r/chastityjourney

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Today I've been locked for 3 straight weeks. This is my first time being locked and unable to touch myself.

Crazy how much I feel I've changed in these weeks. Definitely feel more in tune with myself and feel much more sensitive.

Now 15 days since my last orgasm.

Just wanna thank the guys here. I don't comment much, I'm more of a lurker but your posts and comments have helped me get this far. So thanks guys.

Now definitely aiming for at least 1 more week so I've done a month.

My wonderful Goddess, u/realankri, is once again guiding me further into being a full submissive. Her latest demand is the toughest one for me yet, but I am resolved to comply in full and to be a good little boy for Her.

A little context first. I have been caged and owned by Goddess since Locktober of 2025. What started out as a fun thing to try for a couple maybe three months has turned into a lifestyle experience. I had always wanted a keyholder to lock me up, but I didn't think my Locktober experiment would lead me to a Goddess and my Mommy Domme.

In the time I've been Her submissive, I've gone from daily full orgasms to ruined orgasms only every few days. Then only once per week and now 1-2 times per month if that. I gradually went from looking at porn whenever I wanted to no porn except Her. I've learned how to show Her devotion from afar and how to better manage my sexual urges so Her pleasure and desires come first. With each step I took, it felt so good to grow closer to Her. Goddess also helped me discover how strong my kinks are, especially my denial kink, which leads me to today's change.

Goddess informed me that starting today, I will be nudity free. I already can't look at porn without Her permission. Now, She has ordered me to delete all photos of Her that contain any nudity. If She is clothed or if it is a photo of Her feet, I can keep it. 😳

When She told me this, I felt a simultaneous pit in my stomach and an immediate buzz in Her little penis. I told Her this would be the most challenging command yet to follow. There are so many photos from Her that are part of the journey we've experienced together. I don't want to lose those photos and those memories. However, I also say as part of a daily ritual for Her that Her guidance is my truth. Goddess has reassured me that there will be photos to look forward to if I'm a good boy, and that I may earn some past photos back as a reward for good behavior or special accomplishments.

I've already deleted a number of photos from our message thread and I will do the remaining by the end of the day. This is part of our journey and I trust Her with every fiber in me. She always takes care of me and respects me as a whole person, which is why I continue to be owned by Her. u/Realankri, You are my Goddess and I will follow You to any depth You desire. 🙇🏻💋🦶

Hello everyone, I’ve recently acquired a cheap Amazon shaft only cage and you may have seen my post about glans ring sizing help. Well I finally found the right size and have been wearing the new cage for a couple days now. Something happened last night that kinda blew my mind a bit and I’m compelled to give you all my thoughts.

First some context: I’ve been married coming up on 3 years now and the wife and I got into chastity about 4.5-5 years ago. I had known about it for a number of years before I met her but never had the courage to buy one. After her and I moved in together we began discussing our sex life here and there. I opened the topic of chastity since she had no clue what it was (she’s from a very sheltered Mormon family) anyways one thing leads to another I get a cheap cage we fool around a bit, time passes chastity is here and there bla bla bla. Eventually I get a real kink3d cage and start doing more long term stuff bla bla bla she starts wearing my key around her neck the whole nine yards. We had fun with it. Even walked the Vegas strip with my key on full display between her breasts in a very low cut top which was incredibly exciting. Thought it all though I had constant struggles with all the ball trap cages I tried. Chaffing, irritation, inability to pee conveniently, etc. and the lockups started to get more distant especially with me unable to wear the cage at work because I require the ability to pee outside sometimes at work and I have never found a ball trap cage that lets me do anything but sit to pee as not to make a mess. Eventually my wife gets pregnant and the cage fades away. Fast forward to present day and my son is 1 year old and things are sorta finding a new rhythm for us again. I began to get interested in digging up the old cage again and getting back into it. However instantly I was reminded of the old hassles and pains that came with it. So with a heavy heart I resigned myself to the thought of never caging seriously again. That’s when I stumbled upon a picture of a strange looking device. It turned out to be a craverise shaft only cage. This peaked my interest and I began to research which led me to this page and all of you fine people.

Main discussion:
Ok so last night I had work my new Amazon shaft only cage all the live long day and it was now bed time. The wife had fallen asleep but I was restless and decided to hop on Reddit and do some good old fashioned gooning for a while. Well after a bit I start to get erect so I lower my underwear to kinda check things out you know for curiosity sake lol. And as I’m laying there gooning on Reddit with an erection now free from the confines of my underwear I instinctively reach down to tease myself like normal as if I didn’t have any cage on. When my hand met the covered head of my member and I didn’t feel that familiar sensation of skin on skin and the pleasures that come with that boy oh boy did I feel something new. My heart began to race as I frantically tried to pleasure myself to no avail. I couldn’t stroke, I couldn’t rub the head, I couldn’t feel anything but what in my eyes chastity is supposed to make you feel. True denial. Now I thought a ball trap cage was the way to go for this feeling but turns out for me, I didn’t know what I was missing until that moment laying in my bed unable to feel any sort of pleasurable feeling from my hand. I could move my shaft. I could touch the base but the important bits, the bits that matter… nothing. Just plastic. And this inability to do anything WHILE I WAS HARD made it wayyyy better (or worse depending on how you look at it) than any ball trap design I’ve ever had. The fact that I COULD get hard but couldn’t actually do anything about it made it all the more gloriously frustrating. And the more I lay there gooning the more my member throbbed and the more frustrated I got at not being able to chase that pleasure I was used to. Never in all my time with ball trap devices had I ever been this frustrated and happy. Eventually I was forced by this new cage to accept surrender, put my phone away, and agonizingly wait for my heart to slow and my shaft to soften before I could finally go to sleep. And in the morning? Well I was able to get right up and go stand over my toilet to release some fluids. STAND. I was able to stand! No mess! No inadvertent splashes. No pee hole being misaligned with the opening. No struggle to actually get flow because it’s a bit too tight in the small cage with some morning wood. I just… WENT! It was incredible! I took it off today to go to physical therapy as well as to clean the thing, but the fact of the matter is, I could actually easily wear this thing anywhere! I might finally have a shot at long term lockup! Real long term! I could actually get to do what my wife and I set out to do in the first place. Hand her the key and she gets to unlock me when she wants! Not because I have to work. Not because the bad ring is rubbing me raw. Not because I need to use a urinal wherever I am headed. No no no with this shaft only design she can do what we originally discussed. Only unlocking to make beautiful love to my wife. That’s a possibility now and I couldn’t be happier! I’ve ordered me a cravrise shaft only cage now (I want a HZD cage but sadly money is a bit tight right now) and I’m so excited to go to my wife and let her know what I’ve discovered. Is there a trade off? Sure in the other cages I couldn’t get hard which was nice I did enjoy that. But being able to have so much comfort and freedom plus the new frustration and denial I’m feeling from this design the trade off is absolutely worth it! Anyways I hope all of you enjoy reading my thoughts if you choose to and I hope it brings some friendly discussion in the comments. Thanks!

I’ve been struggling with this for sometime and I know it’s common so I figured I’d ask for help. I can’t get over the post nut clarity to eat my cum off of her, and she’s too submissive to force me to eat it.

Thing is I know I really want to, I’ve eaten my cum many times but only while caged or with a ruined orgasm. If we are having sex my wife doesn’t want me to ruin myself or be locked, which is fine I want her to enjoy us time and not impose my kinks over her wants.

So I’m left with full orgasm and I just stare at it for a solid 10-15 seconds before she wants to go clean up. She’s supportive of me wanting to clean my cum, but she’s just not going to make me.

My wife and I play with chastity, bondage, T&D, and other basic not crazy kinks. She’s not interested in cuckolding which is fine, but since I know I can’t eat another persons cum I’m not sure how to get over this hump.

Any advice on how I can start getting myself to clean her up each time would be amazing thanks. Last post got deleted so trying again, one person said to write a note to wife asking her to cheer me on after I cum so I’m trying that.