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I am in in FLR since I met my (now) husband, but I wonder if that´s the case for evryone or in some cases he FLR develops over time or becuase of a specific event. Would love to know how it started for other couples

I have just replied to a post regarding this subject and it seems to be pretty common in an FLR for the woman to have full control of the male´s orgasms, as many have replied so.
My question is, for those that control the man orgasms, whihc frequency do you consider ideal?