Response Times 🙄
I genuinely think some men on here forget that a lot of women in this space have full lives outside of sugaring.
Some of us work corporate jobs, run businesses, meetings, commutes, appointments, gym and classes, actual responsibilities etc. We are not sitting refreshing Telegram or WhatsApp 24/7 waiting to reply within 10mins.
A delayed response does not automatically mean disinterest. Sometimes it genuinely means we are at work, driving, in meetings, at the dentist, asleep or simply existing away from our phones for a couple of hours.
The amount of disproportionate reactions I’ve seen from grown men because a woman didn’t respond within an hour is honestly wild. Blocking, passive aggressive comments, assumptions, spiralling narratives… all because somebody had a real life moment offline…. Jesus, Mary and Joseph give us career minded SBs a break!
If you want a relaxed, natural dynamic with a woman who has her own life, career and independence, there has to be a little emotional maturity and patience involved too!
Thank you and good day 👏
Editing to add: the trigger for my post was 1hr wait 😂 lord have mercy. PLUS this was in relation to a day one chat. Not an established dynamic 👏