Plus Size Girls Who’ve Tried Femdom… I Need Advice 😅
I come to you again, my beautiful voluptuous women 🖤
I’ve posted before about my new beau, and recently he asked me to be his girlfriend! I’m really happy, but I’m also still working through some leftover feelings from my ex. Recently I found out he’s been telling people that the only thing I wanted him for was sex, which honestly hurt my confidence a lot because it’s not true at all. If anything, he was the one with the sex addiction. Hearing that really messed with my head, and I don’t think it’s fair to carry that insecurity into something new with someone who’s actually been kind to me.
Anyway, my new person opened up to me and shared that he’s into femdom. I’ve never explored that before. My ex never liked when I initiated sex or took control because he always wanted to be the dominant one, so this is completely new territory for me. I do have a few ideas already, but I wanted to ask here specifically because I trust other plus size women to understand some of the insecurities and confidence issues that can come with this stuff.
So I wanted to ask: have any other big girls explored femdom or taken on a more dominant role in the bedroom? What helped you feel confident stepping into it?