Looking for Advice
After I (M 28) got acquainted with the scene through my ex- partner, I signed up for a dating app for singles and couples. I'd never been on a dating app before; it never felt quite right. However, the idea of sharing this experience with a couple always appealed to me.
Not even a day after signing up, a charming couple (M 39 & F 32) contacted me, and we got along well and arranged a date in a few days. They seem pretty direct and simple, which I'm happy about for the first time that I'm going to be in a threesome. I look very shy in my pictures, which is how I am when I first meet people, and the more I think about the date, the more nervous I get.
The two of them know that I don't have much experience, and I know that not everything can go exactly as planned, but I'm sure there are many things you can do very wrong. Since my circle of friends is very closed off when it comes to sex talk, and there are hardly any perspectives on Reddit as a third party (M), I would be very grateful if I could get some pointers here, even if they seem obvious.
. My thoughts range from "how do I start, what do I say?" to "how does it all go, which positions, how should I behave, which questions should I ask?"
I hope you can help me. And that everything goes well. If you're interested, I'd be happy to give you an update after the meeting. Thanks in advance.