I have a mommy "kink" and I'm finally coming to terms with it.
So idk how to start this, so forgive me if I'm all over the place. So, I think I started to accept my overall attraction to the "mommy" type of women around like a few weeks ago. Though my attraction to them sprouted, I think over a year ago. It's only now that I finally admit it to myself that... I just want that kind of woman, ya know?
I put the air quotes in the title because it's not SOLELY a sex thing. I just dream about coming home to someone who wants to be around me and dote on me. I want to be held and get head pats and be told that I do such a good job. To be honest, I don't even know if that classifies as a mommy kink. I mean, I am attracted to a woman who would want to take more "initiative" over our relationship and to just... feel safe. In a way, I like being gently ordered around. Like being dommed by a gentle and caring woman who just wants to protect me.
I've had girlfriends before (complete dumpster fire), and they weren't at all like what you would call more "maternal" or "doting." So, after about a year of being single (since 2024) in 2025, I noticed that I found older (and taller) women far more attractive. The whole idea of being praised and pampered (just a little bit) genuinely sparked something in me that I had never felt before. I just want to be LIKED by someone and that they want to hold me and make me feel safe enough to be submissive almost. The reason I like taller women than me (I'm sorta short) is because they make me feel small in a non degrading kind of way where I can just relax.
Gotta keep it a buck. This is really embarrassing, and no, I don't have mommy issues (at least I sure as shit hope I don't). I just don't know who to confide in about this kind of thing. So I'm posting it here. I think that's all I have to mention for now unless I'm forgetting something so yeah. Anyway thanks for reading this post if you did so.