I have a mommy "kink" and I'm finally coming to terms with it.

So idk how to start this, so forgive me if I'm all over the place. So, I think I started to accept my overall attraction to the "mommy" type of women around like a few weeks ago. Though my attraction to them sprouted, I think over a year ago. It's only now that I finally admit it to myself that... I just want that kind of woman, ya know?

I put the air quotes in the title because it's not SOLELY a sex thing. I just dream about coming home to someone who wants to be around me and dote on me. I want to be held and get head pats and be told that I do such a good job. To be honest, I don't even know if that classifies as a mommy kink. I mean, I am attracted to a woman who would want to take more "initiative" over our relationship and to just... feel safe. In a way, I like being gently ordered around. Like being dommed by a gentle and caring woman who just wants to protect me.

I've had girlfriends before (complete dumpster fire), and they weren't at all like what you would call more "maternal" or "doting." So, after about a year of being single (since 2024) in 2025, I noticed that I found older (and taller) women far more attractive. The whole idea of being praised and pampered (just a little bit) genuinely sparked something in me that I had never felt before. I just want to be LIKED by someone and that they want to hold me and make me feel safe enough to be submissive almost. The reason I like taller women than me (I'm sorta short) is because they make me feel small in a non degrading kind of way where I can just relax.

Gotta keep it a buck. This is really embarrassing, and no, I don't have mommy issues (at least I sure as shit hope I don't). I just don't know who to confide in about this kind of thing. So I'm posting it here. I think that's all I have to mention for now unless I'm forgetting something so yeah. Anyway thanks for reading this post if you did so.

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u/FeatureFabulous1120 — 13 hours ago

Daisy 2.0 or caroline?

TLDR is in the conclusion at the bottom with some additional notes.

Okay, so I've come to an almost final decision about which doll will be my first product from tantaly, and I've decided it's either going to be caroline or Daisy 2.0.

So now I'm going to cover their differences by category.

Weight:

Daisy 2.0 is roughly 40 pounds (38 minimum according to the site). Also, I want to ask this for any Daisy 2.0 owners. How hard is it *exactly* to move Daisy 2.0 around? Is it super difficult? Is it like a mini workout? Please let me know.

Caroline is 26 pounds, so she's 12 pounds lighter than Daisy. To me, that's only an advantage because it'll he easier to move her while cleaning. There's not much else to say.

Price:

Caroline is $420, and Daisy 2.0 is $580 (I added 80 dollars to their original prices because of the cleaning kit add-on). The price for these dolls isn't an issue.

Overall circumference:

To me, it's not THAT different between caroline and Daisy, but they are different sizes, and I do prefer Daisy 2.0 because I just like big butts.

Positions:

I think they're both meant for doggy but like I said in my last post I'm more concerned about how they would be for Amazon and mating press and the answers I got were that they would both be great for these positions.

Polystyrene boxes:

Again, the sizes of these boxes aren't an issue for me. I have ample space.

Cleaning and maintenance:

To be honest, I'm equally nervous about cleaning either doll I get. I'm not sure how long cleaning them would take, and Daisy's weight is sort of a concern for me, but I'm more worried about contamination and up keep than the weight for Daisy.

Conclusion:

My overall concerns are regarding cleaning the dolls and the weight of Daisy 2.0. I love big butts and I'm not THAT scared of Daisy's weight, but it is something to consider. I'm around 5'8 and 150 pounds, so maybe I'll have a hard time moving her? I'm not sure.

WEIGHT for Daisy 2.0

I've heard many people mention how heavy Daisy is, and im sort of concerned but not enough to deter me from getting her. If anyone has Daisy 2.0 or Caroline, can you please tell me your experience moving them around and handling them? Is it a hassle to movie Daisy 2.0 around? Please let me know.

EMPHASIS on cleaning:

I would love all the advice I could get about cleaning the dolls and maybe even getting extra tools to clean them the best as I can.

Thanks for any and all advice.

Edit: By cleaning tools, I meant if anyone used 3rd party cleaning products that are just as good as what tantaly provides.

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u/FeatureFabulous1120 — 4 days ago

Does the formula length × width × height apply to daisy's polystyrene box?

As the title says, although it is kind of silly, I do want to confirm the dimensions of the box. In the image for the polystyrene box, it's 22.05 inches by 14.96 inches by 17.52 inches. So, applying the L×W×H formula respective to each measurement, is it correct? The length would be 22.05 inches. The height would be 17.52 inches. The width would be 14.96 inches. Here's the edited image of the polystyrene box that daisy would come in.

I'm not sure if this is correct, so please let me know. If anyone has the actual correct measurements, please send them to me.

u/FeatureFabulous1120 — 11 days ago

Which of these dolls would be best suited for mating press and Amazon position?

Alright, so I'm still shopping to find out which doll will be my first, and I'm starting to think my first doll will be a butt doll. I've boiled it down to 1 of these 5 dolls to purchase, which are Daisy 2.0, rosie, Cecilia, Caroline, and Grace.

So, just to cut it short, which one do you guys think would be best suited for mating press and Amazon position? Those are my two favorites, and I've "simulated" them with my fleshlight, but to be honest, it's just not cutting it.

As for why hannah is here, she's the main doll I want, and the same question applies. For those that have hannah as a doll, have you tried her in mating press and Amazon? Did it work out for you?

Thank you for any and all insights and advice.

u/FeatureFabulous1120 — 13 days ago

[M4F] looking for an older woman to roleplay as my mom

So hi, I'm from the United States. I've had this urge to be dominated by an older woman while she pretends to be my mother. And I would like for someone to do that with me.

The scenario: The mother is a single mother since she gave birth because the father simply left and never looked back. The mother always had a hard time struggling to connect with people, and the only person she has a genuinely close bond with is her son. As he grows up, he starts to have an innocent crush on his mom, which is fine at first. But as the years go buy and the son reaches adulthood, he realizes it's real and that he's falling in love. The only person he's ever had eyes for is his own mother.

One night, the son finds his mom crying on her bed. He checks in on her and tries to see what's wrong. The mother says, "I'm okay," but the son knows she's lying. He insisted she tell him what's actually wrong, and she finally confessed that she felt alone. That no one loves her, that no one finds her attractive. But then the son tells her she's the most beautiful person in the world and anyone would be crazy not to fall for her. But in that moment, the mother sees it in his eyes. His deep, genuine, and romantic love for her. They share a moment of silence and share a passionate kiss that only lovers have. The rest goes on from there.

My kinks: I like being dominated, but I can also be a switch if you get tired of it. I like being called a good boy and a good puppy. And I like to be lightly tied up and blind folded. I also enjoy wearing a collar and being slapped lightly. I'm really into scent play and hairy women as well.

My limits: I'm not into anything forced or any kind of rape. I also don't like extreme physical, psychological, or sexual violence done to me or the person I'm role-playing with. I also don't like degrading or being degraded. Also, no scat or pee. And I am absolutely not doing any form of cuckolding.

For further details, please feel free to dm me, and we can talk more about the things we want to do together and share our kinks, fetishes, and limits

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u/FeatureFabulous1120 — 2 months ago