u/Embarrassed-Bet-763

Im new to asking here on reddit, so I hope this is the right place, if not Im sorry. Im 26F, Im a sub. I know that I want to be dominated in bed, in previous relationships I have tried to communicate that, but it never felt right. When I sleep with someone I want them to take charge, but as soon as I feel like they are in charge I resist, part of me wants to yield and part of me wants to fight and I dont know what else I can do or try, if any of you understand or have some advice I would truly appreciate that.