to town 6 times a year isn’t ideal.
I’m starting to hand out bans for anyone posting their genitals in the FIRSR PHOTO. It’s in our rules which one would know if they have read them.
A good rule of thumb is don’t show your dick unless someone asks you to see it. The internet and anonymity has made some of y’all brave.
Anyone posting a dick pic on the toilet will be shamed first, then banned. Because…Gross. 🤢
Nervous about dipping my toes in, but here we go:
I have long said that if you’re going to risk it, risk it for someone who sets you on fire. I know myself well enough to know that I don’t do well with a hands-off, never-speak situation. I need the mental wind up between meetings to maintain interest, and I prefer an affair that lasts longer rather than not.
So if you are intelligent, funny, handsome and communicative, drop me a line.
Editing to add two things: one, please be patient with me as I wade through all the responses; and
Two, please be within a reasonable distance. Travel for meetups is very hard for me to commit to.
I’ve had a marked increase at the number of bots posting in here in addition to men bitching that women never respond to their posts. So I’m going to hold your collective hands as I say this:
1). If it seems too good to be true, it is. If she’s smoking hot and posting her pussy and ass for the the world to see, 9.5 times out of 10, it’s fake. Take a whopping 10 seconds out of your day to check out her profile— if she has a telegram or other social media handle posted, it’s a bot. Flag it so I can remove it. Half of the time when I call one of you out for falling for it, I get “oh, I knew it was fake.” 🤦🏽♀️
2). If you want to know why women never respond, I can say this as a woman: we are lurking. We are watching to see who’s worth it. Most of us are a text away from getting laid if we so choose, so we can afford to be selective. If you want us to respond to you, give us something worth responding to. Some of y’all are lazy as hell. Low effort on here equals trash in bed. Do better, and you just might get lucky.
Okay, back to our regularly scheduled programming……
I’m seeing an increase of men NOT respecting preferences in this group, and I’m sick of it.
If a couple is asking for a female only, we will have morons commenting, asking if they’d be interested in a single male.
Then you have the men commenting on straight men’s posts, telling them their cocks look delicious. I know what you’re trying to do, and you’re not as sneaky as you think you are.
STOP ALLLLLLLL OF THIS. I’m sick enough of it that I’m about to start banning for first-time offenses.
Y’all are driving me crazy, I swear. 🤦🏽♀️
Read the pinned posts to know what we expect when you post. I keep deleting all the new posts because you’re not following the rules.
In the title of each post, it should contain the following information: your age, your gender, what you’re looking for (male? Female? Couple? Trans?) and you LOCATION.
DO NOT, and I repeat: DO NOT POST YOUR GENITALS in the first photo.
Y’all want to know why I’m cranky all the time? This is why. 🤪
In case you think it’s a good idea to solicit sexual favors for money TO THE MODMIN— it’s not. Don’t do it.
Y’all are making me extraordinarily tired today.
Y’all see this lady?
If you see this face, it’s a scam. I’ve banned about 30 accounts now that use her photo.
In fact, be wary of ANY female posting her face in photos on here. Most of us are more discreet than that, and the scammers are banking on horny brainless men to respond.