u/ForeverAndNeverEver

I'm a customer and I'm interested in knowing how much the club is taking for different club activities (lap dance, VIP, stage etc..). I want to know so that I can properly adjust my tip to align with what I actually want to give the ladies. IDK I just feel better knowing.

But, I do wonder if this is a forbidden subject that could get the strippers in trouble with club management. Sure, I could test the OTC waters so that they take all of it home, but at this time that's not my thing.

I've had two encounters recently where a foul odor hits me as a lap dance is under way. This has happened to me in the past here and there. It is a deciding factor in whether or not I grab future dances. But, I typically don't say anything because once the dance is over I'm out of there. In these situations there wasn't a ton of grinding.

I realize there's another human being half naked on my lap. And while I don't expect it I know it happens.

Customers, what do you do in this situation?

Dancers, how do you expect a customer to react?

So, this weekend I met a new dancer. She told me she was new and that it was her first night. I don't think this was part of her hustle because the few dances she gave me were a bit rough. Mostly because she wasn't taking her time and kept banging my knees with her boots 😆. Not a big deal. I wanted to help her along so I paid for her drink then asked how many VIPs she had sold that evening. She said none so I offered to be her first. She took her cranberry juice and off we went.

We entered a VIP booth and she wanted to wipe down the couch and said she'd be right back with some wipes. I noticed she left her drink in the booth with me.

When she returned I asked if I could offer her a bit of advice, she said sure. So I just suggested that she not leave her drink unattended because you never know. She seemed a little defensive, and said "well they pat everyone down". But I think she knew what I suggested made sense so she thanked me.

Ladies, what do you think? Is that an insult of some sort or would you appreciate it? I did my best to sound friendly and not like I was reprimanding her. But, I suspect the age difference may have triggered the initial defensive reaction.

It just bugged the hell outta me so I had to say something.

TLDR: Suggested to a new dancer, that she refrain from leaving her drink unattended. She was initially defensive.