I dunno about the rest of you, but I still find myself thinking about sexual matters a lot these days. I can't say I feel like putting the same effort into actually having sex, though. It is definitely not a physical limitation, more of a, "eh.... maybe later" kind of feeling. Anyone else similarly situated?
The idea of masturbating with someone has a certain allure for me, but also seems really uncomfortable too. Even as a male, my mind doesn't.work in porn mode where i can meet someone and 20 minutes later be going.at it together.. It seems there would need to be a high level of trust, openness, and honesty developed before any touching, rubbing, or stroking would feel right. Am I just being uptight or does this about right to you all? Having someone i had that level of trust with and who was interested in masturbating together would be truly amazing. Sounds like it would be a project to get there though, but probably all so worth it.