How to sub as someone very stubborn
Hiii, it's my first time posting anything on reddit in general, so give me some grace. Anyways, as the title suggests, I need some advice subbing.
Now, for context, im a switch who leans to the submissive side, but im also very stubborn. Im also a sadist + masochist but the second part rarely shows even though it's the "strongest." I think that my personality has something to do with this. Calling myself a brat is lowk corny , but I so think that i heavily classify as one.
Anyways, what i struggle with is letting someone dom me. All my previous partners have been subs or a switch that automatically let me take the lead cause of my personality, and even if I met someone whose a dom, i dont naturally show that im a sub cause im too stubborn to do so. So how do I let someone dom me or find someone more dominant?
(Sorry for all the spelling mistakes🥹✌️)