Who am I?: Call me Spirit! I'm in my mid 30's and after many rounds of trying to make life work, I'm going back to school for a degree in healthcare. Job stability is sexy, sue me.
--Stats --White --5'11" --180#s(russian gymnast type workouts) --Blue Eyes --Blonde Hair, spoiler (its long) --Tattoos
--Energy Frequency: Baseline is ridiculously calm, bold, intuitive, warm, sprinkle in some ADHD neurospicy for flavor.
--Relationship Style: Solo Poly, I have two steady partners who do not live with me. We are consenting and above board, have been in this dynamic for 1.5 years, and 10 months respectively. I value my autonomy as I spend the next few years building something just for me.
--Spoiler, I work in the Adult Industry on occasion.
--Tested Regularly, Clean boi
--I dont drink or smoke
--I do party, but with good judgement
--Soft Top is the best way to describe me. I'm an intuitive empathic person by day. Likely reminds you to hydrate, feeds you snacks, looks after the little things in a thoughtful way. I keep all my spicy locked up for bedroom escapades and artistic expression. My inner Dom is firm and self assured. Intense, Present, and Fierce. If you're lucky you might hear him roar (for the ladies who like a loud lover)
What am I Looking For?: Non-Vanilla Play Partners who are independent and self contained in their own life. This is a FWB/Peer Intimacy space. No soul merges at this time.
Sex not explicitly required all the time(lets explore sensation, not just sexuality) Poly understanding at the minimum. Ages 20-40, a bit older if you are in shape is fine.
In shape please, I admire people who take good care of themselves as I do. I prefer white and asain women, but anyone can try their luck. Horrible weakness for redheads, its incurable and will kill me eventually according to my doctor. Not a bad way to go imo. I like what I like
CONSENT:DESIRE:COMMUNICATION--I like people who take responsibility for expressing their boundaries and needs so I have a chance to honor them properly. I also admire the courage it takes for people to own their desires and aches, and to share them vulnerably with another human. I am patient, and can help you navigate if you have a willingness to be honest with yourself. I understand we can sometimes hold shame and trauma in our voices.
KINKS--Throw a dart. Seriously.
Bondage- I really miss casual rope bunny sessions where we get to explore without the pressure of sex. Sex is fun too.
CNC- Consensual means we communicate beforehand. Ladies, please don't leave ambiguity because you want to be hunted. You have a responsibility in creating safety too. Giving clear affirmative consent prior does not diminish the experience, or make it more staged. I won't do this, without proper and clear communication beforehand. But I would LOVE to make you feel helpless, and supremely desired. Its a great time. She was so pretty.... I couldn't help myself
Primal play- Unleash your animal babe
DD/lg- I admire how deep the feeling of trust goes here. Def a fave
Anal- I want you having more fun than me here. Seriously, watching a woman in ecstasy here is *chefs kiss. Dont worry, I'm thoughtful and slow, can warm up a girl up. You get to choose when you want more. If you're an analqueen.....Girl where have you been? Also, Popper friendly, they help and enhance.
Voyeur- Lets take it outside in nature
Breeding- See Primal. Something feels so...animalistic here.
Squirt- Can you? Wanna try? Hydrate hydrate hydrate
Face Fucking- If and only if you are INTO it.
Choking- Swoon. Also a highly boundaried and consent built container. RACK
Impact/Spanking- Can be non sexual. Some of us just need an attitude adjustment
Freeuse- Established folks only
I Love to Eat Pussy- Best meal of the day, dessert comes first.....literally
Full Blown Scenes that are Co Created- Want to go deep and explore yourself more? This is a solid way. Lets talk about the emotional context you want to explore through sensation and power exchange. Creativity is welcome, I love creating fun ideas, ordeals, sensations for people.
Who is NOT a Good Fit?: Monogamous Persons. Sorry babe. Even if you are single, this isn't a good fit. You simply wont have the skillsets and boundary holding that I need to manage emotions and attachment as they come up, and I'm not here to break your heart. Said with love.
People who cannot clearly communicate boundaries. You need to be able to say no and hold your line. I wont trust you if that skill isn't present. I like depth, and that requires a great deal of trust.
Emotionally clingy, overly attached, and jealous people. I cant hold space for you.
People with excessive substance abuse problems.
Entitled lovers. People who cannot hold space for my heart here too. I bring alot to the table, I expect to be treated with respect and care. Unfortunately, there is an abundance of people nowadays who can take but not give. Empathy or its a hard pass.
SEND A CHAT IF: You want to explore your body, sexuality, sensation, and emotion. You are comfortable in your own life and not looking for a full blown relationship. Tested and clean. You are interested in a masculine friendship/play partner who has good boundaries and doesn't mind getting rough when needed. If you need a firm hand to truly relax and let go, this might be a good fit. Ideally local so this can be a regular thing. I can host, would like you to be able to as well.
~fin