Newbies in a whole new world
Hey guys, just after recommendations for a 55M and 52F married couple who are going through a marriage renaissance after 23 years. Sexually we have gone from vanilla to wild due to a reset and now talking openly and honestly without prejudice. Spicy discussions are now a thing, revealing our fantasies have been revealed, using some moderate porn to reveal our turn ons, toys are now a big thing, masturbation unveiled. Anyway voyeurism has been a topic of interest for both of us. We ticked off the spicy vids and pics to each other, we had sex fully naked against a balcony railing at a promenade hotel which seemed easy. We’ve also thrown in a spicy couples massage with another female! These aren’t random last minute things, we discuss at length after I tend to do most of the in depth education. Every step has been exciting and positive but it’s certainly hasn’t gone without some apprehension and sometimes even embarrassment revealing our thoughts. Anyway we have discussed over a period of time what the next stage is for voyeurism and seems it’s at either being watched or watching during sex. I’ve suggested maybe a “lifestyle” club could be a consideration which seems crazy us even discussing this 🤣
Anyway I’ve googled options like Between Friends Wine Bar, Pineapples Lifestyle Bar and now looking into Shed 16.
Our discussions and boundaries are the following;
Feeling comfortable and actually going.
Not being harassed by slimy guys.
Being able to quietly sit and have a drink and observe.
Chatting to other couples or single woman without it being juvenile talk.
Feeling safe.
Possibly if all things being positive venture into the spicy area to have a look.
Our discussions have been having sex together close to others but always being together.
Once more only if things were crazy comfortable I’d say they’d be a remote chance that my wife might consider another female if that was a wild possibility.
Anyway maybe I should just post this before it becomes a novel if not already is🤦🏻♂️
The main question is what people’s thoughts are on what to explore next I suppose? Thanx in advance