34F4M #Pittsburgh
Hi! As the title suggests I’m a 34 year old woman. I have three youngish kids, and I live north of the city.
I’ve done this once before and found a relationship with a truly wonderful man on this subreddit. We broke up because he’s trying to save his marriage, and I still miss him, but while I might still glance back at that door from time to time, it’s closed. When someone chooses to leave my life willingly, no matter how noble the reason, I take that choice seriously and move on. That being said, I would like to take things slow because of that recent heartbreak.
Outside of all the normal activities that come with being a soccer mom in the suburbs, I also love Harry Potter (bonus points if you look like Draco Malfoy), wine, strength training, going to concerts and out with friends, and playing devils advocate whenever possible because banter is fun and intelligence is sexy. I work a professional job with loose ties to the political climate so if politics aren’t your thing, you’ll probably get annoyed with me fast as I love to complain about our president.
One big thing I’m missing at home, is physical attraction. I’m petite and in shape and probably would describe myself as cute? But im super open to sharing photos early because one of the things I loved about my ex was how physically attracted I was to him. Chemistry and mental compatibility play a part in that too of course but wow was it fun to just look at him and be like okay you’re hot lol.
Related to that, I’m also interested in dom/sub dynamics- inexperienced, but interested.
Cheers to hoping lightening strikes twice for me in this sub. 🥂