u/EnergyConsistent7969

I live in CNJ i feel like if my wife had a female friend who was bi or a swinger, she could at least soften her to the idea that its not so taboo. Not having any friends in the lifestyle, I feel like I'm alone in attempting to express any viewpoint here. Im bi, was in the lifestyle before married, she knew but I think she is intimidated by a lack of experience, so conversations are always shut down. I think a new open minded friend not a playmate could open a door