r/chastityjourney

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Feel free to share more details in the comments if you wish.

I love the subreddits for Chastity, but the long form journey threads in Chastity Forums was a good source of both inspiration and accountability.
It suddenly went offline a week ago.
Anyone know what happened? Is it coming back?

Have had a chastity cage for a few years now but never used, wife didn’t really show interest when I would bring it up. About 6 months ago I decided I wanted to explore it more. I brought it up to the wife a few times and she still showed no interest. I finally brought it out and put it on during foreplay and she was taken aback by it at first but then became a little curious. The seed was planted! I would put it in occasionally when we were fooling around and would leave the keys the table on her side of the bed. She would ask me to take it off the next morning because she was still hesitant. Last week I told her I wanted to be locked up maybe starting with a week. She responded with “tomorrow “. Well tomorrow came and went, I was hoping she would bring it up but she didn’t. So I brought it up again last night, same response “tomorrow”. Well I took action and put it on this morning without her knowing and handed her the keys before I left for work and said put these in safe place. She looked at me with a surprised face and said what happens if you set some alarm off at work? (My cage is metal) I said don’t worry, we don’t have metal detectors or anything so I am good there. She held the keys in her hand and stared at them with this smirk in her face, then said I better not lose these and gave my cage a squeeze. I am now at work wondering how long this will last, she finally took the keys and I am sitting here locked up finally with her on board. Exciting times!

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For those of you engaging in chastity with a SO, how did you talk to them about it? Did you drop any hints or build up to it or just pop the question out of the blue? And when you finally talked about it what did each of you say?

I've been thinking of asking my wife for quite some time now, but I just don't know how to approach it and just have a deep irrational fear of rejection. I'd really like to hear from anyone who has talked to their SO about it, whether it led to something or not. I especially want to hear if there's anyone that started chastity with their SO as key holder and ended up stopping for whatever reason.

Me (M38) and My wife (F37)Keyholder started chastity play when we got engaged 9 years ago.

I thought I would share our chastity journey as I feel not many share there more intermittent vanilla chastity stories.

We were trying to be good Christians and not have sex before marage and I was struggling during make out sessions. Chastity was someting I had been interested in so I offered as a posible solution.She was open to the Idea but she's not very dominant.

So I bought a cb3000 and we did lock up for a day or two or just lock up Im coming over for supper and to make out you can unlock after I orgasum and go home.

Befor we got married I masterbated a lot so as a reset I desided to lock up for 2 week befor the wedding I had 1 week off befor then wedding so was not going to be to bad. We'll the cb3000 and my body didnt agree I got a sore on the under side of the shaft after week 1 so week 2 ended up be mental only chastity.

We agreed that during our marriage I would lock up on her period. I got a new holy trainer cage that fit better.

So september of are wedding to January thats what we did till she got pregnant. Well she was horny as hell on her frist pregnancy we fuck like rabits till hours before my eldest was born. Pore midwife had cum on her fingers checking dilation.

Then it all stoped we had 0 sexual contact for 18 mouths

I whent back to masterbating daily. Was a genraly bad time.

She got her period back 24months after are first was born and I locked up first time in 2 years. But it was some time of intimacy so what I jumped at it.

Then she got pregnant again. And we wheny back to fucking like rabits. For 9 moths. Then better this time we only whent 8 months of no intimacy.

She got her period back 18 months after birth this time and my chastity started again.

Note we hade been maried for 4 year she only had 6 periods due to pregnancy and breast feeding delaying return. Only 1 between pregnancies.

And thats all it was a her period would come she would lock me for 2 days becash she didn't what me wearing it to work any more and then she with use a toy on my ass and have me cum after unlocking.

Till last month I asked to do longer lock ups. Stressing she can unlock me for sex if she liked or not. I have 4 days weekend every outher week for a few moths so I locked up for 4 days we had sex 3 of the nights she enjoyed it and said to lock up every weekend off work. So tonight I lock up again till monday night.

We are not as exciting as a lot of couples hear but it us. I enjoy prostate simulation my wife tolerates it.

Took me 4 years of asking befor she would let me go down on her.

We have played with some bondage her tied up befor the kids but mostly now its the kids are a sleep fuck me, little to no forplay. (I would realy prefer more forplay)

Im open to answering questions.

Yes Im shure my spelling and gramer is horable.

I have a learning disability, given I was told I would never read and wright Im doing my best ok.

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If you haven’t read the first part, check my profile.After having my best friend hold my keys for a week

— the longest I’ve ever gone without losing my mind

— I finally hit my breaking point. I was deep in a two-hour gooning session, completely blissed out and not thinking straight, when I asked her:

“Do you think you could fully control me?”

She wasn’t sure what I meant, so I explained everything. I told her I wanted to be locked in chastity under her control. I wanted her to make me goon at home on camera for her, worship her feet, and have my balls slapped, kicked, and squeezed whenever she felt like it. I wanted to be completely under her control — the most desperate, frustrated, and submissive I could possibly be.She didn’t reply for a while. Those 40 minutes felt like forever, and I was sweating, convinced I had just ruined our friendship. Then she finally responded:“Yeah, that sounds like fun.”

My heart dropped to the floor and started racing around the room. My best friend had just agreed to become my Domme.I sent her some chastity couple accounts for inspiration (Malice Jade, PrincessMiaXXX, Chastity April, etc.) and asked if she’d be open to making a public page to document our journey. She said yes to that too.

That conversation happened yesterday, so things are still very new. I’ll keep you all updated as it progresses. This feels like the real beginning of my true submissive journey.Right now I’m working on helping her set up her Reddit and Twitter accounts, and we’re planning to share some pictures of us

(I’m a 6’4 Black guy and she’s a 5’4 white girl).Wish me luck.

My wife's property has officially been secured into its primary “residence“. We received “her” Ti cage from BAWR and I have been locked in it long enough to know that it's everything that we had hoped it would be. Beautifully crafted by BAWR from the model created by as part of his CBNS Bespoke Cage Design Service (see my review of collaborating with CBNS on the design here). The combined talents of BAWR and CBNS have proven to be the perfect match in creating a cage that is sleek, very comfortable and with the tetherspout support extremely secure. I know I'm biased but in my opinion it's a damn fine looking cage and I'm proud to wear it. We've named it Freyrsvarðlás in a nod to my Nordic ancestors which means, “Freyr's Guarded Lock”. Freyr is the Norse Fertility God. Photos of Freyrsvarðlás.

The primary differences between the “final test cage” and Freyrsvarðlás is color, material and the junction (Comparison photo). The “final test cage” is black, made from nylon and has a barrel lock junction while Freyrsvarðlás is anodized blue (28V), made from Ti and has a security screw junction. The security screw junction is based on a design that newbie-sub created and used on some of his personal cages. It makes the cage easy to install without pinching while also providing a sleek, low profile. The surface finish is outstanding...luxuriously smooth. Which I'm sure you'll agree is most definitely an advantage considering what will be locked inside. The design of the tetherspout mount protects the end of the tetherspout from catching on your clothing while allowing it to freely rotate to stay aligned with your body to maintain comfort. Each side of the mount is threaded to allow two short security screws to lock the tetherspout in place making removal of the cage exceptionally difficult without risking injury to the Keyholder's property. Using two short screws keeps the inside diameter of the tetherspout open resulting in less disruption of the urine stream. For those of you sensitive to weight I believe that you would be happy with a Ti cage. It is heavier than the nylon cage but still very light especially if compared to the weight of a steel cage made from the same design.

Hopefully it's clear that I'm very, very happy with the results of the collaboration with CBNS and BAWR. As I've mentioned BAWR's craftsmanship is excellent but I believe the true key to the success of this cage is the design provided by CBNS. CBNS was able to bring to life the cage I had envisioned and I am very grateful for his efforts. If a custom cage is in your future consider taking the next step by getting a bespoke cage that fits you exactly and provides the comfort and esthetics you're looking for to support your chastity lifestyle. CBNS and BAWR will not disappoint!