Submissive without a dominant. I’m struggling.
Seriously struggling…..
I married my first Dominant and then he is not a dom anymore (he’s very sometimesy). Long story short divorce isn’t an option.
I feel lost and stuck. Just wondering if there’s any other subs that have felt what I feel and how to get through it.
How to be a submissive without a dominant? Do I just shut down this side of me? If I push for it it’s just unmet needs. Desire to be a good girl but no one to be good to. Desire to serve but no recognition or acknowledgement for the service. Wanting to brat and play but no one to meet my mental and physical needs to put me in my place or to remind me why I should submit. Idk what I’m asking. Maybe how to shut it down so I don’t feel the disappointment of not having a dominant? How to get the itch scratched while still being good? Why the hell do I want to be good? There’s nothing to be good for 😪
I can’t utilize what I feel is my only solution so I guess this is just a vent I suppose. Carry on with your day fellow subs don’t mind the sad girl in the corner 😂 😞