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Kinkshaming as a mechanism for degradation
I think this is something I’ve always possibly known in the back of my head but I’ve just connected the dots. As much as kink shaming is “not acceptable” behaviour, the energy of it comes through in most degradation in healthy ways. The way it triggers my sub space when someone is surprised at the fact that I’m into a certain kink or fetish…
*Omg that’s so nasty! I never would have expected that from you*
Like it’s not inherently shaming me, but the idea that something is so filthy that it shocks people I think are loosely tied. The concept that I (or the way I present myself in vanilla life) shouldn’t be into something just SENDS me into it more.
Probably not the best articulation of that thought pattern but yeah
Someone told me they want to wear my hands as a necklace and that will forever stick with me
Does anyone else have lines like this just burned into their brain? Something small that you wouldn’t necessarily expect to hit but it just DOES
I feel like the genuine interactions in the Perth community are becoming SO much harder to find so just going to be as blunt as it gets, title says it all, reach out if you’re a genuine couple, I’m openminded and a genuine fucking delight ✨ lets see where things go 🙂