u/Favibrown

So I made a post yesterday asking for advice about having sex for the first time and id like to thank everyone who gave advice.

This is the followup

So we had arranged to meet up at a coffee shop first to make sure he wasn't a serial killer haha then we headed to his place. He offered to drive so that's what we did. During the 5ish min drive I was just super nervous but had a hard on basically the whole time haha (might have been a semi but I was definitely leaking). We got to his place and just chatted a little first to see what I was comfortable with, we then headed into a room where the 'magic happened' so to speak. We started getting undressed (I was hard the whole time btw) and he started touching my cock, and guided me to the bed where he asked to 69. He rimmed me while I sucked him. I sat on his face and my crotch just rested on his chest which felt so warm. After a little bit he asked it i wanted to ride to which I requested to do doggy instead. We used coconut oil as lube for those wandering.

He was definitely thicker than I had expected so it took a bit of convincing to get it in, but once it was it boy did it feel great. My ass was up and my face deep inside a pillow. And well he kept at it, I must say that I didn't expect to be moaning but It came out naturally haha. He was just slowly ramming into me and I loved the feeling of his balls just slapping me each time haha. The whole time I was just hoping that I wouldn't cum first, I did come close a few times and it definitely showed as I was leaking pre everywhere. In the end he came deep inside and I felt everything haha (not as intense as what I was thinking but still), but the best part I would say was when we pulled out and out came his cum it was so warm and it was great, I unfortunately didn't finish but I don't mind haha.

I also forgot to mention that he is in an open relationship so his partner was home the whole time so we had to stay a little quiet haha. Also he was in his late 40s and I'm 20 for those who r curious, he is also a bear 😉.

But yeah that is my update thanks for reading and if u have any more questions feel free to ask 😋

Ok so basically if you go on my profile I post a lot haha but I've never had sex. However for as long as I have been posting I've been always looking around on grindr and sniffies trying to build up my confidence.

Finally after being locked for a bit I finally bit the bullet and asked a guy I had been on and off with to do it, and well it's happening tomorrow.

The plan is to grab lunch then head to his place, he is a much older gentleman than me but that's what I wanted (experienced). So yeah I'm super nervous but also so excited.

But now that I'm actually committed I'm not too sure how to prepare. Should I be cleaning myself before I get there or at his place, what should I bring?

Basically I would love to hear any advice. And happy to chat if you have any questions too 🫣

I'm also wanting to ask to take pics and vids too so look forward to that maybe haha.

Ok so basically if you go on my profile I post a lot haha but I've never had sex. However for as long as I have been posting I've been always looking around on grindr and sniffies trying to build up my confidence.

Finally after being locked for a bit I finally bit the bullet and asked a guy I had been on and off with to do it, and well it's happening tomorrow.

The plan is to grab lunch then head to his place, he is a much older gentleman than me but that's what I wanted (experienced). So yeah I'm super nervous but also so excited.

But now that I'm actually committed I'm not too sure how to prepare. Should I be cleaning myself before I get there or at his place, what should I bring?

Basically I would love to hear any advice. And happy to chat if you have any questions too 🫣

I'm also wanting to ask to take pics and vids too so look forward to that maybe haha.

Ok so basically if you go on my profile I post a lot haha but I've never had sex. However for as long as I have been posting I've been always looking around on grindr and sniffies trying to build up my confidence.

Finally after being locked for a bit I finally bit the bullet and asked a guy I had been on and off with to do it, and well it's happening tomorrow.

The plan is to grab lunch then head to his place, he is a much older gentleman than me but that's what I wanted (experienced). So yeah I'm super nervous but also so excited.

But now that I'm actually committed I'm not too sure how to prepare. Should I be cleaning myself before I get there or at his place, what should I bring?

Basically I would love to hear any advice. And happy to chat if you have any questions too 🫣

I'm also wanting to ask to take pics and vids too so look forward to that maybe haha.