r/chastityjourney

Isn't it strange how a vanilla woman wants a man to love her to the point of she's his one and only. When asked to be a Key Holder for his chastity, will be put off because she considers it "weird." When all along the Chase wants to worship and give his fidelity to her. Something she wants and desires until there is a little cage involved. It really doesn't make sense.

Im caged and going on holiday should i remove the cage before i go through security obviously id rather not remove it

Has anyone done this before would welcome any advice

Hi everyone, I've posted a couple times previously about how people got into it, etc, and I swear I'm working up to talking to my SO about it but it's been bad timing with some significant life changes lately.

But how does it all work for everyone? Obviously there's the more fetishized version where your SO literally never lets you unlock or even cum, and I have no doubt some people do some variant of that. But what else does it look like for you?

Do you cum monthly? Weekly? Biweekly? Do you always cum caged or do you unlock for some PiV or something else?

Do you lock/unlock daily? Do you lock for a week/month then unlock for a week/month? Does anyone lock just for sexy time and stay unlocked after?

How many of you engage in reverse pegging/fauxing or whatever you want to call it when you wear a strap-on over/attached to the cage to use for PiV? And how did you work up to that?

For those with children, or frequent family events, how do you handle it around them? Is it just an extra effort to keep it hidden sometimes like any sex toy, or is there any extra recommendation for dealing with that?

I've got a million and one questions for this kinda stuff because I really want to get my facts straight to bring it up to my SO.

Something I have seen here, again and again, is questions asked without enough context.

"I have X problem with my cage/ring." Well, link to the product page. If we knew what your cage was like, we could give better answers, which might range from "You can fix this yourself in 10 minutes using your kitchen stove," to "You need to read every single word u/newbie-sub has ever written, and then buy a different one."

"My girlfriend has Y objection." Are you two a household? Or do you see her a couple of times a week? Because if it's the first, the answer is that you have to have a serious sit-down talk, but if it's the second, you can probably get her to agree to hold your key for a few days at a time, pretty easily, try that for a while, and then have that serious sit-down talk.

So the wife and I are getting back into chastity after having a short hiatus. Like always we look for ways to spice up the situation and in the past we’ve been very casual. Looking to bring it to a more serious situation.

Previously I have gone almost 24/7 for about two months with consistent wear on and off. So I’m no stranger to over night wear. What we are looking for is suggestions on rules and punishments other than the obvious, no being u locked unless she decides it’s okay.

Suggestions are appreciated!

I locked myself a year ago.

I've been in and out of chastity for a few years before, locking for a few days up to a month

One day i felt like i wanted to, so i locked myself

At first, I wanted to stay locked for a week, just a little challenge, just for fun

But after the first week passed, I didn’t unlock.

One week is good, two is way better !

After that, i wanted to unlock so bad, so took my key and went to shower, i unlocked, cleaned my cock and... put my cage back on, reflex, i only realized after i got out of the shower !

I was leaking but i wanted to push my limit so i stayed locked.

Then i realized i was more than halfway to my record, i wanted to beat it, so i stayed locked. 

Then locktober was close, i didn't want to break my "streak" so i didn't unlock before 

And as you can probably tell by the title, didn't unlock after.

And now i'm here, i hit the symbolic milestone of 1 year.

I'm so proud.

I still fell like i want to unlock almost every day but the longer I stay locked, the less reason there is to stop…

I hope you liked my story and hope it can motivate and inspire others 

I'll try to answer any questions as best as i can

I have a nub chastity cage that is a plastic material but I run into being rubbed raw under my balls is it because the ring is slightly to big?